Bones in a Box
Fear and the Drive for Human Control
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Narrated by:
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Gary Murrell
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By:
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Gary M. Murrell
About this listen
Ever wonder why athletes earn more than 40 times the president's salary or why adults line up to watch movies about superheroes dressed in tights and capes? Bones in a Box adeptly explains the foundation of human behavior and what drives, motivates, and captivates us all. The book provides critical perspective for those in business or sales, in relationships or for anyone trying to understand the uncertain world of politics, murder, terrorism, and war. Bones in a Box is a quick listen but grounded in research supporting the author's fresh and original revelations.
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