This week Alessandra is joined by her fiancé Billi for a little Q&A session. Alessandra is shocked to find out what Billi determines to be the soundtrack to his life. The couple shares what they wish they would have known before getting into a serious relationship and what do they think non negotiable should be in your partner. Alessandra came upon a TikTok series that highlighted a young girl's abusive relationship and this leads to a discussion on how important it is to maintain your individualism in a relationship and so much more. Later in the episode a listener spills the tea about her friends secret betrayal! To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com.

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Let's revisit the episode when Kristen joined Alessandra to share more about what makes a good relationship, life's unexpected turns, and recaps the various jobs she's had before becoming everyone's favorite assistant.

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In this episode Alessandra is spilling YOUR tea for therapy. Today's tea ranges from workplace romances, cheating boyfriends, secret families and more! Within these stories there are moments that emphasize the importance of communication, self-care, and setting boundaries in both personal and professional relationships. To send in your own submissions for advice on anything from friendship, relationship, work and more, email Alessandra at vibinkindathrivin@gmail.com

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This week Alessandra is catching us up on her recent trip to Kentucky that started with a hellacious turn of events. She encountered an unexpected guest at her Airbnb and also talks about her recent life changing hair journey. All in all, this episode is filled with lots of girl talk, including what to do if your friend is not reaching out enough!

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Today we revisit an interview with between Alessandra and Phaith Montoya (@phaithmontoya).

Using her platform for fashion, beauty and most importantly plus size positivity, Phaith is a fresh air in the social media world. She talks about dealing with her haters, not wanting the world to weaponize her health journey, and how the strong women in her life have influenced her.
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Kayla (@corporatespiritguide), if you didn't know, is part of the KILLR team! Today she joins Alessandra for a fun conversation on how she's been dealing with haters, how people should educate themselves with history of the Appalachia, and shares her diverse background from being adopted to corporate lawyer.

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