9 Covert Ways to Outsmart a Narcissist

Beat the Tools He Uses to Mind Control You

De: Jamie Keller

Narrado por: Pete Beretta

If you downloaded this book, it is no doubt that you are dealing with a narcissist on a regular basis. He or she is probably driving you crazy. They gaslight you and try to make you believe that you're crazy. They blame and shame you for everything that goes wrong in their lives. They destroy and damage everything that others have because of their constant envy. They want to always be on top, and they don't care who they step on to get there.

I have dealt with narcissists for years in my family environment and my work environment. I have learned a few tricks in dealing with a narcissist that I would like to share with you. I have experienced their behavior firsthand. I feel that non-narcissists deserve tools to equip them in dealing with a narcissist better so that we don't fall for their malicious mind games.

Narcissists employ a tactic called triangulation which causes jealousy and competitiveness in those around them. They pit two people against each other in order to make both pay more attention to him or to cause them the urge to compete against each other for his attention or for a common goal.

Triangulation can be used as a tool by a narcissist for one of many reasons. He might use triangulation in order to make his partner jealous and fear losing him. Her jealousy will naturally then cause her to hang onto him much tighter and to ignore his bad behavior instead of dumping him for being a jerk. He can cheat and then blame the cheating on the person that he cheated with, pitting his girlfriend and mistress against each other to keep him out of the line of fire.

©2015 Jamie Keller (P)2015 Jamie Keller

real help against narcissism.

so many books on narcissism or a man woman narcissistic relationships but not that many that pertained to me, whose nieve daughter has been hijacked by a Narcissis!

sooo helpful!

this book explained and brought light to so many issues i have been dealing with! thank you!

To the point😉

Validates everything you have felt and gone through. Helps you realize the truths behind the actions. Allows you to breath again😊

This 30 minute book has given me so much closure.

This book is quick and straight to the point! Awesome read! The author should charge more for this book!

awesomeness

loved it. triangulation was just done to me last week! husband pissed about new job

I needed this! thank you so much for writing this

I suffered in a relationship for years with a narcissist this book is him EXACTLY thank you. I'm not crazy I knew it all along

Narcissist short to the point

I really love this book and tips. I have read many books in this topic and if you are looking for something quick to remind yourself of a narcissist. This is really it. Absolutely loved it!

very informative

Helpful ways to understand NPD. And how to stop the behavior from affecting your mind.

Excellent

If you could sum up 9 Covert Ways to Outsmart a Narcissist in three words, what would they be?

The Empath or Codependent must be on guard for thes 9 Manipulative behaviors.

What was one of the most memorable moments of 9 Covert Ways to Outsmart a Narcissist?

Point 9

Which character – as performed by Pete Beretta – was your favorite?

The codependent

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

The end

Any additional comments?

I would use he/she for the narcissist because they occur about equally. (50/50)

Absolutely loved this

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

I would recommend this book to anyone dealing with a narcissist. I wish I would have listened to this book sooner!