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From Betrayal To Breakthrough

From Betrayal To Breakthrough

De: Dr. Debi Silber
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The betrayal of a family member, partner, friend, etc. can create physical, mental and emotional challenges. If left unhealed, it impacts us personally and professionally. The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast shares insights from the best therapists, coaches, healers, thought leaders and everyday people, combined with the findings of a recent Ph.D. study on betrayal to help you move forward and heal...once and for all. Desarrollo Personal Hygiene & Healthy Living Psicología Psicología y Salud Mental Éxito Personal
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  • 425: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal—What It Really Takes
    Jun 16 2025
    Guest: Geoff Steurer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Betrayal Trauma Specialist, and Co-Host of From Crisis to Connection Episode Summary: In this powerful conversation, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with Geoff Steurer to unpack the deeply layered process of rebuilding trust after betrayal. Whether the betrayal came from infidelity, emotional disconnection, or broken agreements, Geoff explains how couples can not only survive the fallout—but create a completely new, stronger relationship. Drawing from his personal marriage journey and 20+ years of professional experience, Geoff shares the turning point that transformed his own relationship and the essential roadmap he uses with couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal. You’ll hear how full disclosure is not just a confessional but a structured, trauma-informed process that sets the stage for healing. You’ll also learn why most traditional couples counseling fails betrayed couples, what real accountability looks like, and how the betrayer can become a source of strength instead of pain. This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering rebuilding after betrayal—or helping others do the same. 🔑 Topics We Cover: Geoff’s personal betrayal recovery journey—and how it shaped his work The critical “wake-up call” moment that changed everything in his marriage Why many therapists unintentionally retraumatize betrayed partners The anatomy of a successful full disclosure process What betrayed partners really need to heal How betrayers can move from shame into strength and empathy Why traditional “relationship advice” (like more date nights) is premature The emotional cost of “trickle truth” and how to stop it What real intimacy looks like after betrayal Why healing timelines vary—and what a realistic journey looks like The role of courage in rebuilding a relationship from the ground up 💬 Memorable Quotes: “The most compassionate thing a betrayer can do is restore choice to the betrayed partner by telling the full truth.” “You can’t rebuild on sand. If you’re rebuilding, build it on something rock-solid—even if that means facing hard truths first.” “When couples do this work courageously, they often end up with a relationship they never imagined possible.” “Healing after betrayal isn’t about going back. It’s about co-creating something completely new—with mutual accountability, safety, and truth.” 🛠️ Resources Mentioned: From Crisis to Connection Podcast — Geoff’s show and site with his wife, Jody, offering a roadmap for couples healing from betrayal PBT Rebuild Program — For those who’ve betrayed and want to do the deep work of repair and transformation PBT Reclaim Program – For the betrayed who is ready to heal physically, mentally and emotionally 💡 Takeaway: Rebuilding after betrayal is hard—but not impossible. With honesty, accountability, empathy, and the right roadmap, couples can move beyond survival and into transformation. It starts with courageous truth-telling and continues with consistent, individual growth that supports the relationship over time. 🎧 Listen + Subscribe: Don’t miss this episode of From Betrayal to Breakthrough wherever you get your podcasts.
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    34 m
  • 424: The Performance Killer No One's Talking About: Betrayal Trauma at Work
    Jun 9 2025
    In this powerful, eye-opening masterclass, Dr. Debi Silber explores the hidden ways unhealed betrayal trauma disrupts workplace performance, leadership, team dynamics, and personal well-being. From brain fog and burnout to disengagement and chronic stress, betrayal at work and in life silently chips away at trust, productivity, and engagement—until it's named and healed. You’ll also hear from several Certified PBT® Coaches and Practitioners sharing real-world examples, healing insights, and how the PBT Method transforms both individuals and organizations. What You’ll Learn: Why betrayal is a unique form of trauma that requires a specific kind of healing The 3 groundbreaking discoveries from Dr. Debi's PhD study on betrayal How betrayal shows up at work (emotional volatility, imposter syndrome, absenteeism, inability to trust or delegate) Post Betrayal Syndrome®: Symptoms and statistics from 100,000+ survey respondents How unhealed betrayal is misdiagnosed as stress, burnout, leadership breakdown, or low morale The 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough—and how to move through them Why time and even new relationships don’t heal betrayal—only deliberate action does Featuring Guest Experts & PBT Coaches: Coach Peggy: On how betrayal left her emotionally overwhelmed and unable to work—leading to months of missed work and HR intervention Coach Elizabeth: On the nervous system’s response to trauma, chronic pain, addiction, and how yoga and somatic work support healing Coach Nari: On self-awareness, trauma’s impact on leadership and decision-making, and how healing restores personal power Practitioner Jay: On the workplace costs of unhealed betrayal, from policy gaps to team dysfunction, shame, and numbing behaviors Coach Sunrise (Middle East): On cultural barriers to addressing betrayal, the fast-track to "getting over it," and the cost of skipping healing Coach Ingrid (Kenya): On how betrayal trauma is perceived in Kenya, small business impacts, and cultural silence around betrayal Coach Tran (Vietnam): On the hidden emotional toll betrayal takes in professional settings where it’s often ignored Key Stats Shared: 84% struggle with trust after betrayal 71% experience sleep issues 60% can’t concentrate 78% constantly revisit the betrayal 81% feel a loss of personal power 45% have digestive issues related to betrayal Programs Mentioned: Reclaim Essentials: Self-paced program with milestone tracking — $497 Reclaim Momentum: Includes group coaching, live classes, Q&A with Dr. Debi — $997 Transform: All of Momentum + 3 private sessions with Dr. Debi + small group Transform sessions — $5,000 Resources: Take the Post Betrayal Syndrome® Quiz: https://thepbtinstitute.com/quiz Join the Reclaim Program: https://thepbtinstitute.com/reclaim Learn about bringing PBT® to your workplace: https://thepbtinstitute.com/corporate/ Final Takeaway: You don’t leave your wounds at the door. Betrayal trauma—personal or professional—will show up in your leadership, performance, team relationships, and health unless you deliberately heal it. The good news? With the right roadmap, healing is not just possible—it’s predictable.
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    1 h y 22 m
  • 423: Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Relationships
    Jun 2 2025
    Have you ever found yourself in the same toxic patterns—different people, but the same pain? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Keyleigh Clarkson, a therapist who brings both professional training and lived experience to the conversation around toxic relationships, trauma, and healing. From growing up in an unstable household to dating emotionally unavailable partners, Keyleigh shares how she broke the cycle of pain and reclaimed her self-worth. Together, Debi and Keyleigh explore the psychological roots of toxic relationship patterns, the impact of trauma on the nervous system, and—most importantly—how we can begin to heal. 🔑 Key Topics Covered: Keyleigh’s personal story of repeating toxic patterns from childhood to adulthood What is Repetitive Compulsion? Understanding why we’re drawn to what hurts us How trauma impacts the nervous system—and what that means for healing Self-worth vs. self-love: Why “self-like” may be the missing step The danger of outsourcing your worth—and how to bring it back home Small daily promises as a powerful tool to rebuild self-trust Recognizing when you’re stuck: repeating patterns in love, friendship, and work Practical nervous system regulation tools (like the Butterfly Hug and 4-Square Breathing) Signs you’re healing: subtle shifts that signal growth and transformation Why the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other one 💬 Memorable Quotes: “We often date the same person in a different body. That’s a sign we’re stuck in a familiar pain.” – Keyleigh Clarkson “Healing doesn’t start with affirmations—it starts with safety in the body.” – Keyleigh Clarkson “There is nothing wrong with you. People’s behavior says more about them than it ever did about you.” – Keyleigh Clarkson “If we’re outsourcing our self-worth, it can be taken as quickly as it’s given.” – Keyleigh Clarkson “Self-like comes before self-love.” – Keyleigh Clarkson 🛠️ Practical Tools Mentioned: Butterfly Hug (crossed thumbs, alternating taps on chest or knees) 4-Square Breathing (inhale, hold, exhale, hold for 4 seconds each) Daily self-promises (e.g., reading two pages, taking a walk, journaling) Self-awareness exercises: Track recurring patterns in relationships Micro meditations: Just 1 minute of stillness to begin retraining your nervous system 💡 Final Takeaway: You are not broken. If you’ve found yourself in toxic relationships, it doesn’t mean you’re unworthy—it means you’re operating from learned survival patterns. Healing is possible, and it starts with reclaiming your self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and building a gentle, compassionate relationship with yourself—one promise at a time. Connect with Keyleigh Clarkson: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamkeyleighclarkson/ Connect with The PBT Institute: The Reclaim Program – For the betrayed – Learn more here: https://thepbtinstitute.com/reclaim/   👏 Leave a Review If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear this. Healing from betrayal starts with understanding—and this episode is packed with insight that can make a real difference.
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    26 m
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