The Fight for Us

Overcome What Divides to Build a Marriage That Thrives

De: Rebekah Lyons, Gabe Lyons

Narrado por: Rebekah Lyons, Gabe Lyons

Read by the authors.

An insightful, powerful path forward for couples, whether you're in a struggling marriage or simply looking for ways to enhance and strengthen your relationship.

Marriage is hard for all kinds of reasons—financial struggles, parenting styles, personality differences, difficult circumstances. It's easy to drift apart, walking through life more as roommates than partners. But there's so much more for your marriage. The Fight for Us offers biblical wisdom and encouragement, as well as practical guidance, that will give you the confidence you need to cultivate the happy and healthy marriage you long for.

Rebekah and Gabe Lyons shepherd you as ones who have been there—many times—in their twenty-seven-year marriage, while also drawing on their mental-health coaching and marriage-counseling expertise to help you breathe new life into your marriage. The Fight for Us will guide you to:

• Discover why you fight, how you fight, and how to overcome toxic patterns to fight well
• Renew your commitment to love, care for, and show grace to your spouse
• Relinquish coping mechanisms and/or addictions that have come between you
• Understand your spouse's needs while still validating your own
• Establish goals and rhythms that will deepen your friendship and intimacy as a couple
• And, most of all, lean on the One who fights for you and your marriage

Whatever your reason for fighting for your marriage, The Fight for Us covers it all: community, health, money, parenting, career, sex, conflict, and spirituality. Your journey toward a growing, healthy, thriving marriage starts here.

Reflection questions can be found in the audiobook companion PDF download.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2025 Rebekah Lyons and Gabe Lyons (P)2025 Zondervan

A great starting point for enhancing you marriage at any stage!

Whatever stage of marriage you are in this book offers practical help for enriching your life together. Gabe and Rebekah offer well researched concepts that they have lived out in real time. They share candidly from their own experiences and do not gloss over their own need to continually work at their marriage as well as on themselves personally. I appreciate the fact that they encourage the listener-reader to engage with your partner and that open, consistent communication is key.

They use Biblical text throughout, highlighting Scripture that guides us in how we are to love one another well. (This was my favorite part of the book.) Even if you are not a person of faith as they are, the relationship tools they share are applicable across all audiences.

I would encourage readers to also check out their podcast “Rhythms for Life” and well as Rebekah’s other books.

Exactly What We Needed

We had been waiting for this book to launch for months—and it did not disappoint! Gabe and Rebekah write with such holy vulnerability, and the way they open up about marriage is both refreshing and profound. My husband and I read it together on a long drive, and we found ourselves in tears. So many of the things they touched on are things we’re walking through right now. This book has definitely earned a place in our marriage ‘toolbox.’ We love them dearly and are praying that every couple who reads this is enriched the way we were.