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Esmeralda shares her perspective on raising two teenage boys as a single mother and discusses her views on what makes a good man in today's world.

• Being a man comes with unique challenges like societal expectations to be the provider, to be tough, and to take on numerous responsibilities
• Men and women have different characteristics that should complement each other rather than compete
• Teaching boys practical skills like changing tires and using tools prepares them for manhood
• Being a "man of your word" and facing consequences for your choices are foundational values
• As boys get older, they need both nurturing and boundaries to develop into good men
• Communication is essential - talk to children in the car, at home, and create space for open conversation
• A mother can teach masculine values but also needs to acknowledge when male role models are missing
• Children need responsibilities without being forced to become "the man of the house" too early
• Setting boundaries, following through with consequences, and avoiding overindulgence helps boys develop character
• When disciplining children, "talk more to the king in them than to the fool" to bring out their best qualities

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Aaron Thomas explores ten barriers preventing men from reaching their full potential as open, vulnerable individuals who inspire those around them.

• Societal expectations around traditional masculinity discourage emotional expression
• Workplace stress puts pressure on men to prioritize work over family and personal wellbeing
• Relationship issues stem from difficulty expressing emotions and needs
• Financial pressure ties economic stability to self-worth causing unnecessary stress
• Health concerns go unaddressed as men delay seeking medical help
• Substance abuse serves as unhealthy coping mechanisms for emotional pain
• Loneliness and isolation result from limited support networks
• Mental health stigma prevents men from seeking necessary help
• Burnout occurs from constant overworking and seeking titles/awards
• Trauma and PTSD remain unprocessed due to societal pressure

Aaron encourages listeners to question societal definitions of weakness and strength. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram at Excellence Above Talent. Keep moving forward, never give up, and remember you are never alone in this battle.

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Aaron Thomas explores the evolving definition of masculinity with his wife Yanni, examining how men can find purpose beyond societal expectations and create healthier relationships through emotional intelligence.

• Men today have more opportunity to be themselves beyond traditional provider roles
• Creating safe spaces where men can remove their masks and express vulnerability
• The energy a man brings home shapes the entire household
• Emotional intelligence is often excluded from discussions about manhood due to tradition
• Healthy male friendships provide accountability and encourage personal growth
• Supporting mentors means ensuring they're mentally and emotionally equipped to pour into others
• "Daddy issues" manifest as fear of abandonment and feelings of unworthiness for both men and women
• Women can support men's mental health by being curious and attentive to behavioral changes

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