In this episode, host Steve Hudgins is joined by Bowden McElroy, a Christian counselor, to explore the complex topic of narcissism within relationships. Together, they get into the spectrum of narcissistic traits, discussing how these traits can impact marriages, particularly those with a foundation in faith. \

Bowden offers his expertise on how faith-based counseling can offer unique advantages in working through these challenges and emphasizes the importance of self-individuation within relationships. The episode also addresses the additional complexities blended families face and the role that a faith perspective can play in fostering stronger bonds.

Throughout the discussion, Steve and Bowden provide valuable tools and approaches to help couples navigate the difficulties of narcissism, aiming to empower listeners with strategies to cultivate healthier and more understanding relationships.

Key Moments:

01:16 Reevaluating Narcissistic Personality Disorders

04:53 Commitment Challenges in Modern Marriage

09:09 Faith Perspectives in Christian Counseling

12:04 Tools for Navigating Troubled Marriages

15:39 Narcissistic Success and Home Dynamics

19:06 Divide Life Goals into Two Lists

20:50 Challenges in Blended Family Marriages

26:01 Unconscious Attraction to Negative Traits

29:28 Support Resources for Men and Women

About the guest:

Bowden McElroy is a licensed professional counselor who has been in the mental health field for over 40 years.

He works with adults, teens, and children in individual, marital, and family therapy. Part of that work includes teaching workshops and seminars on various topics. He helps people to get unstuck. When the difference between where you want to be and where you think you are in life seems huge, he helps people overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.

How to connect Bowden: https://bowdenmcelroy.com/

About Coached Soul:

Coached Soul is an empowering podcast hosted by Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through interviews with guests who have overcome significant challenges. Coached Soul is not just a podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.

For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/