Every swinger couple has a story—a spark that lit the flame. It's actually one of the most common questions swingers are asked when meeting other swingers...

Friends with benefits or one-night stands? In this episode, we dive into the pros and cons of one & done, hit it and quit it, one night stands...whatever you want to call it versus friends with benefits.

Your Two Plus Two Crew, Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany, share their personal experiences and how they’ve shaped their views on swinging, intimacy and connection. Join us for candid insights, laughter, and honest reflections on navigating relationships and exploring what may work for you.

(00:00:00) Swingers in the Wild

(00:06:19) Friends with benefits vs one and done

(00:08:43) Looking for a circle of friends

(00:09:35) Segment 1: One and done

(00:11:50) Circumstances influence when we play

(00:16:55) We had sex but won’t be friends

(00:18:46) Your partner has sexual chemistry with someone else

(00:25:32) One and done and two and through

(00:28:43) Two Plus Two crew play

(00:33:01) Friends first; sex second?

(00:38:24) Sex or no sex?

(00:42:22) Cockbocked

(00:45:13) Segment 2: Friends with benefits

(00:49:54) Comfort in friendships

(00:53:17) Exceptions to needing a connection

(00:58:13) I shook his penis, ‘hello’

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Ever wondered about the 'levels' in swinging? From soft swap to full swap, hall passes to playing separately, and even rules about kissing—every couple has their own boundaries. In this episode, we dive into this fascinating spectrum, share our own personal 'levels,' and speculate about those who take it further. How do your rules compare? Tune in to find out!

(00:00:00) Segment 1: Lifestyle Levels

(00:01:02) Full swap ‘situational’

(00:03:03) Lifestyle terms

(00:05:10) Hot soft swap story

(00:11:25) Zack’s first lifestyle orgasm

(00:14:22) The no kissing rule

(00:16:50) Comfort level

(00:17:43) They’re ‘situational’...now what?

(00:20:47) Exclusive to your partnership

(00:23:08) Cum is like a box of chocolates

(00:24:52) Segment 2: Same vs. Separate rooms

(00:26:12) Adjusting boundaries in the moment

(00:31:29) You can’t anticipate everything

(00:33:20) ‘Same room situational’

(00:35:00) Josie won’t play separately

(00:40:09) Possible exceptions for separate play

(00:42:37) Segment 3: Hall passes

(00:44:56) Celebrity hall passes

(00:47:08) 4-way connections & hall pass vacations

(00:49:08) Safety concerns

(00:50:38) Trust and grace

(00:51:53) Envy (FOMO)

(00:52:06) She’s a 10; he’s a 6

(00:53:54) Lifestyle veterans

(00:55:01) We’re vampires

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From Brad’s pornstar fantasy to Brittany’s spider monkey move; we dive into our favorite parts of the body, of sex, and the lifestyle; some may surprise you. We discuss theme nights, confidence, communication, and the anxiety of dating in the lifestyle. We explore lifestyle vs vanilla friendships, domination, and more—this one’s a wild ride.

(00:00:00) Segment 1: Favorite body parts

(00:02:32) All the things a mouth can do

(00:03:57) Boobs are best

(00:07:10) How big is too big?

(00:10:52) Josie cheats on the assignment

(00:15:50) Dominate us!

(00:19:44) Pushing vs pulling

(00:22:22) Brad sets a scene that makes Josie hot

(00:23:22) Segment 2: Favorite part of sex

(00:28:49) Brad’s porn star fantasy

(00:33:40) Dirty Talk

(00:35:19) Brittany’s spider monkey move

(00:37:38) Cock: I want it, I need it

(00:41:53) Penetrative sex; the beginning of the end

(00:43:17) Segment 3: Lifestyle favorites

(00:43:41) Brittany, the hunter

(00:47:16) If a cock was a roller coaster

(00:48:30) Lifestyle vs vanilla friendships

(00:49:39) From sex to Costa Rica

(00:51:05) The lifestyle without sex

(00:52:44) Zack stat

(00:54:55) Theme parties, confidence and feeling sexy

(00:57:25) The ladies like attention

(00:59:19) When vanillas dress slutty

(01:00:46) Our job interview

(01:04:35) Is conservative sexy?

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Does size matter? You may be surprised by our answers as we share some real life experiences to drive our point home. We also discuss erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety from both the male and female perspective. Finally, we share our opinions about condom use and whether most people we’ve met recently agree or disagree with us.

(00:00:00) Segment 1: Does size matter?

(00:03:14) Meat gazing

(00:05:27) Brad & Zack get excited

(00:06:17) Getting Josie into bed

(00:07:58) Zack meat gazes

(00:08:45) Brad’s penis envy

(00:12:38) Average is better

(00:17:56) Doggy style

(00:19:53) Average guys try harder

(00:21:26) Segment 2: ED and performance anxiety

(00:22:13) CBD gummies

(00:24:40) Dick shots

(00:26:22) The brain and the dick disagree

(00:27:44) Managing and Overcoming ED

(00:42:02) Segment 3: Condoms

(00:42:20) Terrorist abduction

(00:44:55) Unprotected sex; oral and penetrative

(00:45:16) Cross pollination

(00:47:48) Vaginal health

(00:48:37) Stigma around condoms

(00:50:24) Ditching condoms?

(00:53:25) Condoms suck

(00:57:03) Hard vs Trimix hard

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