Beyond Self-Esteem: Finding Worth in Christ :: [Ep. 264]

Last week, we started the conversation about Self-Worth and Self-Esteem. This week, we are concluding that conversation. In this episode, we are learning just how a biblical perspective on self-worth can transform hearts and marriages. Rather than embracing the world's definition of self-esteem, we are discovering that our true value comes from being made in God's image and chosen by Him.

We will cover the following:

• Satan manipulates our self-perception to damage our marriages, convincing us we deserve better than our spouse
• The "I am who I am" mentality creates a false comfort zone that prevents growth and transformation in relationships
• Biblical confidence means thinking of ourselves less rather than thinking less of ourselves
• How to transition from being "puffed up" to being "filled up" with God's truth and how that transforms how we serve our spouse

For further study on this topic, listen to our previous broadcasts titled "Idols of the Heart," read John 13, 1 Corinthians, or Tim Keller's "The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness."

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When "Be Yourself" Backfires: A Christian Perspective on Self-Worth :: [Ep. 263]

Self-esteem is a concept that is celebrated by our culture but may be leading us away from God's design for our lives and marriages. God calls us to find our worth and our confidence in His love and design for us, not in our uniqueness or accomplishments.

In this episode, we will cover the following:
• Self-esteem is based on comparison and puts our focus on ourselves instead of God and others
• The Bible never instructs us to focus on self-love - it assumes we already do this naturally
• Jesus demonstrated his understanding of worth through service and sacrifice, not self-focus
• The true measure of our worth

Join us today! And come back again next week for part two of this series as we dig deeper into what the Bible says about self-worth, pride, humility, and how these concepts affect our marriages.

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How Your Marriage Can Leave a Lasting Legacy :: [Ep. 262]

What kind of legacy are you building through your marriage? We are exploring just how our love and marriage relationship can grow a beautiful legacy that can be passed down from generation to generation. This episode will cover the following:

- Address heart issues behind communication problems in marriage
- Reflect on the legacy we leave: good or bad, spiritual or material
- Provide practical steps for listeners to begin crafting their personal legacies

Join us in this insightful discussion and be inspired to make actionable changes in your relationships! Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review!

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Intimacy Uncovered: The Conversations Every Marriage Needs :: [Ep. 261]

Today we tackle the often-avoided topic of intimacy in marriage. Understanding intimacy and its importance can be vital for a healthy relationship. This episode delves into personal stories, biblical insights, and practical tools for couples facing intimacy challenges.

We will provide clear guidance on how to recognize when intimacy is suffering and actionable advice on how to address these issues. From understanding God's intention behind intimacy to offering practical steps for restoring closeness, this episode is packed with wisdom you'll find invaluable.

We are hitting the following:
• Defining intimacy in marriage
• Recognizing the emotional aspects connected to intimacy
• Facing barriers that hinder marital intimacy
• Discovering God’s design for sexual intimacy
• Practical steps for restoring intimacy and emotional connections
• Preparing to support friends facing marital struggles

Come listen now to glean helpful info!

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Effective Parenting as a Marital Team :: [Ep. 260]

In this enlightening episode, we delve into the intersection of parenting challenges and marital harmony. We are exploring how the complexities of raising children can strain even the strongest union.

Struggles in marriage can often surface from parenting decisions that can divide couples instead of uniting them. Tackling multiple issues faced by parents, we share insights drawn from biblical teachings on marriage and raising children.

We are talking about the following:
- Importance of a unified marriage for effective parenting
- Common parenting disagreements and their impact on relationships
- Seeking God's guidance in discussions around parenting
- The lasting impressions of parental relationships on children
- Elevating marriage over parenting as a priority
- Redefining the perception of "lazy" behavior in parents to a deeper marital misunderstanding

Tune in for a message filled with hope, encouragement, and practical insights that can transform the way couples approach parenting and strengthen their bond. Let’s work towards healing and inspiring each other while building a legacy of love and faith!

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This week's episode is a heartfelt exploration of the complexities surrounding marriages in crisis and revealing how God's truth can illuminate for us the path back to love and connection. We emphasize actionable ways to support friends or loved ones facing marital strife, steering them towards hope and healing.

In this episode, we will cover the following:
• Reflection on a spouse wanting out of the marriage
• Empowering couples to find truth amid emotional turmoil
• Practical steps from Romans 12 on love and service
• Importance of prayer, humility, and patience in marriage
• Discernment between feelings and God’s promises
• Ways to support a hurting marriage effectively

Join us on this journey as we explore how God's love transcends our circumstances and how through obedience and service, couples can reclaim their relationships. Don't miss it!

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Overcoming Financial Struggles in Your Marriage :: [Ep. 258]

Struggling with finances in your marriage? You're not alone.

This episode takes a deep dive into how financial difficulties can affect relationships and we are providing guidance on how to foster unity amid monetary stressors.

In this episode, we are highlighting the following:

- Exploring the root of financial stress in marriages
- The importance of open communication regarding money
- Biblical stewardship
- Budgeting as a tool for unity in marriage
- Emotional tensions surrounding financial discussions
- Practical steps to nurture financial health in partnerships

Our hope is that you, the listener, will be equipped with actionable steps to transform financial discussions from a source of division into opportunities for growth! Join us today as we explore how to move beyond the fear of financial discussions and create a life filled with purpose, faith, and financial harmony!

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Healing Your Marriage Through God's Design :: [Ep. 257]

This VowsToKeep Marriage Podcast episode centers on how confession, repentance, and forgiveness can restore broken marriages. Through biblical teachings, we highlight God’s design for healing relationships, emphasizing personal accountability and the role of grace in reconciliation.

We will cover:
• The importance of faithfulness when difficult times arise
• How sin impacts marriage and personal relationships
• The process of healing and that it starts with confession
• The necessity of forgiveness, regardless of your spouse's actions
• How to view our spouse through the lens of Christ’s love
• The ultimate goal: demonstrating the gospel through reconciliation

We hope you will join us and learn more!

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