Episode #13 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Guest: Conrad Hilario

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, pastor and author Conrad Hilario shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a senior pastor, emphasizing the importance of identity in Christ. He discusses the challenges younger generations face in understanding their identity amidst cultural crises and the church's role in providing guidance. The conversation highlights the significance of discipleship and mentorship in spiritual growth and the impact of his book, 'Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes,' as a resource for believers seeking to understand their identity in Christ.

Takeaways

• Conrad's journey illustrates the transformative power of faith.
• Identity in Christ is foundational for spiritual growth.
• Younger generations face unique challenges in understanding identity.
• Cultural identity crises impact individuals and communities.
• Discipleship is essential for nurturing faith in new believers.
• Mentorship plays a crucial role in spiritual development.
• The church must address issues of diversity and unity.
• Understanding one's identity can prevent destructive choices.
• Conrad's book serves as a primer for understanding identity in Christ.
• Real change in life comes from understanding one's identity in Christ.

Relevant Links

Books Mentioned

• Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes (Conrad Hilario)
• Christianity: The Faith That Makes Sense (Dennis McCallum)
• Discovering God: Exploring the Possibilities of Faith (Dennis McCallum)
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ (Warren Lamb and Truth in Love)
• The Master Plan of Evangelism: With Study Guide (Robert E. Coleman)
• The Pursuit of God: Updated Edition (A.W. Tozer)
• The Attributes of God Volume 1 with Study Guide: A Journey Into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer)
• The Attributes of God Volume 2: Deeper into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer)

Other Links

• Dwell Community Church (Columbus, OH)
• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren’s Blog

Warrenism of the Week: “Our ‘I am’ statements are identity statements. When we proclaim ‘I am such-and-such…,’ we lock ourselves in a view of ourselves that may be in conflict with what God proclaims to be true about us.”

Episode #13 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this special Christmas episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren shares a personal reflection on the theme of repurposing in life and ministry. Drawing from his own transformative experience following a car accident, he explores how God reshapes our lives and calls us to embrace new purposes. Through biblical passages and personal anecdotes, Warren emphasizes the importance of recognizing interruptions as divine invitations and encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys of repurposing.

Takeaways

• God often works by repurposing our lives for His glory.
• Don't let your past become your prison; God is doing something new.
• Transformation is not just improvement; it's a complete change.
• God uses our painful disruptions for His purposes.
• Recognizing interruptions can lead to new opportunities.
• Our experiences can become sources of comfort for others.
• God's repurposing work can be seen in the Christmas story.
• We are called to be instruments in the Redeemer's hands.
• Embrace the journey of repurposing, even when it's difficult.
• God is with us through every transformation we face.

Relevant Links

• Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands: People in Need of Change Helping People in Need of Change (by Paul David Tripp)
• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren’s Blog
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: “Don’t let your past be your prison.”

Episode #12 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Guest: Dr. Curtis Solomon

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Curtis Solomon shares his journey into biblical counseling, influenced by his military background and personal experiences. He discusses the importance of integrating faith with trauma healing, the role of the Biblical Counseling Coalition in fostering unity among counselors, and the challenges faced in the field today. Dr. Solomon also addresses the sensitive topic of pornography in marriage, emphasizing the need for resources that guide couples through healing and restoration. He highlights the significance of practical training for the next generation of counselors and reflects on the balance of life and responsibilities.

Takeaways

• Dr. Solomon's passion for biblical counseling began in 1999.
• Military experience shaped his understanding of trauma and counseling.
• Biblical counseling offers hope and healing through Christ.
• The Biblical Counseling Coalition aims to foster unity among counselors.
• Challenges in biblical counseling include questions about integrating secular and biblical methods.
• Addressing pornography in marriage requires sensitive and practical resources.
• Investing in the next generation of counselors is crucial for the field.
• Balancing life responsibilities is a continuous challenge for counselors.
• Surprises in the counseling journey include the infighting among counselors.
• Biblical counseling is superior to secular methods in addressing trauma.

Relevant Links

Books by Dr. Solomon

• Reclaim Your Marriage: Grace for Wives Who Have Been Hurt by Pornography (by Jenny Solomon)
• Redeem Your Marriage: Hope for Husbands Who Have Hurt through Pornography
• I Have PTSD: Reorienting after Trauma

Related Link

• Biblical Counseling Coalition

Other Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren’s Blog
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: “We get to choose whether we speak graciously out of understanding or harshly out of ignorance.”

Episode #10 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Summary

This episode of The Soul Care Podcast delves into the complexities of forgiveness within the Christian faith, addressing common misconceptions and providing a clearer understanding of its biblical foundations. The discussion covers three forms of forgiveness: judicial, internal, and relational, emphasizing the importance of confession and repentance. The episode also explores the controversial topic of self-forgiveness and distinguishes between true peacemaking and mere placating. Ultimately, it encourages listeners to embrace God's forgiveness and extend it to others, fostering emotional healing and spiritual growth.

Takeaways

• Forgiveness is often misunderstood in Christian circles.
• Judicial forgiveness is granted by God alone.
• Internal forgiveness requires us to forsake revenge.
• Relational forgiveness depends on the offender's repentance.
• Self-forgiveness is about applying God's principles to ourselves.
• Peacemaking is grounded in truth, not denial.
• Confession involves accepting full responsibility for one's actions.
• Forgiveness is a gift that should not be demanded.
• True repentance involves a change of heart and behavior.
• Walking in forgiveness allows us to focus on God's grace.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren’s Blog
• Forgiveness: It May Not Work the Way You Think it Does
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Apology-making is not forgiveness-seeking.”

Episode #10 Show Notes

Host: Kimberly Willess

Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, the conversation explores the origins and development of Truth in Love Biblical Counseling, highlighting its focus on equipping everyday believers for discipleship and soul-care. Warren shares insights into the program's evolution, accessibility, and the philosophy of community and fellowship that underpins their approach. The discussion also touches on the importance of ongoing learning and accountability within the organization, as well as the significance of the name 'Truth in Love.'

Takeaways

• The organization began as a home fellowship in 2004.
• Focus on one-another ministry is central to their mission.
• Training programs are designed for everyday believers, not just professionals.
• Accessibility of the program is a priority for the organization.
• The name 'Truth in Love' reflects the balance of truth and compassion.
• Credentialing is available for those who want to be recognized for their training.
• Ongoing community and accountability are emphasized through monthly meetings.
• The program has evolved to meet the needs of its participants.
• Participants can audit classes after graduation for continued learning.
• The organization values feedback and ideas from its audience.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren’s Blog
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Speak the truth; do it in love; surrender the outcomes.”

Episode #9 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this Thanksgiving episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren Lamb explores the profound theme of finding one's place at God's Table. He reflects on the contrasting experiences of individuals during the holiday season, emphasizing the weight of expectations and the complexities of family dynamics. Through the story of a woman named Sarah, he illustrates the transformative power of understanding one's blood-bought identity in Christ. Warren shares his personal journey of healing from past trauma and how it has shaped his approach to soul-care. The episode concludes with a call to recognize the unearned belonging in God's family and to extend that hope to others during the holiday season.

Takeaways

• Thanksgiving can evoke a range of emotions, from joy to grief.
• The blood of Jesus creates a place of honor for all.
• Soul-care conversations can help individuals find belonging.
• Understanding our identity in Christ is transformative.
• Family dynamics can complicate holiday experiences.
• Healing is possible through recognizing our worth in Christ.
• New traditions can be built on God's faithfulness.
• The holidays can be a time of redemption and gratitude.
• We can offer hope to those struggling during the holidays.
• Every soul-care conversation can reflect God's eternal Thanksgiving table.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren’s Blog
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Focusing on “have” instead of “lack” gives us access to a heart of gratitude, and it is gratitude that creates contentment.”

Episode #8 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Kimmy are joined once again by our resident soul-care expert Warren Lamb, who explores the intersection of trauma, biblical counseling, and mental health. They discuss how biblical counseling approaches trauma differently from mainstream psychology, emphasizing the normalcy of trauma responses and the importance of understanding suffering through a scriptural lens. The conversation highlights key biblical principles for healing, the role of identity in recovery, and practical strategies for trauma survivors. Warren shares insights on how trauma impacts faith and perception of God, and they conclude with a discussion on the future of biblical counseling in addressing trauma.

Takeaways

• Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances.
• Biblical counseling does not label trauma as a disorder.
• Suffering is a part of the human experience post-Genesis 3.
• The Bible provides the best framework for understanding and healing from trauma.
• Healing is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.
• Identity in Christ is crucial for trauma recovery.
• God is present in our suffering and offers hope.
• Trauma-informed care must be replaced with biblically grounded trauma-wise care.
• The body does not “keep the score;” it responds to what the mind believes and the heart desires.
• Redemption of trauma is possible, and our history does not define our future.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Warren's Blog
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. Our history is not who we are; it is where we are from.”

Episode #7 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig

Special Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Warren discuss the concept of the sufficiency of Scripture, emphasizing its role as the primary resource for soul care and counseling. They discuss the definition of sufficiency, the authority of Scripture, and how it applies to various life situations. The conversation contrasts secular psychology with biblical counseling, highlighting the importance of relying on Scripture for guidance in mental health and emotional well-being. They also explore the implications of believing in the sufficiency of Scripture and how it can transform lives by providing a clear understanding of identity and purpose in Christ.

Takeaways

• The Bible is the God-breathed, inerrant, and fully sufficient Word of God.
• Sufficiency means nothing else is needed for matters of life and faith.
• Scripture addresses all human experiences and challenges.
• The authority of Scripture is foundational in counseling.
• Psychology often lacks the certainty that Scripture provides.
• The focus of biblical counseling is on honoring God, not just improving life.
• Understanding one's worth in Christ is crucial for healing.
• The church must avoid integrating secular philosophies.
• Properly interpreted Scripture properly applied is the primary tool for soul care.

Relevant Links

• Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
• Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ

Warrenism of the Week: "Biblical counseling is a sacred space we are invited to share with God and the person He has us counseling.”