Episodios

  • Divorce: The Hidden Costs and Hard Truths You Need to Know
    Mar 18 2025
    Divorce. It’s supposed to be about ending a chapter and starting fresh, but what if it’s much more than that? What if it’s a battle you’re not prepared for, one where the system itself becomes an obstacle rather than a help? In this raw and unfiltered episode, Kelly Renee pulls back the curtain on the often-hidden realities of divorce. Drawing from her own deeply personal experience of going through two divorces, Kelly shares the emotional, financial, and legal challenges she faced—and what she wishes she had known before starting the process. From the staggering costs of attorney fees to the emotional toll of navigating a broken system, Kelly doesn’t hold back. She reveals how the legal system can exploit those at their most vulnerable, and why it’s crucial to protect yourself before you ever need to. Whether you’re happily married, considering divorce, or simply want to be prepared for life’s uncertainties, this episode is a wake-up call. Kelly offers practical advice, hard-earned wisdom, and a heartfelt plea for couples to have honest conversations about the "what ifs" before it’s too late. Let’s dive in! Key Takeaways The shocking truth about attorney fees and how the system exploits the vulnerable. How ex-spouses can manipulate finances and leave you with nothing. The emotional toll of being abandoned by your legal representation. Why you need to have honest conversations with your partner before divorce becomes a reality. The importance of protecting yourself financially, even in a happy marriage. Kelly’s vision for a nonprofit to help women navigate divorce with dignity. In This Episode (00:38) PSA on divorce (00:44) Kelly’s story: Two divorces. Two painful lessons. (00:58) Attorney fees: The system fails you. (01:52) You can't DocuSign divorce paperwork (01:56) Kelly’s lawyer dropped her case (02:04) Never use Singleton Law Group in Marietta (02:41) The emotional toll of being abandoned by your attorney. (04:36) Alimony for life? The misconceptions (05:12) Legal single status (06:18) Court process frustrations (07:15) Planning for potential divorce scenarios (09:48) Protecting your finances, even in a happy marriage. (10:48) Need for alternative support (12:58) Kelly’s nonprofit vision: Helping women in need. (16:42) Mediation as alternatives to costly legal battles. (16:53) Final thoughts Notable Quotes [02:40] "I paid $40,000 for three years for someone to show up for court for me. In the end, I had to review the judgment on my own. What did I even pay for?"— Kelly Renee [05:27] "He cut me off from the business, stopped paying me, and left me with nothing. The system allows this to happen, and it’s devastating."— Kelly Renee [07:15] "You go to court, discuss two motions, and then wait six months to go back. It’s a rip-off, and it’s designed to drain you financially and emotionally."— Kelly Renee [07:23] "If you’re happily married, have the hard conversations now. What happens if we’re not together anymore? How do we protect each other?" — Kelly Renee [14:43] "Divorce isn’t about winning or losing. It’s about giving each person the opportunity to start over without struggling." [15:49] I spent $40,000, and I'm sure he spent $40,000—that's $80,000 we spent on attorneys to fight for nothing because, in the end, there's nothing left.”— Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    18 m
  • Toxic Workplaces and the Courage to Speak Out
    Mar 11 2025
    Have you ever wondered what you’d do if you were faced with a situation where standing up for what’s right could cost you everything? What if the people you trusted most turned against you, and the very thing you built became a battleground? In this raw and unfiltered episode of Fiercely Unfiltered, Kelly Renee shares her harrowing journey of betrayal, resilience, and the fight to reclaim her voice in the face of toxic leadership and systemic injustice. Kelly opens up about the aftermath of being ousted from the company she co-founded, the retaliation she faced, and the emotional toll of watching her life’s work crumble under the weight of toxicity. She recounts the shocking moments of being threatened, silenced, and erased, yet refusing to back down. Through it all, Kelly’s story is a testament to the power of standing up for what’s right, even when it feels like the world is against you. Tune in to this powerful episode as Kelly Renee reminds us that our voices matter, our stories have power, and no one has the right to erase us. Key Takeaways The importance of standing up for integrity, even in the face of retaliation. How toxic leadership can dismantle even the strongest organizations. The emotional and financial toll of betrayal in business and personal relationships. Why silence is not an option when faced with injustice. The power of resilience and using your voice to reclaim your story. Practical lessons on navigating workplace toxicity and protecting your mental health. The role of accountability in leadership and why it’s essential for a healthy workplace. In This Episode (00:01) Introduction to Fiercely Unfiltered (01:18) Kelly’s “What Would You Do?” moment. (01:23) Moving back to Canyon Lake,rehoming her dogs. (02:35) Employee mistreatment, Kelly fights back. (03:53) Life-threatening call, betrayal follows. (05:15) Ex-husband erases her from their company. (06:20) Liable for unpaid taxes, emotional toll. (07:22) Reports forged checks, removed from account. (08:18) In public seating, Kelly protects employees. (09:14) Car accident changes everything. (10:12) Relegated to busywork, struggles for control. (11:07) Store shuts down, Kelly feels relief. (12:13) Stand up for yourself, no matter what. (13:18) Board meeting seals her fate. (14:21) Store closes, emotional fallout. (15:12) Final message: Speak up, never be erased. Notable Quotes [05:09] “This wasn’t about him saving the company. This was about me being erased. He wanted a life without me, and he was going to get an army to help him do it.” — Kelly Renee [09:51] “God doesn’t let anyone get away with anything. He hits harder than you ever could.” — Kelly Renee [12:41] “No one in my company was willing to stand up and put their job on the line. But I won’t be silenced. I’m not going to be scared to stand up for what’s right.” — Kelly Renee [20:01] “You have a choice. You can let people try to erase you, or you can stand up for yourself. You can be silent, or you can use your voice. I used my voice. I’m not going to be silenced.” — Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    21 m
  • The Truth I Never Wanted to Face
    Mar 4 2025
    Some years break you. Some years test every ounce of strength you have. And then there are the years that completely redefine you. For Kelly Renee, this was that year. In this deeply personal episode of Fiercely Unfiltered, Kelly Renee takes us through the most challenging year of her life—one filled with betrayal, heartbreak, and painful lessons. She opens up about discovering her husband’s infidelity, the emotional rollercoaster that followed, and how she lost herself in the process. Kelly shares the deep grief of her mother’s passing, the struggles in her marriage, and the fallout of blending business with personal relationships. Through raw honesty, she reflects on the choices she made that went against her values and the powerful lessons she learned about self-worth, resilience, and healing. If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where you didn’t recognize the person you had become, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in! Key Takeaways The emotional weight of betrayal and deception How grief can distort reality and keep you in toxic cycles The struggles of running a business with someone who’s breaking you The moment Kelly realized she was being gaslit The fine line between self-destruction and healing The decision that changed everything: Choosing herself over the past Why speaking your truth is the first step to freedom In This Episode: (00:01) Reflecting on a regretful year. (01:23) A fight with her husband. (02:20) Son shares a compromising photo. (03:36) Confronting her husband. (04:42) Strange laundry findings. (05:54) Suggesting separation. (07:02) Moving out. (08:20) Still spending holidays together. (09:32) Her father-in-law’s death. (11:25) Husband’s anger resurfaces. (12:30) Egg retrieval process. (13:38) Struggles during the anniversary. (14:40) Balancing work and personal life. (15:39) Difficult board meeting. (16:47) Deciding on divorce. (18:44) Business challenges. (19:43) Supporting her husband professionally. (20:52) Discovering infidelity. (21:59) Confronting him about another woman. (22:57) Tensions at work rise. (24:53) Regaining control of her life (26:07) Reflecting on growth. (27:20) Closing remarks. Notable Quotes [02:20] "When I saw that picture, time stood still. My heart shattered. But the hardest part was knowing my son had to be the one to show it to me." — Kelly Renee [09:52] "I kept waiting for honesty, but every truth came with a lie. And you can’t build healing on half-truths." — Kelly Renee [16:47] "In January 2022, I decided I'm going to file for divorce. He still hadn't filed for divorce, and that's one of the reasons I don't really believe in marriage anymore because he just got in a fight with me, went to a hotel, and started fucking people." — Kelly Renee [26:07] "Shame only holds power in the dark. The moment you bring it to light, it loses its grip on you." — Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    28 m
  • America Speaks: The Truth About Democracy and Support for Trump
    Feb 25 2025
    What would you do if speaking your truth meant losing friends, business opportunities, or even your reputation? Would you stay silent—or would you stand firm? In this powerful episode of Fiercely Unfiltered, Kelly Renee shares why she proudly supports Donald Trump, despite the backlash. From quietly voting for him in 2016 to openly wearing her support today, she walks us through the personal cost of standing by her beliefs—and why she refuses to be silenced. Kelly doesn’t just talk politics; she dives deep into what true leadership looks like, why democracy only works if we accept the results, and how media fear tactics shape public opinion. She challenges listeners to think critically, take responsibility for their choices, and stop letting fear dictate their voices. She also explores the broader issues affecting our country—parenting, education, and the importance of strong values. If you’ve ever felt pressured to keep quiet, this episode is a wake-up call to stand tall, own your beliefs, and move forward with confidence. Key Takeaways The personal price of standing up for what you believe in. Why political division is costing friendships—and what that says about us. How fear-driven narratives keep people silent. The difference between leadership and a popularity contest. Why democracy only works if we respect the results. The role of parents in shaping the next generation’s values. How media and peer pressure shape public opinion. The power of standing firm—even when the world pushes back. In This Episode (00:01) Introduction to Fiercely Unfiltered (00:36) Support for Donald Trump (01:12) Silent Support in 2020 (02:17) Vocal Support in 2024 (03:13) Democracy and Acceptance (04:17) Concerns about Education and Children (05:18) Parental Responsibility (06:06) The Importance of Positive Influences (07:06) Admiration for Trump's Resilience (07:40) Support for Trump's Policies (08:10) Merit Over Gender in Leadership (09:07) Critique of Joe Biden (09:52) Call for Unity Among Americans (10:56) Conclusion and Final Thoughts Notable Quotes [02:17] "I lost one of my longest childhood friends just because of who I voted for. And that’s sad. We should be able to have different opinions without losing people." — Kelly Renee [03:51] "Trump doesn’t need this job. He’s not even taking a paycheck. He’s doing it because no one else will stand up to the system." — Kelly Renee [06:41] "This isn’t about whether you like someone personally. It’s about who can do the job. Leadership is about action, not a popularity contest." — Kelly Renee [09:52] "America spoke. You lost. Now it's time to support the leader of our country, whether you like it or not." — Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    12 m
  • Mindset vs. Mental Health: Why Both Matter
    Feb 18 2025
    Did you ever think that your mindset could carry you through anything? That with the right attitude, you could tackle any obstacle life threw your way? But what if I told you that mindset alone isn’t enough to carry you through the toughest times? What if I told you that without processing your emotions, even the strongest mindset can only get you so far? In this episode of Fiercely Unfiltered, Kelly Renee dives into the balance between mindset and mental health, sharing her own personal experiences. She opens up about the deep impact of grief, especially after her mother’s passing, and why processing your emotions is just as important as having a strong mindset. Kelly talks about her healing journey, the struggles she faced in her marriage, and the trauma from her husband’s motorcycle accident. She highlights the importance of self-care and emotional intelligence, advocating for a balanced approach to mental well-being by combining emotional processing with a resilient mindset. Be sure to listen in, and let’s dive into how you can take charge of both your mindset and mental health. Key Takeaways The relationship between mindset and mental health Personal stories of grief and loss Why processing emotions is crucial (and not just relying on mindset) The healing journey after losing a loved one Challenges in relationships during times of grief How trauma and PTSD impact emotional well-being The importance of self-care and emotional intelligence Understanding the difference between mindset and mental health Simple strategies for boosting mental health, like exercise and eating well Why vulnerability and emotional processing are key to building resilience In This Episode: (00:00:01) Introduction to mindset and mental health (00:01:17) Realization after loss (00:03:53) Impact of grief on relationships (00:05:05) Navigating anger and resentment (00:07:33) Trauma from a motorcycle accident (00:08:35) Patterns of avoidance (00:09:52) Balancing mindset and mental health (00:11:11) The journey of self-care (00:12:37) The importance of kindness (00:14:12) Conclusion: The interconnection of mindset and mental health Notable Quotes [00:01:17] "After the death of my mom, I realized that mindset wasn't enough; it was the grief that I needed to process." — Kelly Renee [00:03:53] "I've never had a death that close to me that shook my world. She was like my biggest cheerleader, and without her, there was just a void of safety and belonging." — Kelly Renee [00:09:52] "It doesn't matter how strong your mindset is; you have to take care of your feelings and emotions, and you have to learn how to process those so they don't affect everything in your life." — Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    15 m
  • Unmasking the Pain of Infertility: My Truth, Unfiltered
    Feb 11 2025
    Are you struggling with infertility and feeling like no one truly understands what you're going through? Does it seem like everyone around you is breezing through their pregnancies while you’re stuck in a cycle of disappointment? In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode of Fiercely Unfiltered, Kelly Renee opens up about her emotional journey with infertility, sharing her struggles with IVF, IUI, and miscarriages while navigating life’s unexpected turns. From having two healthy sons in her 20s to the complex challenges of trying to conceive later in life, Kelly recounts the highs, the devastating lows, and the lessons learned along the way. She dives into the physical and emotional toll of infertility, the strain it put on her marriage, and the life-altering decisions she made, such as undergoing a tubal ligation and its later reversal. Kelly speaks candidly about unprocessed emotions, societal expectations, and finding peace in accepting God’s plan for her life. Kelly reminds listeners that while infertility is a deeply personal and challenging journey, no one has to face it alone. Key Takeaways Kelly’s personal infertility journey, including IVF, IUI, and natural pregnancies. The emotional challenges of miscarriages and failed attempts. The impact of infertility on relationships and mental health. The importance of processing emotions and finding support. Reflections on faith, gratitude, and God’s timing. Encouragement for women to share their stories and build community. In This Episode: (00:00:01) Introduction to infertility journey (00:01:16) Early motherhood experience (00:02:22) Decision to get tubes tied (00:03:20) Initial IVF journey (00:04:32) Long wait and second IVF attempt (00:05:44) Reversal surgery (00:06:46) Miscarriages and challenges (00:07:54) IUI procedures (00:09:09) Emergency surgery (00:10:30) IVF cycle attempts (00:11:55) Decision to stop trying (00:13:14) Impact on marriage (00:14:22) Reflections on timing and choices (00:15:37) Finding faith through struggles (00:16:58) Final thoughts on sharing stories (00:19:04) Emotional toll of infertility (00:20:19) Feeling alone in the journey (00:21:24) Acceptance of her family journey (00:22:27) Empowerment through storytelling Notable Quotes [00:03:20] "When we went into that room and they said, 'You're not pregnant,' I mean, that was a blow to both of us we weren't expecting, and it took us two and a half years to try again." — Kelly Renee [00:10:30] "It was my husband at the time who I just don't think he could t ake the disappointment anymore, and he sat down with me and said, 'You know, I just don't think having kids is our journey together.'" — Kelly Renee [00:15:37] "I didn't understand why this was happening to me. Like, so many people, like homeless people, people on crack, they get pregnant no problem, yet me, who is trying so hard, it just wasn't working." — Kelly Renee [00:19:04] "I missed out on a lot of celebrations because of my mental state, and my mental state was that I just didn't deal with anything." — Kelly Renee [00:20:19] "I want to be that friend for you guys. If you need support or have questions, I've been through so much, and I wouldn't wish what I went through on anybody." — Kelly Renee [00:21:24] "I thank God for knowing what I needed more than I did, and I want to leave you with that—you are not alone." — Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    23 m
  • The Best Lessons Learned from My Fitness Journey: Nutrition, Weight Training, and Self-Care
    Feb 4 2025
    In this episode of "Fiercely Unfiltered," host Kelly Renee shares her personal fitness journey, emphasizing the importance of nutrition, exercise, and self-care. Reflecting on her active 20s and 30s, Kelly discusses her shift to weight training in her 40s and the crucial role of understanding calorie intake, macronutrients, and protein consumption. She offers practical tips for incorporating protein into meals and stresses making oneself a priority. Kelly encourages women, particularly in their 30s, to start focusing on their health, highlighting that it's never too late to begin a fitness journey. Key Takeaways Personal fitness journey and evolution of approach to fitness Importance of understanding calorie intake for fitness goals Introduction to macronutrients (macros) and protein consumption Transition from cardio to weight training and its benefits Practical tips for increasing protein intake in meals Reflection on past habits related to hydration and nutrition Emphasis on self-care and prioritizing personal health Addressing misconceptions about weight training among women Encouragement for women in their 30s to start focusing on health Commitment to lifelong fitness and setting realistic health goals In This Episode: (00:00:01) Introduction to Fiercely Unfiltered (00:00:30) Fitness journey overview (00:01:11) Understanding calories (00:02:20) Introduction to macros and protein (00:03:21) Investing in a trainer (00:04:14) Weight training vs. cardio (00:05:13) Building muscle and nutrition (00:06:14) Prioritizing health in your 30s (00:08:08) Morning protein shake tips (00:09:09) Incorporating Greek yogurt (00:10:07) Using cottage cheese for protein (00:11:06) Changing perspectives on fitness (00:12:03) Setting fitness goals and competitions (00:12:51) Documenting progress (00:13:49) Food preparation for success (00:14:47) Final thoughts on fitness (00:15:45) Closing remarks Notable Quotes [00:00:01] "I've faced betrayal, loss, rejection, but every one of those scars tells a story of strength." — Kelly Renee [00:04:14] "I'm just disappointed in myself that this isn't something I did sooner. So if you're in your 30s, ladies, start focusing on and being intentional about your workouts and your health now." — Kelly Renee [00:11:06] "I'm amazed that I was as healthy as I was for so long, and now I'm just so happy that I've changed my outlook on fitness. I've made it a priority, I made myself a priority, and I want everyone else to understand that you need to make yourself a priority too." — Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    16 m
  • Reclaiming Your Worth: The Art of Self-Love After Betrayal
    Jan 28 2025
    In this episode of "Fiercely Unfiltered," Kelly Renee delves into her personal healing journey after her marriage ended. She discusses the emotional struggles of feeling abandoned and rebuilding her self-worth amid professional and personal challenges. Kelly recounts a poignant birthday lunch experience that triggered feelings of loneliness but ultimately led to self-empowerment. She highlights the complexities of healing, societal pressures to move on quickly, and the importance of living authentically. The episode serves as a powerful reminder that healing is unique to each individual and encourages listeners to embrace their vulnerabilities and resilience. Key Takeaways Personal healing journey after the end of a marriage Emotional struggles, including feelings of abandonment and betrayal Challenges faced in personal and professional life, including workplace bullying The non-linear nature of healing and individual recovery timelines Societal expectations regarding moving on quickly after a breakup Importance of self-empowerment and reclaiming one's life Reflection on a triggering experience at a birthday lunch Mastering emotions and living authentically Embracing vulnerabilities and rebuilding after loss The power of personal stories and the strength of being true to oneself In This Episode: (00:00:01) Introduction to healing (00:00:26) Personal healing journey (00:01:26) Birthday lunch reflection (00:02:31) Self-worth realization (00:03:51) Bullying and job loss (00:04:58) Understanding divorce (00:07:45) Grieving a lost relationship (00:09:03) Mastering emotions (00:10:09) Healing is a process (00:11:19) Empowerment through celibacy (00:12:17) Changing perspectives (00:13:22) Living authentically (00:14:39) Conclusion and call to action Notable Quotes [00:01:26] "I looked around and with all my strength, I had to not burst into tears because I was the only one that was single." — Kelly Renee [00:04:58] "I understand divorce and I understand a man wanting a new life, but what I didn’t understand is how the same man who didn’t think I was good enough is now in charge of my livelihood and my job." — Kelly Renee [00:12:17] "I’m going to live the life that I’ve always wanted, do the things I should have been doing, and create a life that I’m proud of." — Kelly Renee Resources and Links Fiercely Unfiltered Fiercely Unfiltered with Kelly Renee Kelly Renee Instagram Facebook Website
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    16 m