• Talks With Middle Adults: Exploring Birth Order and Sisterhood, Unraveling Family Dynamics, and Celebrating the Power of Sibling Support
    Dec 3 2024

    Ever wondered how birth order influences the dynamics between siblings? Join us in this enlightening episode of the Unlearned Podcast as we introduce our remarkable younger sisters. Together, we unravel the unique challenges and triumphs of sisterhood, sharing personal stories that highlight the blend of humor and depth inherent in sibling relationships. From Rhoda's inspiring career as an assistant principal to Arvey's expertise in mental health, our conversation is a celebration of accomplishments and the diverse paths we each take.

    We dig into the nuances of family roles, where stereotypical expectations meet real-life experiences, often leading to humorous insights and serious reflections. With a keen eye on birth order theory, as discussed by Alfred Adler, we explore how these familial roles shape our perceptions and interactions within the family.

    This episode is more than just a conversation about sisterhood—it’s an invitation to reflect on your own family dynamics and personal growth. We share candid insights on the importance of boundaries, the significance of safe spaces, and the power of sibling support in navigating life's challenges. Whether you're an older sibling shouldering the weight of responsibility or a younger one carving your path, you'll find relatable moments that encourage introspection and appreciation for the bonds that shape us. Tune in for an episode brimming with laughter, heartfelt stories, and a tribute to the intricate tapestry of family life.

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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • Freedom Friday: Unlearnings from the movie “Wicked”
    Nov 29 2024

    Dive into the heart of Wicked’s storyline,
    where Glinda and Elphaba’s journey from foes to friends becomes a metaphor for personal evolution and self-forgiveness. I’ll share my thoughts on how their story speaks volumes about the importance of having the right people at different phases of life, even when it means parting ways. Whether you’re a Broadway aficionado or new to this magical narrative, discover how these themes resonate with our own lives. Through their enchanting friendship, we’ll explore the themes of acceptance and the beauty of finding common ground in a divided world. Be ready for a thought-provoking conversation that will inspire you to forge your own path with courage and conviction.

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    14 mins
  • Freedom Friday: Who Are You As A Leader?
    Nov 22 2024

    Have you ever found yourself running away from your inherent potential, simply because the weight of responsibility seemed too great? Join me on this transformative Freedom Friday episode of the Unlearned Podcast, as I reveal the pivotal moment that made me embrace my role as a leader, a role I had long resisted. Listen in to uncover how recognizing your leadership abilities, no matter how subtle or grand, can lead to a life of authenticity and impact.

    Throughout the episode, I reflect on the various forms leadership can take, whether in the workplace, at home, or within a community, and challenge you to see yourself as a leader in your own right. You’ll hear about my personal journey, spurred by an unexpected conversation with a friend, which led me to accept my leadership role and the responsibilities that come with it. Embrace your own leadership potential and discover how it can set you on a path to greater freedom and fulfillment. Don’t miss this chance to unlearn misconceptions about leadership and step into your true potential.

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    15 mins
  • Talks With Middle Adults: Unlocking Team Potential Through The Working Genius Assessment, Leveraging Strengths for Success, and Fostering Authentic Leadership
    Nov 19 2024

    Take the Working Genius Assessment!

    https://www.workinggenius.com/

    Unlock the secrets to maximizing your unique talents with us on the UnlearnT Podcast, where we explore the transformative power of the Working Genius Assessment by Patrick Lencioni. We promise you'll gain a fresh perspective on how to harness your strengths to boost teamwork and productivity, whether in professional settings or organizing personal projects. Through engaging stories from our own experiences, we illustrate how recognizing and leveraging individual "geniuses" can lead to more successful collaborations and remarkable outcomes.


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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Freedom Friday: Confidence Does NOT Require Certainty
    Nov 15 2024

    Confidence isn’t about knowing everything—it's about pushing forward even when you don’t. This idea transformed my journey as a musician, where I discovered that the true essence of confidence lies in embracing uncertainty and acting with intention. Join me, Ruth Abigail, as I share personal stories about the invaluable lessons I learned from mentors on maintaining momentum and the importance of appearing intentional, even when mistakes happen.

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    13 mins
  • Talks With Middle Adults: The Truth About Spiritual Growth, Understanding True Colors Personality Assessment, Discovering Self Through Relationships and Reflection, and Navigating Personal Growth Beyond the Workplace
    Nov 12 2024

    Take the True Colors Assessment!
    https://home.hamptonu.edu/student-affairs/wp-content/uploads/sites/59/2021/11/true_colors_test-for-mentoring-fillable.pdf

    Unlock the secrets of self-discovery and personal growth with us on the UnLearnT Podcast. Discover how personality assessments, particularly the True Colors assessment, can be a game-changer in understanding yourself and others. We promise that by the end of this episode, you'll have tools to enhance your relationships and mitigate conflict both at work and in your personal life. Through engaging discussions, we explore the fascinating world of personality types, focusing on how identifying as "blue"—with traits like intuition and a focus on emotional well-being—can influence your connection with others.

    We also reflect on the evolution of priorities from work-centric mindsets in our 20s to a more balanced life in our 30s. Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate how unlearning societal norms can lead to a more fulfilling existence and better relationships, beyond just professional achievements.

    Our conversation highlights the power of understanding your authentic self through relationships and reflection. We explore the critical distinction between change and growth, using the metaphor of gardening to illustrate how nurturing the right environment can lead to transformative personal development.

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Freedom Friday: Getting Honest About Your REAL Commitments!
    Nov 8 2024

    Ever wondered why your resolutions fall flat while other habits stick like glue? Join me as I unravel my personal journey of redefining exercise, embracing the simple yet powerful act of morning walks. This shift unmasked the essential dance between internal commitment and external consistency. Through reflecting on our daily habits—how we allocate time, resources, and nurture relationships—we gain clarity on our true commitments. By aligning our actions with our intentions, we pave the way for a life of authenticity and fulfillment.


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    10 mins
  • Talks With Middle Adults: Unlocking Personal Growth Through DISC Assessments, Adapting to New Roles, and Embracing Authentic Leadership
    Nov 5 2024

    Imagine stepping into a new job in your late 30s and navigating the intricate maze of workplace dynamics. On this episode of the Alert Podcast, I'm Ruth Abigail, joined by my lively co-host Jaquita, as we unravel the secrets of personal growth through the power of personality assessments. We promise to shed light on how understanding your DISC assessment results can transform not just your professional life, but also your personal journey. Jaquita shares her firsthand experiences, uncovering how these insights have been pivotal in adapting to new roles and environments. This episode isn't just about learning; it's about evolving.

    We embark on a thought-provoking exploration of leadership styles and the adaptability required to thrive in diverse settings. Through personal anecdotes, including Jaquita's own transformation from "event Jaquita" to "office Jaquita," we highlight how our surroundings shape our behaviors. This adaptability is not just a skill but a pathway to unlearning past habits and embracing new challenges with open arms. By acknowledging these shifts, we aim to inspire you to harness your natural strengths and achieve a sense of freedom across different life chapters.

    Our journey takes a deeper dive into the essence of authentic leadership, emphasizing the importance of rejecting victim mentality and embracing one's true self. We explore the emotional impact of criticism and the power of fostering an environment that values individual strengths. By sharing stories of generational dynamics and personal growth, we encourage listeners to engage with us, share their experiences, and find their unique voices. Join us on this path to empowerment, where unlearning and self-discovery lead to collective growth and freedom.

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    1 hr and 4 mins