In this episode, we hear from Rhonda, a survivor of emotional, psychological, and narcissistic abuse that spanned over two decades. Isolated and questioning her own reality, she gradually found her resilience in faith and education to reclaim her life. Now remarried and a Narcissistic Abuse Specialist and Mental Health Coach, Rhonda shares her hard-earned insights on healing, self-care, and acceptance.

Rhonda shares the critical steps she took to heal—why self-care is essential, how acceptance can offer clarity, and the ongoing process of forgiveness and why it is more about your freedom than theirs. She also reveals how to communicate with a high-conflict personality, including practical tools and strategies to protect your well-being and support healthier interactions for everyone.

If you’ve ever felt trapped in a toxic dynamic, this conversation will offer clarity, hope, and a path forward.

Join us for the latest episode of Split Perspectives: Informed Insights, which is part of Split Perspectives. The Informed Insights series, featuring experts with unique expertise, is designed to provide valuable guidance to individuals navigating separation and divorce.

In this episode, we welcome mortgage lending expert Sandi Brown from Jamie & Co. With more than 30 years of experience in the finance industry, Sandi brings insight into how a mortgage broker can help someone following separation or divorce and those wanting to make a life transition, and the different perspective they bring, rather than one bank.

Sandi discusses and brings insight into how and what a mortgage broker considers when working with a client and the perspectives they review, as opposed to a bank. She also offers practical advice on what people can prepare before applying for a mortgage. This episode will also explain how Sandi works with clients and what someone can look for in a mortgage broker to make an informed choice.

Note: While this episode offers valuable insights, the insights given in this episode are for general information and education only. These insights and information provided do not constitute personal advice. We recommend consulting with your mortgage broker or financial adviser to get advice for your specific situation.

Join us for the latest episode of Split Perspectives: Informed Insights, which is part of Split Perspectives. The Informed Insights series, featuring experts with unique expertise, is designed to provide valuable guidance to individuals navigating separation and divorce.

In this episode, we welcome the co-founder of Compatico, a premium matchmaking service for those over 40, Dame Theresa Gattung. With a wealth of experience, Compatico offers a unique perspective on navigating the dating scene after divorce and the often-challenging path of re-entering the dating world after divorce.

Theresa discusses why so many people find meeting someone new after a long-term relationship challenging, sharing the common mistakes often made when re-entering the dating world. She offers practical advice for those hesitant about taking that first step back into the dating scene, emphasising the importance of readiness and self-awareness.

In this episode, you'll also learn how Compatico differs from dating sites that can help listeners make an informed choice. Whether unsure about taking the plunge or ready to find a new relationship, this episode delivers practical insights and expert guidance. Tune in to gain clarity and hear from one of the leading voices in the matchmaking industry.

Note: While this episode offers valuable insights, the insights given in this episode are for general information and education only. These insights and information provided do not constitute personal advice. We recommend consulting with a relationship therapist to get advice for your specific situation.

Join us in this compelling episode as we explore the remarkable journey of Dr. Susan Bernstein, who navigated the challenges of divorce while raising three young children.

Susan’s story began when pregnant with her third child, she sought legal advice to escape a toxic relationship. What followed was a gruelling process of dealing with a high-conflict partner, securing a restraining order, and uncovering hidden finances—all while caring for her children, aged eight, six, and two. Determined to protect her family, Susan began crafting a post-nuptial agreement and switching attorneys, eventually securing full custody of her children.

Her journey didn’t end there. After years of navigating this complex and emotionally draining process, Susan retrained as a certified divorce coach, specialising in high-conflict cases and those involving special needs children. Today, she’s a successful certified Divorce Coach, a published author, and a full-time single mum in a happy, healthy relationship.

In this episode, Susan shares the insights and strategies she used to manage the overwhelming challenges of her divorce, offering practical advice for anyone facing similar struggles. Tune in to hear how Susan turned her experiences into a new beginning and continues empowering others through her work.

Join us as Sarah Catherall, writer, journalist, and author of How to Break Up Well: Surviving and Thriving after separation. Reflecting on her journey through separation 15 years ago. Sarah discusses not only the separation itself but its ripple effect on every part of her life—from co-parenting and co-parenting tips to personal identity and dating. She shares how hindsight has given her new perspectives on divorce, offering wisdom on navigating these life changes.

Sarah also opens up about the feeling of failure while balancing emotional needs post-separation. Tune in to hear Sarah’s honest reflections on letting go, embracing change, and the lessons she’s learned from walking the path of separation.

In this episode, we are joined by Myken, who shares the invaluable lessons she has learned from her own experience with divorce. From her own experience, Myken offers practical advice on life changes, and lessons learned, with insights on preparing for a significant transition while managing co-parenting, achieving financial stability, and having a good prenup.

Myken's reflections provide practical advice on maintaining control over your affairs, navigating divorce, and rebuilding for a new life with resilience and energy. Her learnings offer a guide to reflect on whether they were always the right choices for those facing similar challenges, emphasising the importance of preparation and self-care.

Tune in as we uncover Myken's journey of growth, what to be grateful for and the powerful lessons that can help others on their path to rebuilding and thriving after divorce.

Join us in this compelling episode as we sit down with Dame Theresa Gattung. In this episode, Theresa candidly shares her reflections on midlife dating, emphasising how dating, unlike business, is driven by emotions and unpredictability. She discusses the challenges of modern dating, how time changes us, and how we should approach dating with these changes in mind.

This episode is a treasure trove of relatable tips and wisdom that every professional, whether in business or life, can benefit from. Theresa's advice is particularly valuable for those re-entering the dating world, as she stresses that who we are in our 50s is vastly different from who we were in our 20s or 30s.

As a business leader, philanthropist, and co-founder of Compatico, a premium matchmaking service for singles over 40, Theresa's advice is not just theoretical. With her background in high-stakes business, she brings a unique perspective to the complexities of building personal connections in a digital world. Learn from her practical advice and discover the parallels between successful business strategies and effective approaches to dating.

Tune in for an enlightening conversation that blends the worlds of business acumen and personal relationships.

Join us as the courageous Dee opens up about the double life of her ex-husband. Discovering her husband’s affair was shocking enough, but learning about his long-term plan with their tenant added an even more complex layer to her story.

The emotional rollercoaster Dee endured after uncovering these betrayals allowed her to find inner strength ad transform her pain into power. From rebuilding her life while raising four children to navigating co-parenting and forging a new path alone, Dee’s journey is a testament to her resilience and emotional intelligence.

Tune in as Dee vulnerably dissects her multifaceted experience of separation and divorce. Beyond the heartache, she shares the positives of self-discovery and offers an inspiring perspective for anyone looking to find hope and strength after betrayal.