• #55 Ignorance is Bliss - Luke Shillings
    Nov 17 2024

    In this week's episode Chelsea, Luke, & Ann Marie explore a story submitted to them by a follower. The writer reveals the confusing and emotional complexities of infidelity. Once a harsh critic of affairs, she found herself involved in one after 23 years of a stable but unfulfilling marriage. A connection with a coworker, her direct report, sparked an intense, secret relationship that has lasted for over a year, even though her husband now knows about it and wants to repair their marriage. Now, with a greater empathy for those in similar situations, she faces the painful choice between duty and fulfillment.

    Topics:

    • Crumbling Convictions
    • Infidelity in the workplace


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    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

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    54 mins
  • #54 Mark's Affair Story Pt. 1 - Luke Shillings
    Nov 10 2024

    Join Chelsea, Luke Shillings, and Ann Marie as they dive into a gripping story of infidelity by Tim Teddor, writing under the alias Mark. Tim recounts his affair, the struggle to choose between his marriage and his affair partner. Tune in for a raw discussion on the complexities of love, choice, and consequence—and look out for Part 2, where we learn how Mark’s journey unfolds in the years that follow. For Tim’s full story and more visit his website https://www.affairhealing.com/mark-affair-story.html


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    LUKE SHILLING'S LINKS:

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    Discovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-call

    Podcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcast

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • #53 Divorce Attorney's Thoughts on Infidelity & Relationships -James Sexton
    Nov 3 2024

    This week on The Other Woman and the Wife, Chelsea is joined by renowned divorce attorney and author James Sexton, who brings over two decades of experience handling high-conflict divorces. Together, they dive into the complexities of modern relationships, examining the intricate roles of infidelity, love, and commitment. James shares surprising truths from the courtroom and beyond, revealing what often goes unsaid about why marriages end and what we can learn from those who face it head-on. Don't miss this candid conversation about the legal and emotional landscapes of divorce.


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    Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

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    GUEST LINKS

    James's Twitter: https://twitter.com/nycdivorcelaw

    James's Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer

    James's Website: https://nycdivorces.com/our-attorneys

    How to Stay in Love (book): https://amzn.to/3t61uji

    If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late (audiobook): https://amzn.to/3PkVECg

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    54 mins
  • #52 Dangerous Liaisons
    Oct 27 2024

    This week, Chelsea interviews Mama Coll, who opens up about her experience as “the other woman” and the extreme harassment she faced from her affair partner’s spouse. From online stalking to restraining orders, Mama Coll shares her story and how she found her voice as an advocate. With a large TikTok following, she first connected with The Other Woman & The Wife as a passionate supporter in the comments. Join us for an eye-opening conversation about infidelity and resilience.

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    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife


    GUESTS LINKS

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collsclosetofcomfort52?_t=8qn7ZebMqxq&_r=1


    Youtube: https://youtube.com/@mama-colls-closet52?si=lefLuUQJ6QWIpcff

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    56 mins
  • #51 From Infidelity to Empowerment: Forging New Communities for Men and Women
    Oct 20 2024

    In this week's episode, Chelsea passes the hosting baton to Luke Shillings, who turns the spotlight on her journey in building a thriving women's community and coaching program. Together, they dive deep into the recent launch of a men's community in August, sharing the inspiration behind it and their vision for its future. Join them as they explore the evolution of these supportive spaces and the exciting expansion of their mission.


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    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

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    57 mins
  • #50 A Therapist's Journey Through Infidelity
    Oct 13 2024

    In this compelling episode, Chelsea sits down with Licensed Clinical Therapist Lauren LaRusso, who brings both her professional expertise and personal experience to the table. Specializing in affairs and infidelity, Lauren opens up about her own journey as a betrayed spouse after her husband's affair. This conversation is truly unique in its dynamic between Lauren, a betrayed spouse, and Chelsea, "the other woman." Offering a rare and dynamic perspective on healing, forgiveness, and self-discovery.

    Topics:

    Duality

    Betrayal Trauma

    Infidelity


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    GUEST LINKS

    Lauren LaRusso Coaching : https://www.laurenlarusso.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenlarusso/


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    37 mins
  • #49 Finding Home Outside My Marriage
    Oct 6 2024

    In this episode, Chelsea interviews Lindsey, who shares her deeply personal experience with infidelity. She discusses how her life changed when she realized she had found safety and a sense of “home” with someone who wasn’t her husband. Lindsey opens up about the emotional struggles of divorce and what it took to rebuild her life with her affair partner.

    A story of vulnerability and transformation, Lindsey’s journey sheds light on finding oneself amid heartache.


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    Guest Links - Lindsey's Work

    Explore Lindsey's Website: The Resource

    Follow Lindsey on Instagram: Lindsey.Kasten on IG

    Lindsey's Blog: PinzyDoesBrave


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    54 mins
  • #48 Welcoming Luke Shillings
    Sep 29 2024

    We’re back from summer break, and we have some exciting news! Joining our team here this season at The Other Woman and The Wife is a special guest Luke Shillings. Luke is stepping in to help us expand our reach to not just include women but men as well as we grow and develop The Other Man and The Mister community.

    In this episode, we explore complex topics surrounding a men’s community, relationships, and the delicate issue of infidelity. Together, we dive deep into the emotional landscapes that often go undiscussed. Whether you’re navigating these challenges yourself or simply curious, this conversation is sure to resonate. Tune in for fresh insights, a powerful new perspectives, and a preview of what’s to come this season!


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    1 hr