• #114: The Benefit of Power Thinking
    Oct 25 2024

    In this episode, Destiny dives into the concept of Power Thinking, a transformative mindset practice that helps individuals reshape their thoughts to foster confidence and overcome self-doubt.

    Key Topics Discussed
    What is Power Thinking?
    Power thinking involves creating supportive narratives and recognizing that thoughts can be shaped to benefit us.

    Benefits of Power Thinking:

    • Overcoming Limitations: Encourages action and creativity, breaking free from fears and self-limiting beliefs.
    • Enhancing Emotional Well-being: Promotes mental toughness, resilience, and better decision-making.
    • Facilitating Behavioral Change: Empowering thoughts lead to positive changes in behavior and attitudes.

    Steps to Practice Power Thinking

    1. Self-awareness: Observe and categorize your thoughts as empowering or disempowering.
    2. Thought Reframing: Replace disempowering thoughts with supportive narratives.
    3. Make it a Habit: Regularly practice these techniques to develop constructive thought patterns.

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    11 mins
  • #113: Dreams Deferred: Understanding God’s Timing in Your Journey
    Sep 27 2024

    Have you ever felt like your biggest dreams have been tucked away, gathering dust on a shelf? In this powerful episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens challenges listeners to revisit those audacious goals and visions that once ignited their passion.

    Embracing God's Immeasurable Plans
    We kick off by exploring Ephesians 3:20, reminding us that God "is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine." This sets the stage for a deep dive into how our lives often take unexpected turns, aligning us with a higher purpose we may not have initially envisioned

    Common Roadblocks to Pursuing Dreams
    Destiny addresses two major obstacles that often prevent us from chasing our dreams:

    • Fear of Failure: We're reminded that our ability isn't the deciding factor – it's God's power working through us, as stated in Philippians 4:13.
    • Overwhelm: The sheer magnitude of our dreams can paralyze us. Destiny offers practical advice on breaking down big goals into manageable steps


    Rekindling the Vision

    As we dust off our shelved dreams, Destiny encourages listeners to:
    Approach their vision with fresh eyes and an open heart
    Reconnect with the initial spark that ignited their passion
    Embrace any evolution or new dimensions of their dream

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    12 mins
  • #112: Focus on the Moment: Strategies for Being Mentally Present
    Aug 16 2024

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  • #111: Seven Ways Self-Reflection Plays A Strategic Role In Effective Leadership
    Jul 20 2024

    In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens explores the transformative power of self-reflection in leadership. Drawing insights from interviews with top corporate leaders, Destiny emphasizes how self-reflection can enhance leadership skills and foster a deeper connection with teams.

    Key Points Discussed

    Definition of Self-Reflection:
    - Self-reflection involves pausing to examine thoughts, actions, and experiences, akin to holding a mirror to one’s leadership style.

    Benefits of Self-Reflection:

    • Self-Awareness
    • Continuous Improvement
    • Better Decision-Making
    • Emotional Intelligence
    • Integrity
    • Adaptability
    • Big Picture Focus


    Destiny concludes the episode with a reminder that self-reflection is not about self-criticism but about growth and alignment with God's purpose. She encourages listeners to embrace their unique gifts and continue their journey of reflection and leadership.

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  • #110: Three Biblical Habits of High Performing People
    Jun 28 2024

    In this episode, we explore three powerful habits that high-performing individuals use to live out their faith effectively:

    Consistent Prayer

    • Start each day with intentional prayer to center your mind and strengthen your spiritual foundation
    • The Prayer of Jabez (1 Chronicles 4:10) is highlighted as an example of bold, purposeful prayer


    Diligent Planning and Goal-Setting

    • Break down God-given visions into actionable steps
    • Set deadlines and stay accountable
    • View planning as partnering with God to bring His vision to life

    Embracing Challenges as Growth Opportunities

    • See failures and obstacles as stepping stones to success
    • Understand that God can use every experience for good
    • Allow challenges to refine your character and skills


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  • #109: The Real Reason You are Procrastinating and What to do About It
    Jun 14 2024

    Today we're tackling a topic that plagues so many of us - procrastination. We've all been there, putting things off until the last minute, letting tasks pile up, and then feeling stressed and overwhelmed. But do you know the real root cause behind why You procrastinate?



    In todays episode we will dive into that plus Destiny shares some practical tips for overcoming this productivity-killing habit once and for all.



    Procrastination is often rooted in deeper fears, such as the fear of failure, fear of not being good enough, or even fear of success. When we avoid a task, we don't have to face those fears head-on. Procrastination gives us a false sense of security and control.



    To overcome procrastination, we need to:

    • Identify the root fear causing the procrastination

    Ask yourself: "What am I afraid of regarding this task or goal?" Journal about your thoughts and analyze if they hold any truth or align with your values and vision.


    • Pray and give that fear over to God

    Fear is a natural human emotion, but it should not be the driving force behind our decisions and actions.


    • Break the task down into manageable steps

    Visualize the task as a staircase, and focus on taking one step at a time.


    • Confront your fears with resilience and determination

    Recognize that the potential rewards of facing challenges outweigh the temporary discomfort.


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    10 mins
  • #108: Managing Stress: Proactive Steps for a Healthier Mindset
    Jun 7 2024

    In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens delves into the topic of stress, exploring its effects on our mindset and discussing actionable strategies to prevent it.


    Stress is an inevitable part of life, but it doesn't have to control us. Destiny shares three proactive steps to combat stress and achieve success in various aspects of life, including business, ministry, and personal relationships.



    Proactive Steps to Combat Stress:


    Prayer: Bringing our burdens to God through prayer can provide peace and clarity. No issue is too big or small to bring to Him.


    Prioritizing Wellbeing: Taking care of our bodies by staying hydrated, eating clean, moving, stretching, and getting enough sleep is essential to prevent unnecessary stress and burnout.


    Trusting God and Living in the Moment: Focusing on the present and trusting that God is in control helps reduce stress about future uncertainties.



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    11 mins
  • #107: Grace Over Grind: Releasing the Need to Constantly Strive
    May 24 2024

    We've all been there - caught in the endless cycle of striving, hustling, and proving our worth through sheer effort and busyness. Whether it's at work, in our relationships, or even in our spiritual lives, the pressure to perform and accomplish through our own strength can be overwhelming.


    But what if I told you there was a better way? A path to true peace, joy and freedom that doesn't depend on your self-effort?


    In this episode Destiny shares four practical steps that have helped her move from striving to grace:

    • Identify striving patterns and triggers
    • Practice being still and present
    • Surrender plans/tasks to God's strength
    • Extend grace to yourself


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    13 mins