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D.S.O
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Ready to settle down and find Mrs. Right?
Divorced and ready to date again?
If you go into the dating world with your eyes closed, you're going to get hurt. Badly.
Dating can be fun. A lot of fun. It can be an adventure.
Dating can also be your ticket into a world of unbelievable pain and suffering. Trust me...it can get ugly.
How can you make sure you don't make the mistakes that millions of other men have made? How do you avoid a relationship that will leave your wallet empty, your heart broken, and a house full of kids who will make the same relationship mistakes their dad made?
You learn from those who have been there and done that. That's what Red Flags is all about.
I've compiled a list of the top 20 red flags that should make you pause and want to find out more about the woman you're dating before you call her "girlfriend".
©2020 Dad Starting Over (P)2021 Dad Starting OverListeners also enjoyed...
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2 out of 5 stars
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3 out of 5 stars
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Inaccurate info regarding affairs
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- Sweet P
- 10-03-23
Fully Agree
I agree with everything shared and the context of delivery. Quality delivery with digestible advice.
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- M Wink
- 01-14-24
Very important book
Another very important book by DSO. Every man should read this. An emotionally healthy woman can benefit as well. An easy read one will want to reference often over one’s life.
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