Episodios

  • Asking Friends For Help (Without Feeling Guilty Or Needy!)
    Mar 27 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    We're tackling a feeling we’ve all had but rarely talk about—what it’s like to need help but feel paralyzed by guilt, fear, or pride. Asking friends for help can feel uncomfortable, awkward, or even shameful. Whether you’re afraid of seeming too needy, being rejected, or coming off as incapable, Zoe shows how to push through that discomfort and actually create deeper, more authentic relationships by reaching out.

    Help me (Zoe) get to know YOU (yes, you, the person behind those earbuds) with this quick 2-minute form—and as a thank you, I’ll email you my "Asking Better Questions" guide with my 15 favorite conversation starters.

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    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    13 m
  • How Do I Find Time For Adult Friendships? I’m Already Too Busy!
    Mar 20 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    As adults, finding time for friendships can feel impossible. Between work, family, responsibilities, and personal commitments, maintaining social connections often takes a backseat. But research shows that strong friendships are not just a luxury—they’re essential for mental and physical health. In fact, studies suggest that loneliness can be as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. So how do you prioritize friendships when your schedule already feels overwhelming?

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    8 m
  • How To Go To A Bar Alone & Make Friends With Strangers (Without Looking Creepy!)
    Mar 6 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Yes, it's possible to go to a bar by yourself and enjoy making friends with strangers (even if you're an introvert like me!) But how do you confidently strike up conversations with strangers without looking creepy? In this episode, I'm sharing real-life strategies that will help you start meaningful conversations, overcome social anxiety, and make new friends at a bar—without the fear of rejection.

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    19 m
  • What to do when you’re always the friend that initiates (& makes plans) first…
    Feb 27 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    After a while, it gets exhausting and unnerving. We're always the ones making the plans! It makes us feel like our friends don't care about us because...if they did, they would initiate plans sometimes too! Right?! Let's break down what could be going on, and how to navigate this situation in your friendships

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    9 m
  • How To Overcome A Fear Of Rejection In Friendship (From Someone Who Was Rejected 50x)
    Feb 20 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    It's the worst. We put ourselves out there, only to get so anxious, paranoid, and ultimately risk feeling rejected by someone else. So, when it happens, how do we overcome the fear? And, how can we think about rejection differently so that it doesn't stop us from building meaningful friendships? Let's go!

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    8 m
  • How To Make Friends As An Adult In 2025 (3 Steps That SQUASH Your Insecurities!)
    Feb 13 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    It sucks so bad. AND, it doesn't need to continue sucking. 2025 is a wild ride so far...the last thing we need is more complexities in friendship. I'm breaking down the 3 steps you need to build meaningful adult friendships this year, and if followed, these steps will not only help you make true friends, but build your confidence and courage too! (And yes, I am also an introvert :)

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    10 m
  • 15 BEST Questions to Ask Someone New After Small Talk Ends
    Jan 16 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    A familiar scene: you're meeting someone new and don't know what questions to ask! And small talk sucks! Yes, I totally agree, so let's talk through 15 questions that you can ask to help get PAST small talk when you're having a conversation with someone new so that you can build a real connection and have a meaningful conversation! These ALL work and they are ALL my go-to questions!

    Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q's is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!

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    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    28 m
  • The New Year’s Resolution that changed my life (and ended my loneliness) | STEAL THIS IDEA!
    Jan 2 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    This is the exact method I used to execute my New Year's resolution to stop being lonely. If you watch this video, you will not only leave feeling encouraged but will be able to steal the exact same method I used and implement it in your own life this year. You're worth it!

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    It's one thing to listen and passively consume content - and it's another thing to take action! Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and Zoe will be in touch with next steps!

    Did you know we also have a YouTube channel?! It's true, just for all of you lovers of visual formats! For the video version of this episode, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

    Join in the fun - let's connect on Instagram @zoeasher!

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    13 m