Dinners with Ruth

A Memoir of Friendship

De: Nina Totenberg

Narrado por: Nina Totenberg

Celebrated NPR correspondent Nina Totenberg delivers an extraordinary memoir of her personal successes, struggles, and life-affirming relationships, including her beautiful friendship of nearly fifty years with Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

Four years before Nina Totenberg was hired at NPR, where she cemented her legacy as a prizewinning reporter, and nearly twenty-two years before Ruth Bader Ginsburg was appointed to the Supreme Court, Nina called Ruth. A reporter for The National Observer, Nina was curious about Ruth’s legal brief, asking the Supreme Court to do something revolutionary: declare a law that discriminated “on the basis of sex” to be unconstitutional. In a time when women were fired for becoming pregnant, often could not apply for credit cards, or get a mortgage in their own names, Ruth patiently explained her argument. That call launched a remarkable, nearly fifty-year friendship.

Dinners with Ruth is an extraordinary account of two women who paved the way for future generations by tearing down professional and legal barriers. It is also an intimate memoir of the power of friendships as women began to pry open career doors and transform the workplace. At the story’s heart is one, special relationship: Ruth and Nina saw each other not only through personal joys, but also illness, loss, and widowhood. During the devastating illness and eventual death of Nina’s first husband, Ruth drew her out of grief; twelve years later, Nina would reciprocate when Ruth’s beloved husband died. They shared not only a love of opera, but also of shopping, as they instinctively understood that clothes were armor for women who wanted to be taken seriously in a workplace dominated by men. During Ruth’s last year, they shared so many small dinners that Saturdays were “reserved for Ruth” in Nina’s house.

Dinners with Ruth also weaves together compelling, personal portraits of other fascinating women and men from Nina’s life, including her cherished NPR colleagues Cokie Roberts and Linda Wertheimer; her beloved husbands; her friendships with multiple Supreme Court Justices, including Lewis Powell, William Brennan, and Antonin Scalia, and Nina’s own family—her father, the legendary violinist Roman Totenberg, and her “best friends,” her sisters. Inspiring and revelatory, Dinners with Ruth is a moving story of the joy and true meaning of friendship.

©2022 Nina Totenberg. All rights reserved. (P)2022 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved

Dinners with Ruth

I enjoyed this very much. At first I thought the title was to sell books because it is half about Ruth and the other half a memoir of the author. It really is about several friendships and an insiders view of the Supreme Court. I found it very informative, well written and I looked forward to listening to a few chapters a day. This is definitely a good one.

Beautiful remembrance

How wonderful to hear these stories and remember the force that was RBG. A balm for the soul in these troubled times.

Genuinely moving

I was surprised at how moving Nina's stories if friendship are, especially those of RBG. The world is so much darker for having lost her.

Nina’s Autobiography

Great book. I learned a lot about the workings of the Supreme Court. It read more like Nina’s autobiography than about dinners with Ruth. Great read, though.

So so good.

This book is a lovely remembrance of friendship between extraordinary women. This book reminds me of Nora Ephron’s “I Feel Bad About My Neck: And Other Thoughts on Being a Woman” and “I Remember Nothing”

uplifting & inspiring

I highly recommend this delightful book. it shored me up at this trying time. Thank you Nina!

if you love RBG and Nina T, read this book!

a beautiful tribute and story of women who have made history and opened doors for the rest of us

Great Book

Heartwarming story of functional families and great friendships. I have suggested to several others who also raved about what a good story this is.

Live every minute

Such a great way to let us in their lives. I love the story, the audio, and the little surprise at the end. Beautifully told.

I didn’t think I could love Nina Totenberg more. I was wrong

She brought her heart, professionalism, identity, and gift at storytelling. Thank you for sharing RBG, so many others, and yourself with us.