• The Hart of the Matter

  • By: KJ Hart
  • Podcast

The Hart of the Matter

By: KJ Hart
  • Summary

  • Greetings! I'm a therapist who specializes in EMDR, play therapy, somatic reprocessing, CBT, RBT, and sand tray. My ideal client is the most broken of the broken, little or big. I want to share with those listening what creates a therapist by sharing the lives and perspectives of mu friends and their unique journey into this field. I also want to relevant topics and stories that impact those that are working on their mental wellness.
    2023
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Episodes
  • KJ, Tom Episode 7
    Dec 20 2023

    Summary

    In this conversation, Kelly Hart interviews TR about his journey working in a male-dominated industry and his experiences in mentoring young men. TR shares his background in sports management and the various roles he has held in the industry. He discusses the challenges he faced in breaking into the sports industry and the importance of perseverance. TR also highlights the changing perceptions of masculinity and the impact it has on young men. The conversation then shifts to mental health, with TR sharing his definition of mental health and mental wellness. He emphasizes the importance of seeking help and the role of habits and relationships in maintaining mental wellness. TR concludes by discussing the lessons he has learned and his desire to give back and help others.

    Takeaways

    • Breaking into the sports industry can be challenging and may require sacrifice and persistence.
    • The changing perceptions of masculinity can have an impact on young men's self-esteem and identity.
    • Mental health involves addressing specific disorders, while mental wellness is a daily practice of balance and self-care.
    • Habits such as exercise, mindfulness, and maintaining healthy relationships contribute to mental wellness.
    • It is important to teach children the importance of finding a career they are passionate about and to prioritize their mental wellness.
    • Seeking help and opening up about one's struggles is crucial for personal growth and overcoming challenges.
    • Experiencing brokenness can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of oneself.
    • There is hope for those going through difficult times, and reaching out for support can make a significant difference in one's journey.

    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction and Background

    03:04
    Favorite Memories and Career Journey

    06:20
    Challenges in the Sports Industry

    09:34
    Challenges Faced by Young Men

    13:00
    Impact of Societal Changes on Mental Health

    14:30
    Definition of Mental Health and Mental Wellness

    16:45
    Habits for Mental Wellness

    18:01
    Teaching Mental Wellness to Children

    19:11
    Importance of Seeking Help

    21:31
    Lessons Learned and Giving Back

    26:53
    Overcoming Brokenness and Finding Hope

    30:01
    Final Thoughts and Words of Wisdom

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    33 mins
  • KJ, Clare | Episode 6
    Dec 20 2023

    Summary

    In this conversation, Kelly Hart and Claire Tran Burnett discuss various topics related to the field of counseling and mental health. They cover Claire's background and path to licensure, the challenges and barriers faced by young professionals, the importance of mental wellness, and the power of conversations in promoting positive change. They also explore the concept of therapeutic confrontation and its impact on clients. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for mindfulness, empathy, and self-reflection in the field of counseling. In this conversation, Clare and KJ discuss the importance of creating a safe space for vulnerability and open communication. They emphasize the need for supervisors to be attuned to their supervisees' well-being and provide support. The conversation also highlights the value of continuing the relationship beyond the supervisory role. Lastly, they stress the importance of consultation and having a strong professional network for support and guidance.

    Takeaways

    • The path to licensure in counseling requires significant education, clinical work, and supervision.
    • Barriers for young professionals in the field include finding job opportunities and quality supervision.
    • The field of counseling faces challenges such as stigma and limited access to mental health services.
    • Mental wellness is a personal and subjective experience, but it involves being mindful, having meaningful relationships, and being able to regulate emotions.
    • Therapeutic confrontation, when done with empathy and love, can be a powerful tool for growth and change in therapy. Creating a safe space for vulnerability and open communication is crucial in a supervisory relationship.
    • Supervisors should be attuned to their supervisees' well-being and provide support.
    • Continuing the relationship beyond the supervisory role can be beneficial for both parties.
    • Having a strong professional network for consultation and support is essential.

    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction and Background

    02:29
    Path to Licensure

    05:09
    Supervision and Becoming a Supervisor

    07:48
    Barriers for Young Professionals

    09:13
    Challenges in the Field

    11:24
    Personal Life Lessons

    12:55
    Challenges on the Horizon

    15:00
    Importance of Mental Wellness

    16:17
    What Mental Wellness Looks Like

    22:45
    The Power of Conversations

    28:44
    Pearls of Wisdom

    38:20
    Therapeutic Confrontation

    49:36
    Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability

    50:32
    Attunement and Support

    51:13
    Continuing the Relationship

    51:48
    The Importance of Consultation

    52:06
    Closing Remarks

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    52 mins
  • KJ and Josh/ Episode 5
    Dec 19 2023

    Summary

    In this conversation, Joshua Lenox shares his educational path and journey to becoming a licensed clinical mental health counselor. He discusses the challenges and struggles in the mental health field, including the issue of low pay. Joshua emphasizes the importance of defining mental wellness and shares his perspective on what it means to be mentally well. He also highlights the need for changes in the mental health field and encourages individuals to remember their why and embrace their authentic selves. In this conversation, Joshua Lenox and KJ discuss the importance of being true to oneself and knowing one's purpose. They emphasize the value of focusing on who you are rather than what you do. They also highlight the significance of taking care of oneself and others, as well as the healing and understanding that can come from authentic relationships. The conversation explores the challenges of navigating boundaries and misunderstandings, and the importance of healing ruptures in relationships. Ultimately, they emphasize the creation of safety and trust in order to live authentically and do life together.

    Takeaways

    • The journey to becoming a licensed clinical mental health counselor can be challenging and requires dedication and perseverance.
    • Mental health professionals often face low pay and financial challenges in the field.
    • Defining mental wellness is crucial, and it involves being attuned to oneself, setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and maintaining balance in various aspects of life.
    • The mental health field needs changes, including better pay and support for professionals.
    • It is important to remember your why and embrace your authentic self in your personal and professional life. Focus on who you are, not just what you do.
    • Know your purpose and why you are here.
    • Take care of yourself and recognize your worth.
    • Healing and understanding can come from authentic relationships.
    • Navigate boundaries and misunderstandings with open communication.
    • Work through ruptures in relationships to create safety and trust.

    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction and Background

    01:56
    Educational Path and Journey to Licensure

    07:26
    Challenges and Struggles in the Mental Health Field

    17:15
    Defining Mental Wellness

    23:27
    Problems and Changes Needed in the Mental Health Field

    33:37
    Remembering Your Why and Embracing Authenticity

    39:56
    Being vs. Doing

    41:21
    Knowing Your Why

    42:11
    Taking Care of Yourself and Others

    44:32
    Healing and Understanding in Relationships

    50:34
    Navigating Boundaries and Misunderstandings

    55:38
    Healing Ruptures in Relationships

    56:26
    Creating Safety and Trust

    57:18
    Closing Remarks

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    56 mins

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