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  • #18 - the LOOOOOOOVE Episode / Dating and Godly Relationships / Valentines Day

    #18 - the LOOOOOOOVE Episode / Dating and Godly Relationships / Valentines Day
    Feb 14 2025
    LINKS MENTIONED IN PODCAST:THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES by GARY CHAPMAN - https://amzn.to/40XvE5KTake the love languages quiz - https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-languageIntroduction (5 minutes)Opening Theme Music/IntroWelcome Message:Welcome to The Unreligious Podcast—where we spread the love of Jesus without judgment or by-laws, focusing solely on Christ and the Bible.If you have questions or topics you’d like us to discuss, email us at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.comDon’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and review this podcast—it helps spread the word!YouTube Channel: The Unreligious PodcastInstagram: @theunreligiouspodcastHow Was Your Week? (10 minutes) DREWDaddy daughter date Night on fridayDaddy Mommy date night saturday nightCar broke down date and it was sort of a God momentChrisStill adjusting to the big move back to the states and cold temps.It's the episode of LOVE! Any romantic tips for the happy couples?Tonight's Topic: The War on Marriage and Godly Relationships (35 minutes)If you have questions or topics you’d like us to discuss, email us at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.comREAD COMMENTS FROM FANs!Here’s an outline for "The Opposite of a Godly Marriage", which explores a dysfunctional, unhealthy, and ungodly relationship:IntroductionDefine a godly marriage (built on love, faith, respect, and commitment).Introduce the opposite: a marriage lacking these qualities, leading to dysfunction and brokenness.Explain the purpose—understanding what makes a marriage ungodly helps avoid these pitfalls.1. Lack of Spiritual FoundationNo shared faith or spiritual guidance.Prioritizing worldly desires over biblical principles.Disregard for prayer, church, or biblical teachings in the relationship.2. Absence of Love and RespectSelfishness instead of selfless love (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 as a contrast).Constant criticism, belittling, or lack of appreciation.Emotional neglect and lack of kindness.3. Poor Communication and Conflict ResolutionFrequent arguments filled with anger and resentment.No willingness to listen or understand each other.Use of manipulation, silent treatment, or passive-aggressive behavior. 4. Infidelity and Broken TrustEmotional or physical affairs.Dishonesty and deceit as a pattern in the relationship.Inability to forgive or rebuild trust. 5. Disregard for Biblical Roles and ResponsibilitiesNo servant-hearted leadership from the husband (Ephesians 5:25).No respect or support from the wife (Ephesians 5:22-24).Viewing marriage as a competition instead of a partnership.6. Lack of Commitment and Covenant MindsetViewing marriage as temporary or disposable.Threatening divorce as a manipulation tactic.No willingness to work through difficulties.7. Worldly Influence Over Biblical GuidancePrioritizing culture, social media, or friends over God's Word.Seeking personal happiness over godly obedience.Justifying sin rather than repenting and growing together. 1 Corinthians 6:16 (NKJV)“Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For ‘the two,’ He says, ‘shall become one flesh.’”8. Unhealthy Family and Parenting DynamicsUsing children as pawns in conflicts.Inconsistent or absent parenting.Setting a poor example of love, faith, and commitment.ConclusionRecap the key elements of an ungodly marriage.Encourage self-reflection and the pursuit of a Christ-centered marriage.Offer hope: redemption is possible through repentance and God’s grace.Now lets look at the BIBLICAL foundations for a relationshipIntroductionEmbracing a New Creation in Christ:2 Corinthians 5:17 (NKJV):“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”Purpose of Godly Relationships:Emphasize that dating and courtship are meant to honor God and pursue holiness.1. Biblical Foundations for RelationshipsPurity and Holiness:1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 (NKJV):“For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do not know God; that no one should take advantage of and defraud his brother in this matter, because the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God did not call us to uncleanness, but in holiness.”Commitment in Love:Song of Solomon 8:6-7 (NKJV):“Set me as a seal upon your heart, as a seal upon your arm;For love is strong as death, jealousy is cruel as the grave;Its flames are flames of fire, a most vehement flame.Many waters cannot quench love, nor can the floods drown it.”God’s Love as Our Model:1 John 4:9-11 (NKJV):“In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. ...
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • #17 - Anger (part 3) / KILL YOUR ENEMIES... with kindness... (Romans 12: 9-21)

    #17 - Anger (part 3) / KILL YOUR ENEMIES... with kindness... (Romans 12: 9-21)
    Feb 10 2025
    Episode #17 / AngerTarget Time Length: 1 hourThe Unreligious Podcast: Episode #17 - AngerIntroduction (5 minutes)Opening Theme Music/Intro(Brief, engaging music with a welcoming tone.)Welcome Message:Welcome to The Unreligious Podcast—where we spread the love of Jesus without judgment or by-laws, focusing solely on Christ and the Bible.If you have questions or topics you’d like us to discuss, email us at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.comDon’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and review this podcast—it helps spread the word!YouTube Channel: The Unreligious PodcastInstagram: @theunreligiouspodcastHow Was Your Week? (10 minutes) DREWThe great poop fiascoSnack man strikes again with tortillasChad used his Bible I recommendedMissions Conference at church (get Chris’s opinion)Church was a banger this past week Here is a link to the STUDY BIBLE Drew was talking about: https://amzn.to/3Qadw3CTonight's Topic: Anger (35 minutes)If you have questions or topics you’d like us to discuss, email us at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.comREAD COMMENTS FROM FANS!Episode Preview:We’ll explore the frustrations and consequences of anger, how it impacts our relationship with God and others, and look at examples from Scripture to illustrate how anger can be both destructive and redemptive.Anger is a universal emotion, one we’ve all experienced. In today’s episode, we’re diving into what anger is, how it affects our lives and relationships, and what the Bible says about managing it.Listener Engagement:Thank you to everyone who has reached out!FOLLOW UP ON CHRIS'S CHALLENGEPractical Ways to Manage AngerPause and ReflectTake a moment to pray and ask God for guidance before reacting.Proverbs 15:1: “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”Proverbs 14:29: “Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.” Seek ReconciliationAddress conflicts directly and humbly. Holding grudges only deepens the divide.Matthew 5:23-24: “If you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there... and be reconciled.”Rid Yourself of Toxic EmotionsColossians 3:8: “But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.”Biblical Ways to Resolve AngerEmbrace God’s PeaceFill your heart with God’s Word to replace anger with love and patience.Philippians 4:7: “The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”Pray for PeacePhilippians 4:6-7: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”Prayer invites God’s peace into your heart and helps you process anger constructively. Practice Self-ControlProverbs 29:11: “A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back.”Proverbs 22:24: “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered.” Responding with patience and control prevents anger from escalating into sin.Forgive OthersEphesians 4:32: “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.”Letting go of anger through forgiveness mirrors God’s grace and heals relationships. Trust in God’s JusticeLet go of the need for revenge or control. God sees all and will bring justice in His time.Romans 12:9-21 (NKJV) – Full Passage for Reflection9 Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. 10 Bekindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another; 11 not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; 12 rejoicing in hope, patient[c] in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer; 13 distributing to the needs of the saints, given[d] to hospitality.14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. 16 Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.17 Repay no one evil for evil. Have[e] regard for good things in the sight of all men. 18 If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. 19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. 20 Therefore“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;If he is thirsty, give him a drink;For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.”21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.By practicing these biblical principles, anger can be resolved in a way that reflects God’s love and brings peace to your life.How This Applies to Anger:Verses 9-10: ...
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  • #16- the ANGER Challenge! (Jesus says pray for your enemies)

    #16- the ANGER Challenge! (Jesus says pray for your enemies)
    Feb 3 2025
    Episode 16: Pray for Your Enemies / Chris's EPIC ChallengeAnger—it’s something we’ve all felt, but what happens when it lingers? In this episode of The Unreligious Podcast, Chris and Drew dive into the long-lasting effects of anger and how it drives wedges between your family, friends, and even your relationship with God.

    🔥Episode Highlights:
    • The ripple effects of anger: How it impacts your emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being.
    • Biblical wisdom on anger management, featuring key verses like Proverbs 16:32, Romans 12:18, and Ephesians 4:26-27.
    • Powerful stories from the Bible about anger—from Cain and Abel to Jesus cleansing the temple—and the lessons we can learn from them.
    Chris brings an EPIC challenge to the table that will stop you in your tracks and make you rethink how you handle anger. Are you brave enough to take it on?

    💡 Key Takeaway:
    Jesus taught us to pray for those who persecute you. How do we follow this difficult but transformative teaching? Chris and Drew break it down, sharing personal insights and practical steps to reflect God’s love, even when it’s hard.

    🙏 Prayer Requests:
    • For those affected by the fires in California, China, and Portugal.
    • For Chris and Audrey’s move.
    ✨ Listener Engagement:
    We’d love to hear from you! Send us your questions, topic requests, or prayer requests at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.com.

    🎧 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and review to help spread the love of Jesus!

    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@unreligiouspodcast

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    #FaithJourney #ChristianPodcast #PrayForYourEnemies #ManagingAnger #JesusSaves #BibleWisdom #EPICChallenge #PrayerRequests #EmotionalHealing #SpreadLove
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • #15 - ANGER is how men cry

    #15 - ANGER is how men cry
    Jan 27 2025
    Episode Title: ANGER is How Men Cry
    Anger is a universal emotion, one we’ve all experienced. In today’s episode, Chris and Drew dive deep into what anger is, how it affects our lives and relationships, and what the Bible says about managing it.


    🔥 Episode Preview:
    They explore the frustrations and consequences of anger, how it impacts our relationship with God and others, and share examples from Scripture that show how anger can be both destructive *and* redemptive. Drew recounts a profound moment with an old friend who said, *“Anger is how men cry,”* sparking a raw and vulnerable conversation that cuts to the heart of how anger masks deeper emotions in both men and women.


    The discussion gets so deep and unfiltered that they lose track of time, barely scratching the surface of their planned notes. You’ll feel every second of this gripping and real episode! The episode is titled from a profound discussion that Drew had with a former co-worker of both himself AND Chris.


    ✨ Listener Engagement
    Thank you to everyone who has reached out!
    Got questions, topic requests, or prayer requests? Email us at **theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.com**

    👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and review—your support helps spread the word!

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    #FaithJourney #ChristianPodcast #OvercomingAnger #HealingThroughFaith #MensMentalHealth #WomensMentalHealth #PrayerRequests #EmotionalHealing #JesusSaves #BibleWisdom
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • #14 - Addictions & Pet Sins (part 2)

    #14 - Addictions & Pet Sins (part 2)
    Jan 20 2025
    🎙️ Breaking Free: Overcoming Addictions & Pet Sins Through Faith
    🚨 Struggling with temptation? Battling addictions or "pet sins" that hold you back?

    In this episode of The Unreligious Podcast, Chris and Drew dive into the raw realities of sin, share their personal journeys of redemption, and unpack the powerful tools God gives us to rise above.


    🔥 Here’s What You’ll Get:
    ✨ Real Stories, Real Struggles: Vulnerable testimonies from Chris and Drew on overcoming temptation.
    ✨ Scripture That Speaks: Verses like James 4:7, 1 Corinthians 10:13, and Hebrews 10:24-25 provide a roadmap for resisting sin and staying strong.
    ✨ Practical Steps to Freedom: Learn how to flee temptation, stand firm in faith, and embrace spiritual growth.
    💬 Join the Conversation!
    We want to hear your story! Email us at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.com with your questions, testimonies, or topic ideas. Your voice matters and could shape future episodes.
    📢 Don’t Miss This:
    👍 Like, share, and subscribe to the podcast—let’s spread hope and healing together.

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    💡 Key Highlights:
    - Why God doesn’t just “remove” temptation—but gives us the tools to conquer it.
    - The power of community, prayer, and Scripture to break free from sin.
    - How Jesus’ battle with temptation (Matthew 4:1-11) is a blueprint for victory.

    🌟 Trending Topics You’ll Love:
    - “Flee the evil desires of youth...” (2 Timothy 2:22)
    - The shocking truth about cutting off sin—even if it’s drastic (Matthew 5:30).
    - Why spiritual growth takes time—and why that’s okay.

    📖 Key Verse Spotlight:
    “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” – 1 Corinthians 10:13

    🎧 Listen Now and Take the First Step Toward Freedom

    This is more than a podcast—it’s a movement to spread hope, break chains, and draw closer to God. Hit play, share this with someone who needs it, and let’s change lives together!


    #ChristianPodcast #FaithWithoutJudgment #OvercomingAddictions #PetSins #SpiritualFreedom #BiblicalGuidance #ResistTemptation #FaithJourney
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • #13 - Addictions and Pet Sins

    #13 - Addictions and Pet Sins
    Jan 13 2025
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    The Unreligious Podcast: Overcoming Addictions and Pet Sins with Chris & DrewWelcome to The Unreligious Podcast, where we break free from religious rules and share the unfiltered love of Jesus! Hosted by Chris Lewis and Drew Finchum, we focus on Christ and the Bible, offering hope, truth, and freedom for everyone—no judgment, no by-laws, just a real relationship with Jesus.🎧 In Today’s Episode:
    We’re diving deep into the struggles of Addictions and Pet Sins, exploring how these hidden battles can keep us stuck and separated from God. In this episode, Chris and Drew share their personal experiences, offer real advice, and dig into powerful Bible verses that give us the strength to break free.Episode Highlights:
    🔊 Welcome Message: Chris and Drew introduce the episode’s topic—Addictions and Pet Sins. They’ll share their journeys, personal victories, and struggles with addiction. This episode will inspire and encourage those wrestling with their own battles.
    💌 Listener Shoutout: A huge thank you to caligirl for her brave comment on YouTube, sharing how addiction has distanced her from God and how this podcast is helping her find healing. 🙏
    📖 Main Topic: We dive into the powerful truths of the Word to break the cycle of addiction and sin that holds us back from fully experiencing God’s love.Chris’s Testimony: Chris shares his raw testimony of overcoming addiction, facing pet sins, and learning how to trust God in the process.
    💬 Garrett’s Question: “How do you stop sinning over and over again?”—Chris and Drew discuss how to break the cycle of sin with God’s help.
    🖤 Drew’s Insight: Drew talks about how addiction and pet sins are often intertwined with emotional pain, and why breaking free requires more than willpower—it requires divine intervention.Addiction vs. Pet Sin: What’s the Difference?
    Addiction is a cycle of compulsion—whether it’s substances, habits, or behaviors that offer temporary relief but ultimately destroy. Pet sin is a deeply personal struggle—something we keep returning to even when we know it’s harmful. Both show how broken we are, but both also point us toward God’s endless grace and mercy.Biblical Guidance on Breaking Free:
    • Romans 3:23: “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”
    • 1 John 1:9: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
    • Hebrews 4:12: “For the word of God is alive and active… it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.”
      These verses remind us that God’s Word is powerful—sharper than any addiction or pet sin. Through His Word, we find healing, strength, and transformation.
    Overcoming Addiction and Pet Sins:
    Addiction and sin rule many of our lives, but they don’t have to. The Bible offers us a roadmap to freedom:
    1. Acknowledge the Struggle – We’re all broken, but God’s grace is greater than our sin.
    2. Seek God’s Strength – Willpower alone won’t break the cycle. Only through prayer, support, and community can we find lasting change.
    3. Embrace the Process – Overcoming addiction and sin is not an overnight journey. It requires perseverance, surrender, and trust in God’s timing.
    Closing: Join us as we pray for healing and freedom from the addictions and pet sins that entangle us. God’s love is always there to restore, renew, and set us free. 🙏📱 Don’t Forget to Like, Share, and Subscribe
    If you’re moved by this episode, hit that like button, share with a friend, and subscribe to The Unreligious Podcast.
    ✨ Follow us on YouTube for exclusive content and updates!#OvercomingAddiction #PetSins #BreakingFreeInChrist #JesusIsTheAnswer #FaithOverSin #AddictionRecovery #ChristianPodcast #TheUnreligiousPodcast #GodsGrace #HopeInChrist #BibleTruth #HealingThroughFaith #ChristianTestimony #ForgivenessInChrist #HealingFromAddiction #GodsLoveHeals #RealFaith
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • #12 / Snake Handling, Prophetic Preachers, and Laying of Hands / Navigating Awkward Church Situations Pt 3

    #12 / Snake Handling, Prophetic Preachers, and Laying of Hands / Navigating Awkward Church Situations Pt 3
    Jan 6 2025
    Episode #12: Navigating Uncomfortable Church Practices 🎧

    Happy New Year! 🎉 Welcome to The Unreligious Podcast – 2025 is here, and we’re kicking it off with an exciting new episode! First, a huge thank you to YOU, our amazing listeners. In just 11 weeks, you helped us hit over 225 plays! 🙌 Your support has been beyond humbling, and we can’t wait to keep growing with you.In today’s episode, Chris and Drew dive into some of the awkward and uncomfortable church practices that often leave people scratching their heads. 🤔 From snake handling to prophetic preachers and the laying on of hands, we’re unpacking why these practices can be tough to navigate—especially for visitors or those unfamiliar with church traditions. How can we stay true to our faith while making sure these practices don’t overshadow the real reason we gather? 🙏🎧

    Listen Now: Navigating Uncomfortable Church Practices

    In this episode, you’ll discover:
    🌟 New Year’s Traditions & Biblical Reflection – It’s the perfect time for a fresh start! Let’s talk about how to align your New Year’s goals with God’s purpose.
    🐍 Snake Handling – This rare practice might shock some, but what does the Bible say, and how should we approach it with care?
    🎤 Prophetic Preaching – When a preacher calls you out from the stage, does it build up your faith or make you uncomfortable?
    👐 Laying on of Hands – Physical touch in worship: how do we pray for healing while respecting everyone’s comfort?💌

    We Want to Hear From YOU!

    Have you ever felt uneasy with a church practice? Or maybe you’ve experienced something that challenged your faith in a good way? We’d love to hear your thoughts! Send us an email at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.com or leave a comment below. 💬
    ✨ Share This Episode
    Know someone who’s struggling with church traditions or uncomfortable practices? Send this episode their way! Let’s create a space for real conversations about faith, growth, and grace.
    🌟 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share! Let’s keep this journey going and spread the message of faith and understanding to even more people.

    #ChurchTraditions #UncomfortableFaith #SnakeHandling #PropheticPreaching #HealingTouch #ChristianPodcast #FaithAndGrace #WorshipTogether #UnreligiousPodcast
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • #11 - Navigating Awkward Church Situations (Part 2)

    #11 - Navigating Awkward Church Situations (Part 2)
    Dec 30 2024
    🎙 Podcast Episode: "Breaking Barriers: Dress Codes and Worship Styles in Modern Churches"In this episode of The Unreligious Podcast, we explore two common but often overlooked barriers that visitors face when attending church: dress codes and worship styles. These elements, while rooted in tradition or preference, can unintentionally make newcomers feel out of place or unwelcome.💡 Key Topics Covered:1️⃣ Dress Codes and Attire Expectations: A Barrier to Comfort
    • Biblical Insight: 1 Peter 3:3-4 reminds us to focus on the heart rather than outward appearance.
    • Why It Matters: Strict or unspoken dress codes can leave visitors feeling judged or uncomfortable.
    • Takeaway: Churches should prioritize a welcoming environment where love and grace are more important than attire, ensuring everyone feels they belong.
    2️⃣ Worship Styles: High-Energy or Quiet, Which Is Right?
    • Biblical Insight: Psalm 100:1-2 encourages joyful worship in various forms.
    • Why It Matters: High-energy or reserved worship styles can overwhelm or alienate visitors unfamiliar with the format.
    • Takeaway: Balancing enthusiasm with reverence and offering diverse worship opportunities can create a space where everyone feels included and able to connect spiritually.
    ✨ Why Listen?
    Whether you’re a church leader, longtime attendee, or curious visitor, this episode offers practical tips and thoughtful perspectives on creating a more inclusive and welcoming church experience.📧 Have thoughts to share? Email us at theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.com — we’d love to hear your insights or stories!🎧 Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to the podcast! Your support helps us continue these important conversations.#ChurchCommunity #ChurchBarriers #InclusiveWorship #DressCodesInChurch #WorshipStyles #FaithJourney #Psalm100 #1Peter3 #SpiritualGrowth #TheUnreligiousPodcast
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    1 hr and 3 mins