Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed
Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role
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Family scapegoating is an insidious form of "invisible" abuse that is difficult to recognize. It is therefore critical that adult survivors of dysfunctional or narcissistic family systems understand what type of abuse they are trying to recover from. In Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed, licensed psychotherapist and family systems expert Rebecca C. Mandeville uses her research findings on what she named "Family Scapegoating Abuse" (FSA) to help survivors recognize and release the damaging "scapegoat" narrative associated with the family "identified patient" role. This second revision includes additional recovery suggestions, and updated resources.
In this book you'll discover:
● How to recognize and identify family scapegoating abuse (FSA) signs and symptoms
● Why scapegoated individuals have difficulty recognizing they are being abused
● How complex trauma (C-PTSD), betrayal trauma, and toxic shame impede FSA recovery
● Strategies to reduce fawn/submit behaviors and realign with your "true self"
● Recommended resources and therapy modalities for FSA recovery
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 45
This book is for those who suffered as the scapegoat child to a narcissistic parent. The scapegoat child is emotionally deprived, devalued and trapped by the parent. The child comes to believe they are defective and undeserving. These beliefs can plague the individual into adulthood.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Eye opening
- De Belle en 07-24-23
De: Jay Reid
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But It’s Your Family...
- Cutting Ties with Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath
- De: Dr. Sherrie Campbell
- Narrado por: Dr. Sherrie Campbell
- Duración: 8 h y 25 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 355
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 313
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 311
But It’s Your Family is a remarkable account of what it means to cut ties to toxic family abuse and thrive in the aftermath. Loving someone doesn’t always mean having a relationship with them, just like forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation. Reconciling, in many cases, only sets people up for more abuse. A significant part of healing comes with accepting that this is a part of life; there are some relationships that are so poisonous that they destroy one’s ability to be healthy and function best.
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5 out of 5 stars
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My second purchase! Well done!
- De Shenandoah Titus, Esq., Author of Bullies, Bosses & Betrayal: Overcoming Workplace Abuse en 08-27-20
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Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abusive Parents
- How to Heal, Cultivate Emotional Resilience, and Build the Life and Love You Deserve
- De: Sherrie Campbell PhD
- Narrado por: Sherrie Campbell
- Duración: 6 h y 9 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 43
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 41
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 41
When your parents are pathologically self-centered, manipulative, or emotionally abusive, the pain they cause is deep and often difficult to put into words. You may experience anxiety, depression, complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD), low self-esteem, addiction, or other mental health conditions as an adult. But it was not your fault, and there are tools you can use to heal the trauma caused by your childhood.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Felt words were given to my experiences
- De Britney en 07-02-24
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How Scapegoats Can Heal from Narcissistic Abuse
- 3 Steps Towards Compassion, Protection & Freedom
- De: Jay Reid
- Narrado por: Todd Lewandowski
- Duración: 8 h y 5 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 1
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 1
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 1
Are you afraid to feel good? Do you see everyone else pursuing their right to happiness yet feel held back? Do you feel alone, strange or that there’s something wrong with you? Here’s the good news: None of these feelings are true! This is how people feel after a childhood as the scapegoat to a narcissistic parent. These parents require this child to feel bad so that they don’t have to. Scapegoat children learn it is psychologically dangerous to feel good about who they are. This book lays out three steps to finally make it safe to feel good about yourself.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Read/listen this if you want to feel heard and seen. Incredible.
- De Haiden en 05-30-25
De: Jay Reid
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Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members
- Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut
- De: Sherrie Campbell PhD, Wendy T. Behary LCSW - foreword
- Narrado por: Sherrie Campbell
- Duración: 7 h y 13 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 278
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 246
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 246
Do you have a toxic family member? Do you feel like cutting ties with this person—even as painful and scary as that may sound—would dramatically increase your well-being and improve your life? You're not alone. In Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, psychologist and toxic family survivor Sherrie Campbell offers effective strategies for setting strong boundaries after ending contact with a toxic family member, and provides powerful tools to help you heal from shame, self-doubt, and stigma. You'll find the validation you need to embrace your decision with pride.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Taking my power back
- De INDIGENOUSLY EDS en 04-13-24
De: Sherrie Campbell PhD, y otros
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When Parents Hurt
- Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along
- De: Joshua Coleman PhD
- Narrado por: Paul Boehmer
- Duración: 8 h y 43 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 106
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Narración:4 out of 5 stars 87
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 86
This unique book supports parents who are struggling with the heartache of having a teenager or an adult child who is troubled, angry, or distant. Such rifts can cause unspeakable sorrow that parents too often must bear alone. Psychologist and parent Joshua Coleman, PhD, offers insight, empathy, and perspective to those who have lost the opportunity to be the parents they desperately wanted to be and who are mourning the loss of a harmonious relationship with their child.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Not worth tour time...
- De TMT en 12-12-16
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Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD (4 Books in 1)
- Workbook and Guide to Overcome Trauma, Toxic Relationships, ... and Recover from Unhealthy Relationships)
- De: Linda Hill
- Narrado por: S. L. Albert, Vicky David, Alene Sorensen
- Duración: 12 h y 31 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 74
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 65
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 65
This groundbreaking book includes four books that will teach you from start to finish, everything you need to know about Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD, as well as how to recover from each one of them.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Better understanding and clarity
- De Amber Glover en 02-15-23
De: Linda Hill
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The Narcissistic Family
- Diagnosis and Treatment
- De: Robert M. Pressman, Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman
- Narrado por: Karen White
- Duración: 7 h y 2 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 49
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 38
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 38
In this compelling book, the authors present an innovative therapeutic model for understanding and treating adults from emotionally abusive or neglectful families - families the authors call narcissistic. Narcissistic families have a parental system that is, for whatever reason (job stress, alcoholism, drug abuse, mental illness, physical disability, lack of parenting skills, self-centered immaturity), primarily involved in getting its own needs met.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Great insights
- De Mike Kollmansberger en 02-01-25
De: Robert M. Pressman, y otros
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Making Sense of Toxic Abusive People
- Dealing With, & Understanding Abuse & Bullying, Liars Toxic Personalities Partners & Narcissists, Manipulation & Gaslighting. "Understand to Let Go & Find Peace"
- De: Syl Sabastian, Elevia DeNobelia
- Narrado por: Virtual Voice
- Duración: 5 h y 36 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 26
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 26
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 26
THIS BOOK IS NOT FOR EVERYONE! Making Sense of Toxic Abusive People is a must-read for anyone looking to understand and make sense of the dynamics between abusive people and those they abuse. Written from a lifetime’s worth of experience and involvement this book provides insights into how abusers manipulate their victims and keep them under control through lies, corruption, and deceit. Who this book IS for: - Honest and Real people - Willing to face and deal with the awful-truth - Those who truly want to understand - Earnest individuals seeking freedom - Courageous persons looking to ...
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5 out of 5 stars
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Good basic review
- De Amazon Customer en 06-25-25
De: Syl Sabastian, y otros
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The Good Daughter Syndrome
- Help for Empathic Daughters of Narcissistic, Borderline, or Difficult Mothers Trapped in the Role of the Good Daughter
- De: Katherine K Fabrizio
- Narrado por: Colleen Weaver
- Duración: 10 h y 12 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 18
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Narración:4 out of 5 stars 18
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 18
You love your mother, but she drives you crazy. She controls, criticizes, and butts into your life constantly. Then when you try and set boundaries, the pushback and resulting guilt are so bad you tell yourself...it's just not worth it. Is your mother narcissistic, borderline, or just plain difficult? Are you empathetic, sensitive, and kind? If so, chances are you have fallen into one or all of the hidden psychological traps that constitute the Good Daughter Syndrome.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Decent primer if your mom is still in your life
- De Twin of Eyegone en 07-01-24
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Prepare to Be Tortured
- The Price You Will Pay for Being the Family Scapegoat
- De: A. B. Jamieson
- Narrado por: Dylan McCormick
- Duración: 5 h y 8 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 2
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 1
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 1
The worst part of being the family scapegoat is that you had no idea you were the runt of the family until decades later, by which time the damage was already done. What seems blatantly obvious now all the while was happening under the radar when you were none the wiser. The 64,000 dollar question of course is "why me?" Both in being labeled as the "chosen one" and the inevitable mistreatment to follow. Targeted abuse that was set in stone from day one and destined to remain that way.
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5 out of 5 stars
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sheds light
- De Anonymous User en 10-25-23
De: A. B. Jamieson
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Done with the Crying
- Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children
- De: Sheri McGregor
- Narrado por: Randye Kaye
- Duración: 12 h y 6 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 284
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 239
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 238
In Done with the Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children, Sheri McGregor, MA, helps parents break free from emotional pain - and move forward in their own lives. As a loving mother to whom the unthinkable happened, McGregor knows the horrible shock that wrings a parent dry, triggers denial, blame, anger, and shame. With empathy and understanding, as well as tools, the latest research, and insight from more than 9,000 parents of estranged adult children, McGregor helps parents of estranged adults plan, prepare for emotional triggers, and prevail over pain.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Take your life back and let healing begin
- De Jennifer Gill en 05-26-18
De: Sheri McGregor
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The Power of Parting
- Finding Peace and Freedom Through Family Estrangement
- De: Eamon Dolan
- Narrado por: Eamon Dolan
- Duración: 8 h y 32 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 12
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 12
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 12
In The Power of Parting, Dolan has written the book he wishes he’d had when he was struggling to free himself from his mother’s abuse. In the process, he discovered how widespread estrangement really is. At least 27 percent of Americans are estranged from a parent, sibling, or other family member. He also learned why so much stigma surrounds this common—and often lifesaving—phenomenon.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Empowering as a survivor of childhood emotional neglect and abuse
- De Rachel Meadows en 06-20-25
De: Eamon Dolan
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Healing Your Wounded Inner Child
- Overcome Your Fear of Abandonment, Identify Inherited Trauma, Break Destructive Patterns, Heal from Neglect and Abuse, and Learn to Feel Emotionally Secure
- De: Chloe Vaughn
- Narrado por: Miranda Fuller
- Duración: 4 h y 16 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 50
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 50
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 50
Healing Your Wounded Inner Child is a thoughtful and insightful guide designed to help you uncover the hidden roots of pain, fear, and insecurity stemming from childhood experiences. Whether you’ve endured neglect, abuse, or inherited trauma, this audiobook shows you the steps to help you break free from destructive patterns, overcome the fear of abandonment, and finally feel emotionally secure.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Overcome your fear
- De sha en 03-31-25
De: Chloe Vaughn
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Believing Me
- Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma
- De: Ingrid Clayton
- Narrado por: Ingrid Clayton PhD
- Duración: 7 h y 14 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 136
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 120
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 120
What if emotional abuse is so hidden that its effects remain unchallenged for decades, masquerading as personal failings? Believing Me is an emotionally gripping memoir that gives language to the hidden and ineffable nature of childhood trauma and how it can imprint on a person, resulting in fractured self-esteem, addictions, perfectionism, and a string of abusive relationships.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Someone else caused all my problems
- De Searcy Custom Homes en 12-03-23
De: Ingrid Clayton
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Treating Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- A Clinician's Guide
- De: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrado por: Ann Sprinkle
- Duración: 12 h y 15 m
- Versión completa
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General4 out of 5 stars 1
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 1
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Historia4 out of 5 stars 1
Psychologist and New York Times bestselling author Lindsay C. Gibson draws on more than thirty years of clinical experience as a psychotherapist and outlines a unique approach to treating a common syndrome that shapes the lives of so many people seeking therapy. Gibson shares her perspectives on the goals of therapy, and what therapists need to know in order to provide the most effective interventions.
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Will the Drama Ever End?
- Untangling and Healing from the Harmful Effects of Parental Narcissism
- De: Dr. Karyl McBride Ph.D.
- Narrado por: Dr. Karyl McBride Ph.D.
- Duración: 9 h y 14 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 22
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 20
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 20
A pioneer on the devastating effects of narcissistic abuse, Karyl McBride, PhD, has the answer for anyone desperate for help in overcoming the damage of being raised in a family headed by a narcissistic parent. Divided into three sections, McBride explores the insidious way a narcissistic environment is developed in a family, how a narcissistic parent damages a child’s emotional growth and ability to trust, and finally, how to not only move on but become truly free.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Great book but worksheet?
- De Amazon Customer en 05-02-23
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Banished
- A Grandmother Alone: Surviving Alienation and Estrangement
- De: Nancy Lee Klune
- Narrado por: Nancy Lee Klune
- Duración: 5 h y 25 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 49
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 45
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 45
For author Nancy Lee Klune, the nightmare began with a phone call from a stranger. The man, who identified himself as a family therapist, informed her that her son and daughter-in-law had decided that she was to have no further contact with them or their four children. This call set in motion a 10-year journey of deep pain, emotional turmoil, and personal growth as she found ways to cope with this indescribable loss.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Instead of Hope it’s a Heavy Heart
- De Britt en 10-13-22
De: Nancy Lee Klune
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