Men and Women
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Narrated by:
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Robert Bly
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Deborah Tannen
About this listen
This discussion between best-selling authors Deborah Tannen (You Just Don't Understand) and Robert Bly (Iron John) is presented as a sort of continuing education program. It is utterly delightful. The authors are both funny and serious. They care a great deal about the topic of women and men's conversational styles. The production is so well done that even questions from the audience are picked up by the microphones. This would be excellent for both bookstores and public libraries in which these books are great favorites and academic libraries with strong communications programs.
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The Naive Male
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 9
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 7
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When a woman or a father attacks a naive male, he immediately opens himself up and takes the attack right into himself. "Oh, yes, that is true. I am really bad!" It does not occur to him that the attack may be something quite different. Maybe the woman or father is angry at something else and is displacing or projecting the anger onto the man. The naive male takes in the attack, feels the wound, and then bends over, psychologically.
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5 out of 5 stars
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focus great story teller. hits home with amazing accuracy
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- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 4
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 3
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Story5 out of 5 stars 3
Robert Bly looks beyond the individual psyche to the problems of our public life, explaining why we as a culture are so adrift. What he finds is an infantilized society in which the battle between youth and age has been won by youth. Bly argues that in the collapse of the old patriarchal worldview, we are becoming a world of "siblings" who do not look up to heroes, leaders, or God, but only sideways at an army of siblings like ourselves. Through the psychological lessons embedded in ancient folk tales, Bly challenges us to move beyond our own adolescent envy and fantasy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Outstanding
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- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 7
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 6
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An Evening with Marion Woodman and Robert Bly on the Sibling Society
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 6
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 5
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Story5 out of 5 stars 5
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- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 5
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 4
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Story5 out of 5 stars 4
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By: Robert Bly
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A Home in the Dark Grass
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- Length: 1 hr and 18 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 5
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 5
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Story5 out of 5 stars 5
A poet, translator, and social theorist, Bly has published more than 30 collections of poetry, including The Light Around the Body (1967), which won a National Book Award, and most recently Stealing Sugar from the Castle: Selected Poems (2013). His honors include fellowships from Guggenheim and Rockefeller Foundations and the National Endowment for the Arts, as well as the Robert Frost Medal from the Poetry Society of America.
By: Robert Bly
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The Naive Male
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Robert Bly
- Length: 1 hr and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 9
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 7
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Story5 out of 5 stars 7
When a woman or a father attacks a naive male, he immediately opens himself up and takes the attack right into himself. "Oh, yes, that is true. I am really bad!" It does not occur to him that the attack may be something quite different. Maybe the woman or father is angry at something else and is displacing or projecting the anger onto the man. The naive male takes in the attack, feels the wound, and then bends over, psychologically.
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5 out of 5 stars
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focus great story teller. hits home with amazing accuracy
- By Felix Blanchard on 06-01-24
By: Robert Bly
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Where Have All the Parents Gone
- A Talk on Sibling Society
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Robert Bly
- Length: 2 hrs and 5 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 4
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 3
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Story5 out of 5 stars 3
Robert Bly looks beyond the individual psyche to the problems of our public life, explaining why we as a culture are so adrift. What he finds is an infantilized society in which the battle between youth and age has been won by youth. Bly argues that in the collapse of the old patriarchal worldview, we are becoming a world of "siblings" who do not look up to heroes, leaders, or God, but only sideways at an army of siblings like ourselves. Through the psychological lessons embedded in ancient folk tales, Bly challenges us to move beyond our own adolescent envy and fantasy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Outstanding
- By T. Wayne on 12-12-22
By: Robert Bly
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An Evening with Marion Woodman and Robert Bly on The Maiden King
- By: Marion Woodman, Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Marion Woodman
- Length: 1 hr and 39 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 7
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 6
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Story5 out of 5 stars 6
A Course in Miracles says that this world and every aspect of it got started when the Son of God remembered not to laugh. What we failed to laugh at is the joke that is ourselves. Now, however, you can have a true experience of metaphysical mirth - you might even, yourself, achieve "full realization".
By: Marion Woodman, and others
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An Evening with Marion Woodman and Robert Bly on the Sibling Society
- By: Marion Woodman, Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Marion Woodman
- Length: 1 hr and 55 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 6
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 5
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Story5 out of 5 stars 5
Where have all the grown-ups gone? In answering that question with the same freewheeling erudition and intuitive brilliance that made Iron John a national best seller, poet, storyteller, and translator Robert Bly tells us that we live in a "sibling society" in which adults have regressed into adolescence and adolescents refuse to grow up. We are proud to present a previously unreleased lecture featuring both Marion Woodman and Robert Bly on the subject of the sibling society!
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The Human Shadow and What Stories Do We Need?
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 197
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 169
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 165
Robert Bly - one of the most compelling mythologists and storytellers of our time - captures the imagination in two live recordings. In The Human Shadow, Bly takes us on a thought provoking and entertaining journey exploring our "shadow" through poetry, music, and storytelling. What Stories Do We Need? reminds us that the mythology we have inherited is often defective. Just as the church refused to accept the reality Galileo saw in his telescope, literalists have removed the dark soul images that nourished our ancestors from mythology.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Bly is my greatest living hero
- By IW, Albuquerque on 04-05-16
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W.B. Yeats and His Father
- The Development of Personality in Men
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Robert Bly
- Length: 7 hrs and 13 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 29
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 25
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Story5 out of 5 stars 25
These broadcast quality archival recordings have been edited down into an amazing journey led by Robert Bly, one of America's greatest and entertaining thinkers. This audio explores the poetry of Yeats and goes deep into the author's biography to help bring to light the inspirations of Yeat's great works.
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4 out of 5 stars
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A good experience, but not well-suited to audiobook format.
- By Aaron on 01-17-20
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That's Not What I Meant
- The Sociolinguistics of Everyday Conversation - The Modern Scholar
- By: Professor Deborah Tannen
- Narrated by: Deborah Tannen
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 167
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 112
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 112
The following series of lectures draws on linguistics, or the scientific study of language, to show the many ways in which language has a profound effect upon human relationships. These lectures address the various aspects and implications of what Professor Tannen calls "conversational style". It also looks at the dynamics of specific situations such as the workplace and classroom where the role of conversational style is of particular importance.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Awful
- By Maroy on 11-08-08
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The Masculine Road
- The Red, White, and Black
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Michael Toms
- Length: 54 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 99
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 75
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 73
Bly describes the three necessary and sequential life phases symbolized by three colors - the "red, white and black," in the Grimm Brothers' fairy tale "Iron John." He casts a penetrating light on these male life stages, describing complications that arise, for example, when a boy skips the red and goes directly to the white. He also discusses how these stages, when fulfilled, affect men's relationships with women.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Best discussion for Male Initiation
- By ARV on 02-21-23
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Iron John
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Richard Ferrone
- Length: 12 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,242
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,070
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,073
In this national best-seller, Robert Bly explores the idea of the missing father in contemporary society. He draws upon a cornucopia of legend and literature - as varied as the poetry of William Blake, Jungian psychology, and Sioux initiation rituals - to encourage men in their pursuit of the “inner warrior.”
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5 out of 5 stars
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The unlocking of an important puzzle.
- By Thomas on 01-09-14
By: Robert Bly
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You Just Don't Understand
- By: Deborah Tannen
- Narrated by: Barbara Rosenblat
- Length: 11 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 212
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 170
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 169
Dr. Tannen illustrates how the best intentions can go painfully awry between spouses, family members, co-workers and friends. With You Just Don't Understand, you'll recognize yourself and your own efforts to be understood - and gain valuable insight to help you communicate better.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Deborah Tannen...
- By Douglas on 02-18-14
By: Deborah Tannen
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Into the Deep
- Male Mysteries
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Michael Toms
- Length: 52 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 67
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 53
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 54
An extraordinary visit with one of America's leading poets provides a unique exploration of the mystery of maleness. Bly uses fairy tales to illuminate the dark recesses of the psyche, and the result is a powerful intimation of the male experience and potential. From the soft, feminine male persona to the deeply buried wildman, Bly takes us on a journey through unmapped territory of the masculine. For men and women this is a conversation not to be missed.
By: Robert Bly
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The Power of Shame
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Michael Toms
- Length: 55 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 102
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 78
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 79
In this discussion, Bly talks of four sources of shame, including shame inherited from parents, grandparents, and ancestors, and shame over our bodily and creative instincts. It opens with a Russian fairy story on the Frog Princess and the shame we feel over our interior "Frog Bride." Bly and host Michael Toms discuss the new work in America on shame, most of it done during the last ten years.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Difficult to understand
- By Shane on 06-08-12
By: Robert Bly
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Male Naivete and Giving the Gold Away
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Michael Toms
- Length: 55 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 77
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 61
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 62
Leaving naivete behind may open up the wilder regions of maleness, where men can wrestle with their demons and, in time, reach maturity and balance, according to Bly, poet and men's workshop facilitator. This is a fascinating dialogue which explores the mystery of maleness and includes Bly's storytelling mastery and poetry.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Robert at his best.
- By Kenneth J Baum on 04-11-16
By: Robert Bly
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A Society of Siblings
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Michael Toms
- Length: 54 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 66
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 59
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 58
Characterized by petty rivalries, self-indulgence and lack of responsibility, our actions fail to fulfill what Robert Bly describes as our true soul longing. With characteristic irreverence and storytelling from various cultures, Bly tells us what we should be doing about green-haired adolescents and idle elders, not to mention televisions and computers. His insightful focus illuminates the truths and possibilities of a culture caught in an adolescent phase of development.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Rip off
- By Gunnar on 08-03-20
By: Robert Bly
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William Blake and Beyond
- By: Robert Bly
- Narrated by: Michael Toms
- Length: 54 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 68
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 49
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 48
"As a man is, so he sees." These words of mystical poet and artist William Blake are just as relevant now as they were when they were written in 1802 - perhaps more so. Throughout his life, Blake undertook a voyage beyond rationality and materialism to an interior, visionary realm where "all things appear as they are - infinite." Yet all human beings, he believed, are capable of opening their eyes to a fuller experience of life.
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1 out of 5 stars
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A romp through hippy land !
- By John Glemby on 10-22-10
By: Robert Bly
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Marion Woodman & Robert Johnson in Conversation
- Jungian Psychology Through the Eyes of Two Masters
- By: Marion Woodman, Robert Johnson
- Narrated by: Marion Woodman, Robert Johnson
- Length: 13 hrs and 47 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 49
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 44
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Story5 out of 5 stars 42
In these never-before-released "Woodman Johnson Discussions", you will get the complete edited program in eight different sections - 12 hours in total, edited audio. These two icons of Jungian theory share a revealing and insightful conversation on Jungian Analysis and each of their lives' work.Some of the points covered include: The Wounded Feeling Function in the Masculine and the Feminine; Legitimate and Illegitimate Feelings; and Masculine, Feminine, Patriarchy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Amazing for Jung and Dream analysis enthusiasts
- By Justin R. Smith on 05-31-22
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