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Some leaders stay calm under fire. Others unravel faster than cheap sweater threads.

The difference? Emotional control.

And here’s the thing: it’s not something you magically “find.” It’s a skill — one you build, habit by habit.

In this episode, I’m breaking down 7 daily habits that help you master emotional control so you can show up unshakeable — on stage, in meetings, and even when your kid decides to test your last nerve before breakfast.

We are building on last week’s episode where we discussed “The Most Underrated Communication Skill, Ever”

Here’s what you’ll take away with today:

• Your first line of defense when it comes to emotional control. (It’s not what you think.)
• The surprising move that stops knee-jerk reactions in their tracks.
• A listening habit that makes you magnetic — and most people never do it.
• How to share your expectations so clearly even the office cynic can’t misinterpret them.
• A daily practice that will change how you handle feedback forever.
• The secret to turning conflict into connection (instead of a full-on drama show).
• The one mental shift that helps you see possibilities — even on the worst days.

Master these habits, and you won’t just lead better. You’ll live better.

🎤 Want more? Check these out:
✨ 10 Mistakes That Kill Your Vocal Presence (Free Download)
🚀 The Speaker Accelerator Intensive

Ready to stay calm when it matters most? Let’s go.

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Everyone’s out here chasing charisma…

But no one’s talking about what actually earns you trust when the spotlight’s hot or the Zoom room goes silent:

Emotional control.

Yep.

Not the sexiest leadership skill, but hands down one of the most important—and most ignored.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why this quiet little superpower matters way more than that perfectly timed TED Talk hand gesture.

Here’s what we cover (with plenty of real talk + practical tips):

• What emotional control actually is—and what it isn’t
• What to do (and not do) when feedback feels like a personal attack
• How to stop spiraling when your team doesn’t get it the first time
• What happens when you panic on stage—and how to recover like a pro
• How emotionally mature speakers hold the room (even when people walk out 👀)

Because listen… composure is magnetic. It builds trust. It builds presence.

And it makes you the kind of speaker and leader people actually want to follow—not just clap for.

So whether you’re leading 1:1, managing a team, or standing center stage—this episode is your pep talk and your playbook.

🎤 Want more? Grab these:

🎧 10 Mistakes That Kill Your Vocal Presence (Free Download)
🚀 The Speaker Accelerator Intensive

You’ve got the message. Let’s make sure it lands with power, presence, and zero panic. 💥

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or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/csillamuscan/

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Let’s be honest:

If you’re softening your message so everyone likes you... you’re not leading.
You’re performing.

And I get it. It’s human to want approval.

➛ But here’s the truth: You can’t inspire change while trying to keep everyone comfortable.

That’s why today’s episode — Part 3 of The Speaker’s Code — is all about one of the most overlooked (and most magnetic) elements of powerful speaking: CONVICTION.

Great speakers don’t perform to be liked.
➛ They speak from conviction to serve.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

🔥 Why most speakers dilute their message (and how to stop)
🎯 Why belief transfer matters more than an information dump
👏 How to speak from a place of knowing — not proving
🧭 Why your inner work shapes your external impact (yes, people can feel it)

And I’ll also give you a simple challenge to help you clarify and own your core conviction — so you can build your next talk around it.

Here’s the deal: your audience doesn’t need more noise.
They need a voice they can trust.

And when you speak with clarity and conviction, you become that voice.

🎁 Want more support? Grab my FREE guide:
10 Mistakes That Kill Your Vocal Presence → speaklikeitmatters.com/vocal

Check out my comprehensive speaking program here: https://www.speaklikeitmatters.com/speaker-accelerator

Let's connect on IG at www.instagram.com/csillamuscan
or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/csillamuscan/

Send me an email at: csilla@csillamuscan.com