Feel like you and your partner keep missing each other emotionally? Do you shut down when things get tense or over-explain to get back on the same page? In this episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we unpack how attachment styles shape the way couples communicate, fight, and try to reconnect.

We break down the three main attachment styles (secure, anxious, and avoidant) where they come from, and how they play out in everyday moments (like text message tone, stonewalling, or needing constant reassurance). Plus, we share our own journey of shifting out of old patterns and building a more secure connection over time.

Whether you're married, dating, or just reflecting on your emotional habits, this conversation will help you put language to your patterns and start healing the cycle.

🧠 Topics covered:

• What attachment styles actually are (and where they come from)

• Signs of anxious vs. avoidant vs. secure behaviour

• Real-life examples of these dynamics in marriage

• How to begin healing patterns and move toward secure connection

• A practical “Reality Check Corner” with reflective prompts

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Money stress can quietly erode trust in a relationship — but it doesn't have to. In this episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we sit down with our friends Phil and Kate Thompson to share real-life lessons about navigating finances as a team.

From starting marriage with nothing to building a business and raising a family, they open up about what worked, what didn't, and what they wish more couples knew earlier.

We talk about why financial transparency matters, how to set shared goals, and how to balance ambition with contentment. Whether you're saving, budgeting, investing, or just trying to survive a mortgage, we’re sharing practical tools, honest stories, and encouragement to help you build a financial foundation that strengthens your connection.

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The silent treatment might seem like a quiet moment to cool off—but we’ve seen how it can loudly erode trust, create emotional distance, and chip away at connection over time.

In this episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we’re diving into the real cost of the silent treatment in relationships. We talk about why people withdraw, what’s actually happening in your brain during emotional shutdown, and how silence can unintentionally become a power play. With personal stories, wild Reddit relationship drama, and tools we love (shoutout to the Gottman Four Horsemen), we’re unpacking how silence can become damaging—and what healthier communication really looks like.

Whether you’re the one who shuts down, or the one left feeling confused and alone, this conversation brings empathy, perspective, and simple, realistic ways to reconnect. And make sure you stick around for the Reality Check Corner, where we share a practical challenge and a powerful visualisation to help you show up in your relationship the way you actually want to.

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In this raw and honest episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we dive into one of the most misunderstood yet widespread relationship challenges, burnout. Whether you’re the one feeling physically, emotionally, or mentally drained, or you're supporting a partner through exhaustion, this episode will resonate deeply.

We unpack what burnout actually looks like in a relationship, the cultural lies that normalise overwhelm, and the signs you might be missing until it’s too late. From real stories of personal burnout, to practical strategies for prevention and recovery, this episode is filled with relatable insight, vulnerability, and actionable tools.

Tune in to learn:

• The subtle signs of burnout you shouldn’t ignore

• How to navigate burnout in marriage or partnership

• Practical tools to rebalance when you're already running on empty

• The emotional aftermath of supporting someone in burnout

• Why cultural “busyness” is breaking our connections

Whether you’re in burnout, on the edge, or just want to build healthier rhythms—you’ll leave feeling seen, equipped, and empowered.

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This powerful episode of Honey, We Need to Chat welcomes Andrew and Kayte Kitchen (creatives, therapists, and real-life warriors) into a vulnerable and deeply encouraging conversation.

What makes this episode especially moving is that they didn’t wait until things were resolved to speak. Andrew and Kayte joined us while still walking through a hard season in their marriage and work life, a rare and courageous choice that sets the tone for something truly real.

Together, we explore what it means to communicate during seasons of exhaustion, loss, and inner transformation. Expect insights on navigating marriage in hard times, how Sabbath rest can restore your soul, the role of active listening in healing communication, and how deconstructing ego creates space for authentic connection.

If you've ever questioned your worth, struggled to feel heard in your relationship, or wondered how to slow down in a nonstop world, this episode is for you. Plus, Andrew’s take on protecting creativity from the digital world will stick with you for days.

You can connect with Andrew at sparrowcollective.com.au and with Kayte at admirari.com.au.

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This episode is a little different — we weren’t in the same place when we recorded. With Blair away for work, we decided to try something new: answering all our questions separately… without hearing each other’s responses first. 👀

What followed was fun, real, and surprisingly deep. We shared what it’s like being apart, how we stay connected in busy seasons, and what we appreciate (and miss) most about each other. There’s also a Reddit reflection on whether it’s weird not to miss your partner, a hilarious trip down memory lane (fart stories included), and a rapid-fire “Who’s More Likely To” quiz you can try with your own partner.

Don’t miss our Reality Check Challenge at the end — it’s a practical, bite-sized way to reflect on your own relationship this week.

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In this milestone episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we celebrate one year of their podcast by diving deep into a raw and real conversation about navigating relationships through the chaos of parenting. From real-life Reddit stories to our own experiences, we unpack:

• The parenting-relationship imbalance many couples face

• How to put your relationship first without neglecting your kids

• Miscommunication around emotional labor and household load

• Why different parenting styles aren’t the problem (emotional regulation is!)

Plus, stick around for our Reality Check Corner to help you actively reflect, reconnect, and rebuild your relationship—one small step at a time.

Tune in to hear what over 10,000 listeners and millions of viewers already love about Honey, We Need to Chat's vulnerable, funny, and helpful weekly chats.

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🎙️ Feeling frustrated that your partner "should know" how to love you? Think love languages are the answer — but still feel disconnected?

In this powerful episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we dive deep into how love languages are misunderstood, overused, and sometimes misused — and why understanding them properly could change your relationship forever.

We unpack:

• 💡 The biggest misconceptions about love languages
• 💡 Why "knowing each other’s love language" isn’t enough to feel loved
• 💡 How rigid love language thinking leads to disconnection, resentment, and unmet needs
• 💡 What to do when your love languages don’t match — and why that’s actually okay
• 💡 Why love languages change over time (and how to adjust when they do)
• 💡 Practical ways to use love languages as tools — not as weapons or labels

PLUS: The #1 question you should be asking each other every week to keep growing intimacy, connection, and partnership.

👉 If you’ve ever felt frustrated by the “love languages” approach — this episode is your must-listen.

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