Welcome back to the Relationship Recovery Toolkit where we provide you with the tools and strategies for enhancing your relationship. Today, Matt and Laura explore Transactional Analysis and 'I statements' in couples' communication.

If you want to improve your communication and your emotional availability, this episode is for you.

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Key Takeaways:

• Discover the significance of 'I statements' in creating a healthy dialogue in your relationship.
• Learn how to effectively use 'I statements' to express feelings and needs without triggering defensiveness.
• Understand the impact of ego states (Parent, Adult, Child) on your communication patterns and relationship dynamics.
• Strategies to stay in the 'Adult' ego state (where we want to be) for more rational, constructive conversations.

Episode Highlights:

• Introduction to the 'Back on Track' programme and its benefits for couples.
• An in-depth look at the role of 'I statements' in improving communication.
• The critical vs. nurturing parent, and how these roles affect your interactions.
• The importance of self-awareness in recognising and shifting ego states.
• Real-life examples of how ego states play out in daily interactions and their consequences on relationships.

Chapters:

Introduction to Effective Communication Tools

Overview of the 'Back on Track' Programme

Deep Dive into 'I Statements'

Exploring Ego States: Parent, Adult, Child

Practical Examples and Solutions

Conclusion and Next Steps

Up Next:

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• Back on Track Programme: A comprehensive, therapist-designed programme for couples. Dive into therapy tools at your own pace to revitalise your relationship. Explore the programme here: Click Here
• Blog on Parent, Adult, Child Ego States: Gain a deeper insight into the dynamics of ego states and their influence on your communication patterns. Read the blog here: Click Here

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