If you’re about to undergo GYN surgery, you need to know what could happen to your fertility.

I needed a surrogate because fibroids and a myomectomy stole my fertility.

Too many times, women aren't fully informed about the risks tied to fibroid removal, endometriosis surgery, endometrial ablation, and other invasive procedures.

But what if you learned the full scope of your options before making life-changing decisions?

In this eye-opening episode of Surrogacy Made Simple Podcast, we dig into the need for comprehensive care and informed consent before GYN surgery.

I share with you both as a surgeon and a patient.

You’ll discover the often-hidden risks, the pros and cons of various treatment paths, and how to make confident, informed choices to protect your fertility.

Episode Highlights:

06:04 How the growing OBGYN shortage will affect fertility

15:23 How to manage ovarian cysts without compromising your fertility.

19:34 The truth about endometriomas: How they impact your ovarian reserve.

25:54 Fibroids should be preventable

34:02 Think embolization (UFE) is your best option for fibroids? You might want to think again.

40:33 Ask about ovary preservation before hysterectomy.

Your doctor might not have mentioned all these crucial alternatives—get the full picture on your fertility options.

If you want a baby (your own pregnancy or surrogacy) and you’re considering a GYN surgery, make sure you're fully informed before moving forward. This episode is an absolute must-listen.

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Surrogacy Starter Kit

ACOG - Preparing for Surgery

ACOG - Uterine Artery Embolization

What's the right type of surrogacy relationship?

Are you feeling pressured to have a relationship in surrogacy that isn’t what you really want?

When expectations aren’t met, things can fall apart.

If your relationship and communication styles don’t match your vision, it can lead to anxiety and frustration, potentially causing a breakdown in your surrogacy journey.

But you can prevent this! Learn what works for you and how to find a good match.

Episode Highlights:

• 07:28 - Discover the three different surrogacy relationship styles

• 09:09 - If you believe in strong emotional bonds, you’re this type

• 13:39 - The most misunderstood type of relationship revealed

• 18:44 - Understand how peer pressure in surrogacy may affect you

• 21:33 - Unpopular opinion: You don’t need a close relationship

• 31:22 - Take a quick quiz to find your ideal relationship style

Are you aware of how your preferred relationship style will impact your surrogacy journey? Don’t leave your dreams to chance. Prevent misunderstandings from derailing your plans.

Listen now and create the right relationship for you!

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Surrogate ID quiz

Your First Meeting with a Surrogate: 6 Key Topics You Must Cover to Prevent a Broken Match

Surrogate Vetting Essentials

Are you nervous about independent surrogacy?

Uncertain about managing it all yourself?

Afraid you'll miss a crucial step?

Or maybe you’re wondering if this is a barely legal, out of the box thing that puts you and your baby at serious risk.

You’re not alone in feeling this way because most people don’t know the truth about independent surrogacy.

Plus there’s a whole industry designed to keep it that way

But, as usual, we’re here to share secrets and help you make the rights decisions for you!

In this episode, you'll hear:

06:23 The basics: What is independent surrogacy and why do people choose it?

7:37 Why believing that independent surrogacy is “DIY” could lead to unnecessary stress

12:58 Independent surrogacy is not professional-free. The role of your expert team.

18:04 What skeptics won’t tell you: It’s perfectly legal

21:24 With the right resources and step-by-step guides, it’s easier than you think.

26:54 A surrogacy agency isn’t your only option for finding a surrogate

31:16 The truth about cost savings in independent surrogacy

Unpopular opinion… If you can manage a project, then you can handle independent surrogacy with confidence.

Ready to demystify independent surrogacy and take control of your journey? You’ve got to listen to this episode—get all the insights and tools you need to succeed!

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Step by Step Guide & Checklist

Surrogate Vetting Essentials

The New York State surrogacy agency license