• Ep 17, When Forgiveness Feels Impossible; Finding Strength in Deep Pain.mp3
    Aug 27 2024
    Hello everyone! In this episode, we delve into the deep and often challenging topic of forgiveness, particularly when it feels too painful to even consider. We explore the idea of unforgiveness as a "Certificate of Offense," a metaphorical document that binds us in a covenant relationship with our hurt and resentment. Just as a marriage certificate symbolizes a profound and intimate bond, this certificate of offense represents the intimate connection we form with unforgiveness, granting it authority over our souls. Key Points Covered: - Understanding Covenant Agreements: - In biblical terms, a covenant is a solemn agreement between God and humanity, establishing the foundation of a relationship, its conditions, and the consequences of not fulfilling those conditions. - Similarly, unforgiveness forms a covenant with our hearts, giving it the power to influence and affect us deeply. - The Effects of Unforgiveness: - Unforgiveness acts as a wall that can hinder your spiritual journey and calling, much like a marathon runner with a sprained ankle. While you may still move forward, it is painful, slow, and far less effective. - This relationship with unforgiveness also brings bitterness into our lives, the only source of sustenance behind the wall we build. Bitterness, in turn, further poisons our spirit and distances us from healing and peace. - Dispelling Misconceptions About Forgiveness: - Forgiveness is not trust: You can choose to forgive someone without restoring trust immediately. - Reconciliation is not trust: Reconciliation and trust are distinct; one can occur without the other. - Forgiveness does not mean friendship: The Bible does not mandate maintaining friendships with those who have hurt us. - Forgiveness does not mean their repentance: Forgiveness is about relinquishing your right to seek vengeance, not about the offender’s repentance. - The True Meaning of Forgiveness: - Forgiveness is about handing over your pain and the right to retribution to God. It’s not about forgetting or excusing the offense, but about releasing yourself from the chains of bitterness and letting God take over the burden. Call to Action: If you’re struggling with unforgiveness, consider taking a moment to reflect on how it might be affecting your life and spiritual journey. Join us as we discuss ways to bring your "Certificate of Offense" to the footstool of God, and find freedom in true forgiveness. Forgiveness may feel impossible, especially when the wounds are deep, but it’s a journey worth taking. Remember, forgiveness is a choice—a choice to trust God with your pain and to allow Him to heal your heart. Blessings, Dana RESOURCES IN TODAY’S EPISODE: Lysa Terkeurst’s, Founder of Proverbs 31 Ministries website: https://lysaterkeurst.com/about-lysa/ Ephesians 4:31-32 “Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God I Christ forgave you. Colossians 3:13 "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Matthew 6:14-15 "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." Mark 11:25 "And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins." Deut 32:35: Vengeance is mine. I will repay, says the Lord. 2 Thess 1:6 God is just: He will pay back trouble to those who trouble you. Rom 12:19 Do not take revenge, but leave room for God’s wrath for it is written “it is mine to avenge. I will repay, says the Lord. Join Us: Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need. Links & More Resources: Connect with Us: - Website: www.redeemed-identity.com. You can sign up for my monthly newsletter here. - Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast (https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com) Find me on Social Media: https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf Website and Blog link: https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/ Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith#RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth
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    21 mins
  • Ep 16, Dealing with Feelings of Abandonment During and After Divorce.mp3
    Aug 20 2024

    Hi everyone!

    Episode Summary:

    In this episode, we explore the deep and often overwhelming feelings of abandonment that can arise during and after a divorce. These emotions can be incredibly challenging to navigate, but understanding their roots and finding ways to address them is key to healing.

    Key Points Discussed:

    Understanding Abandonment:

    It’s important to recognize that feelings of abandonment can stem from many life experiences, not just divorce. As you reflect on these moments, whether it’s the fear of being lost as a child or the deep hurt of betrayal by those closest to you, it’s crucial to understand that these emotions are valid and need acknowledgment.

    The Spiritual Perspective:

    You might wonder, "Where was God when I felt abandoned?" This question is one of the most profound and difficult to answer. It echoes the feelings of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, where He too felt betrayed and abandoned, even by His closest friends and His Father. Yet, His suffering had a purpose: to ensure that we would never be truly forsaken.

    Healing and Moving Forward:

    We discuss practical steps you can take to begin the healing process, from seeking support from loved ones or professionals to engaging in spiritual practices that resonate with you.

    We are the fragrance of Christ,

    Dana

    Resources Mentioned:

    Join Us:

    Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.

    Links & Resources:

    Connect with Us:

    - Website: www.redeemed-identity.com

    - Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast (https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com)

    Find me on Social Media:

    https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

    https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

    My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:

    https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

    Website and Blog link:

    https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

    Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

    If you’ve found this episode helpful, please subscribe and leave a review. Share this episode with someone who might be struggling with similar feelings. Remember, you are not alone in this journey.

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    13 mins
  • Ep 15, Part 2 with Guest Toni Thrash, How To Deal With Loneliness After Divorce.mp3
    Aug 12 2024

    Are you feeling the sting of loneliness after a divorce? I've been there, and so has our special guest Toni Thrash, Host of the Start Your Comeback Podcast. Join us as we delve into the journey of healing and rebuilding life after divorce from a Christian perspective.

    Guest Bio:

    Toni Thrash understands the unique challenges women face when trying to align their faith with their transitions. With a wealth of experience, she has helped hundreds of women create clear and compelling game plans, identify strategic priorities, and build a supportive community to navigate the complexities of life transitions and realize their dreams.

    A former volleyball, basketball, and tennis coach, Toni found her calling in life coaching, where she excels in building relationships and fostering trust by accepting individuals for who they are, regardless of their circumstances or success levels.

    Living in Frisco, TX, Toni is a dedicated mother to Taylor (and his wife Jordan) and Cameron. She is also a proud grandmother to 14-month-old Barrett. Her podcast, Start Your Comeback, is available on all major podcast platforms.

    Toni holds a BS degree in Human Development and Family Studies from Texas Tech University and is a Certified Life Coach Practitioner from the Certified Coaching Federation (CCF) since 2015. She shares her insights and advice on her blog at tonithrash.com.

    Special Offer:

    Sign up for Toni's newsletter to receive a life-giving PDF called "4 Steps to Overcoming Doubt."

    Listen Now:

    Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to rise and reclaim your life after divorce, while staying true to your faith.

    Toni Thrash

    t.thrash@fortitudelifecoach.com

    214-277-9846

    https://www.instagram.com/tonithrash

    https://www.ToniThrash.com

    We are the fragrance of Christ,

    Dana

    Find me on Social Media:

    https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

    https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

    My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:

    https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

    Website and Blog link:

    https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

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    23 mins
  • Ep 14, Part 1 on How To Deal With Loneliness After Divorce with Guest Toni Thrash
    Aug 5 2024

    Are you feeling the sting of loneliness after a divorce? I've been there, and so has our special guest Toni Thrash, Host of the Start Your Comeback Podcast. Join us as we delve into the journey of healing and rebuilding life after divorce from a Christian perspective.

    Guest Bio: Toni Thrash understands the unique challenges women face when trying to align their faith with their transitions. With a wealth of experience, she has helped hundreds of women create clear and compelling game plans, identify strategic priorities, and build a supportive community to navigate the complexities of life transitions and realize their dreams.

    A former volleyball, basketball, and tennis coach, Toni found her calling in life coaching, where she excels in building relationships and fostering trust by accepting individuals for who they are, regardless of their circumstances or success levels.

    Living in Frisco, TX, Toni is a dedicated mother to Taylor (and his wife Jordan) and Cameron. She is also a proud grandmother to 14-month-old Barrett. Her podcast, Start Your Comeback, is available on all major podcast platforms.

    Toni holds a BS degree in Human Development and Family Studies from Texas Tech University and is a Certified Life Coach Practitioner from the Certified Coaching Federation (CCF) since 2015. She shares her insights and advice on her blog at tonithrash.com.

    Special Offer: Sign up for Toni's newsletter to receive a life-giving PDF called "4 Steps to Overcoming Doubt."

    Listen Now: Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to rise and reclaim your life after divorce, while staying true to your faith.

    Toni Thrash's Contact Information:

    t.thrash@fortitudelifecoach.com

    https://www.instagram.com/tonithrash

    https://www.ToniThrash.com

    Find Dana Williams on Social Media and check out her Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?"

    Find me on Social Media:

    https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

    https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

    My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:

    https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

    Website and Blog link:

    https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

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    24 mins
  • Ep 13, Prayer for Provision and Fear of Finances After Divorce
    Jul 25 2024

    Hi everyone!

    Weålcome to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast where you will discover how to rise, live, and reclaim your life as a Divorced Christian. I’m your host, Dana Williams, and I have a heart to help those navigating the sandstorm of divorce and the aftermath of pain and judgment.

    Episode Overview:

    You will find a few episodes that are just listed as “prayer for … and then the need” I did this so that you had a place to go if you needed prayer in these areas but didn't know how to pray, or that you wanted somebody to pray over you. I also put a short encouragement before each prayer.

    I want you to feel free to come back to these as often as you need them. You will find the scriptures used in each prayer below should you need them.

    Blessings,

    Dana

    Scriptures used in the prayers

    Psalm 84:11(NKJV)

    11 For the Lord God is a sun and shield;The Lord will give grace and glory;No good thing will He withhold From those who walk uprightly.

    Matthew 6:33(NKJV)

    But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

    Proverbs 10:3(NKJV)

    The Lord does not let the righteous go hungry, but he thwarts the craving of the wicked.

    Psalm 18:2 (NKJV)

    2 The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; My God, my [a]strength, in whom I will trust; My shield and the [b]horn of my salvation, my stronghold.

    Psalm 112:7 (NIV)

    7 They will have no fear of bad news; their hearts are steadfast, trusting in the Lord.

    Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV)

    11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.

    Ephesians 3:20 (NIV)

    Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever!

    Join Us:

    Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.

    Links & Resources:

    Connect with Us:

    - Website: www.redeemed-identity.com

    - Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast (https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com)

    Find me on Social Media:

    https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

    https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

    My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

    Website and Blog link:

    https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

    Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

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    3 mins
  • Ep 12, Prayer for When you Feel Fearful During and After Divorce
    Jul 25 2024

    Hi everyone!

    Welcome to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast where you will discover how to rise, live, and reclaim your life as a Divorced Christian. I’m your host, Dana Williams, and I have a heart to help those navigating the sandstorm of divorce and the aftermath of pain and judgment.

    Episode Overview:

    You will find a few episodes that are just listed as “prayer for … and then the need” I did this so that you had a place to go if you needed prayer in these areas but didn't know how to pray, or that you wanted somebody to pray over you. I also put a short encouragement before each prayer.

    I want you to feel free to come back to these as often as you need them. You will find the scriptures used in each prayer below should you need them.

    Blessings,

    Dana

    Scriptures used in the prayers:

    Isaiah 41:10

    So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

    Psalm 23:4

    Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

    Psalm 27:1

    The Lord is my light and my salvation— whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?

    Psalm 46:1-3

    God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging.

    Psalm 118:6

    The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?

    John 14:27

    Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

    Join Us:

    Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.

    Links & Resources:

    Connect with Us:

    - Website: www.redeemed-identity.com

    - Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast ( https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com)

    Find me on Social Media:

    https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

    https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

    My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

    Website and Blog link:

    https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

    Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim#PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

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    4 mins
  • Ep 11, Prayer for When You Feel Forsaken During or After Divorce
    Jul 24 2024

    Hi everyone!

    Welcome to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast where you will discover how to rise, live, and reclaim your life as a Divorced Christian. I’m your host, Dana Williams, and I have a heart to help those navigating the sandstorm of divorce and the aftermath of pain and judgment.

    Episode Overview:

    You will find a few episodes that are just listed as “prayer for … and then the need” I did this so that you had a place to go if you needed prayer in these areas but didn't know how to pray, or that you wanted somebody to pray over you. I also put a short encouragement before each prayer.

    I want you to feel free to come back to these as often as you need them. You will find the scriptures used in each prayer below should you need them.

    Blessings,

    Dana

    Scriptures used in the prayers:

    Deuteronomy 31:6, (NKJV)

    6 Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.”

    Psalm 9:10, (NKJV)

    10 And those who know Your name will put their trust in You; For You, Lord, have not forsaken those who seek You.

    Matthew 28:20 (NKJV)

    And lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” [a]Amen.

    Psalm 94:14 (NKJV)

    14 For the Lord will not [a]cast off His people, Nor will He forsake His inheritance.

    Matthew 28:20 (NKJV)

    "I am with you always, to the end of the age".

    Deuteronomy 4:30-31 (NKJV)

    When people turn to God and obey him, he will not forsake them, destroy them, or forget his covenant with their fathers.

    Psalm 147:3 (NKJV)

    3 He heals the brokenheartedAnd binds up their [a]wounds.

    Join Us:

    Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.

    Links & Resources:

    Connect with Us:

    - Website: www.redeemed-identity.com

    - Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast ( https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com)

    Find me on Social Media:

    https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

    https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

    My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

    Website and Blog link:

    https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

    Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

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    4 mins
  • Ep 10, Prayer for When We Don't Feel Worthy After Divorce
    Jul 23 2024

    Hi everyone!

    Welcome to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast where you will discover how to rise, live, and reclaim your life as a Divorced Christian. I’m your host, Dana Williams, and I have a heart to help those navigating the sandstorm of divorce and the aftermath of pain and judgment.

    Episode Overview:

    You will find a few episodes that are just listed as “prayer for … and then the need” I did this so that you had a place to go if you needed prayer in these areas but didn't know how to pray, or that you wanted somebody to pray over you. I also put a short encouragement before each prayer.

    I want you to feel free to come back to these as often as you need them. You will find the scriptures used in each prayer below should you need them.

    Blessings,

    Dana

    Scriptures used in the prayers:

    1 Peter 2:9 New King James Version (NKJV) 9 But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light;

    Ephesians 2:10 New King James Version (NKJV) 10 For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.

    Ephesians 1:5 New King James Version (NKJV) 5 having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself,

    Isaiah 43:1 New King James Version (NKJV) 43 But now, thus says the Lord, who created you, O Jacob, And He who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; You are Mine.

    1 Peter 2:9 New King James Version (NKJV) 9 But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light;

    Luke 12:7 – Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered.

    Join Us:

    Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.

    Links & Resources:

    Connect with Us:

    - Website: www.redeemed-identity.com

    - Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast ( https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com)

    Find me on Social Media:

    https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

    https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

    My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:

    https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

    Website and Blog link:

    https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

    Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim#PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

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    3 mins