Episodios

  • 166 How to talk about sex and your desires with your partner with Laura Lee
    Mar 12 2025

    This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the Director of Blue Space Psychology where she provides individual psychological and sexual therapy. In addition to clinical practice, Laura provides supervision, professional consultation and workshops to healthcare providers. She also offers online courses, education and coaching, and is a sought after speaker and trainer.

    Laura‘s work has been published in the Journal of Positive Sexuality, where she explored how communication impacts sexual desire & satisfaction.

    Her extensive experience, academic research and practical insights, coupled with her warm and authentic communication style, sees that she is a highly respected voice in the fields of psychology and sexuality.

    Emily and Laura discussed:

    • What is sexual communication and how is it different to other ways we communicate in relationships?
    • How does the relationship between communication, desire and satisfaction interact with each other?
    • How to create safety when discussing sex
    • What if your partner isn’t open to the idea of talking about sex?
    • How to stay regulated during hard conversations
    • Creating interpersonal safety

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    Laura's Website: https://www.lauralee.com.au/about-1

    Blue Space Psychology: https://www.bluespacepsychology.com.au/about

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  • 165 How society fails to support our cycles with Laura Federico and Morgan Miller
    Mar 5 2025

    This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice. Morgan is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice.

    Emily, Laura and Morgan discuss:

    • What can you track in your menstrual cycle?
    • What are the menstrual phases and what can they feel like?
    • The importance of tracking your cycle
    • Why you shouldn’t digitally track your health
    • How to track your cycle
    • How society isn’t set up to support our cycles
    • How Donald Trump’s presidency is affecting Women and AFAB health rights

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    Laura and Morgan’s website: https://www.itslauraandmorgan.com/

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  • 164 rebuilding desire and connection in your relationship with Tarah and Ej Terwin
    Feb 26 2025

    This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.

    We discuss:

    • Mismatched desire
    • How to rebuild desire in your relationship
    • Navigating conflict in relationships
    • Not trusting your partner to hold information/explore difficult issues with you

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    59 m
  • 163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr
    Feb 19 2025

    In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k.

    In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health aspects associated with his condition. He aims to raise awareness about his challenges, including finding suitable clothing and managing health issues related to blood flow. Matt has shared his experiences, from bizarre direct messages to unexpected date invitations. He humorously recalls requests ranging from cleaning houses naked to more unusual propositions, such as a fan wanting to draw him in cartoon form for a fetish known as macrophilia.

    Matt enjoys working with brands like Fleshy because they share his goal of promoting a positive discourse around male sexuality.

    Matt's website: https://biggestpenisbook.com/

    Fleshy sex toys: getfleshy.com

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  • 162 Twenty five things I have learnt about sex as a Sexologist
    Feb 12 2025

    Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist.

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    33 m
  • 161 How to have hard conversations, boundaries and anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 2
    Oct 9 2024

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof

    Emily and Nicole discuss:

    • How to have a scary conversation with someone
    • Boundaries
    • How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety
    • relationship check-ins
    • Flop and fracture response
    • what to do if your partner is dissociating
    • What to do if your partner is overstimulated

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    Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA

    Website: https://drnicolecain.com/

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  • 160 Four steps to overcoming anxiety in your relationship with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 1
    Oct 9 2024

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof

    Emily and Nicole discuss:

    • What is anxiety?
    • Why do we experience anxiety?
    • Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety
    • How does anxiety impact romantic relationships?
    • Inner child work
    • Communication between the brain and your body during an emotional response
    • How to regulate during a fight with four steps
    • The vagus nerve

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    Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA

    Website: https://drnicolecain.com/

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  • 159 Why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure during sex, exploring the connection to fascia with Anna Rahe
    Oct 2 2024

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe.

    Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience.

    Emily and Anna discuss:

    • What is fascia/connective tissue system
    • Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives
    • Sexual pain and fascia
    • Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex
    • How to support the pelvic floor muscles
    • Sexual trauma and pelvic pain
    • Reflective systems in the body (throat to pelvic floor)

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gstbody/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annaraheofgst/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GSTBody

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCixVSo4ZACweqBpZZ_AZJ0A

    Website: https://gstbody.com/pages/our-story

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    55 m