• Helping Your Daughter Escape the "I’m Not as Good as Her" Comparison Trap
    Sep 3 2024

    Welcome back to the Raising Confident Girls podcast! In this episode, we explore the “I’m not as good as her” comparison trap that many girls, from childhood to adulthood, fall into. With the influence of social media, these feelings of inadequacy can be overwhelming. We dive deep into where these thoughts originate, the different areas of life where they manifest, and how to support our girls through these challenging emotions.

    Tune in to learn about:

    • Common sources of comparison and self-doubt for girls.
    • Specific areas where girls may feel they don't measure up.
    • How to check in with your girl and address these feelings.
    • The GROW method as a tool to help girls overcome the comparison trap.

    As parents and guardians, we know how real and significant these feelings are. This episode offers valuable insights into why our girls might struggle with comparison and how we can empower them to rise above it.

    Share what resonated most with you in this episode and connect with us on Instagram @GirlsPositivityClub!

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    24 mins
  • Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Helping Your Daughter Build Self-Worth Beyond the Flawless Image
    Aug 27 2024

    In this week's episode of the Raising Confident Girls podcast, we dive deep into a powerful and necessary conversation—how to help our girls break free from the pressure to be "perfect." Following up on last week's episode, (make sure to check it out if you haven't already!) we explore where this need for perfectionism comes from, the impact it can have on our girls, and the various areas of life where this struggle might appear.

    We'll be discussing:

    • The root causes of perfectionism in our girls.
    • The emotional and mental toll perfectionism can take.
    • Different aspects of life where the desire to be perfect can show up.
    • Practical ways to support and guide our girls to overcome these pressures.

    Perfectionism is something many of us have faced, but it's especially challenging for girls as they grow and develop. This episode is all about equipping you with the tools and insights needed to help the girl in your life let go of unrealistic expectations and continue thriving in everything she does. Tune in and let's work together to raise confident, resilient girls!

    If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to rate, review and share it with a friend or parent who might benefit from hearing it too!

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    31 mins
  • Breaking the ‘Not Good Enough’ Myth: Helping Your Daughter Conquer Imposter Syndrome
    Aug 20 2024

    In this week's episode of Raising Confident Girls, we tackle a topic that resonates deeply with many of us: the “Not Good Enough” myth. This harmful belief can hold our girls back, feeding into feelings of imposter syndrome. But it’s not just our girls who struggle with these emotions—many of us do too.

    Join me as I share personal experiences and offer actionable strategies to help support the girls in our lives. We’ll explore:

    • The underlying reasons why girls may feel “not good enough” and how these feelings develop.
    • The challenges and risks that come with believing this myth.
    • The RISE strategy—a powerful tool to combat these negative emotions.
    • The transformative effects of shifting our mindset towards growth and positivity.

    Imposter syndrome doesn’t disappear with age, but we can learn to navigate it in healthy, empowering ways. Tune in to discover how you and the girl in your life can turn “I can’t” into opportunities for learning and growth.

    Share your thoughts on this episode and connect with us on Instagram @GirlsPositivityClub!

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    30 mins
  • Bossy vs. Leader: Empowering Your Daughter to Lead with Confidence
    Aug 13 2024

    Welcome back to another week of the Raising Confident Girls podcast! This week, we dive into a crucial topic: teaching our girls to lead with confidence. As parents or guardians, we often notice the perceived differences in how girls and boys are viewed in leadership roles. Girls who take on prominent leadership positions can sometimes be labeled as “bossy.” In this episode, we explore ways to turn this into a positive and help our girls excel in positions of power.

    Tune in as we discuss:

    • Why leadership and being labeled as bossy, can be challenging for our girls.
    • Strategies to help our girls lead effectively.
    • The benefits of being a strong and capable leader as girls.


    Teaching our girls to be strong, fierce, and capable leaders goes hand in hand with fostering compassion, empathy, and kindness. Join us as we explore how to equip our girls with the skills and tools to embody all these traits as they navigate different situations and take on leadership roles throughout their lives!

    If you got something out of this episode, don’t forget to rate, review and share it with a friend or parent who might benefit from hearing it too!

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    29 mins
  • Turning the Page: Helping Your Daughter Thrive After Tough School Years
    Aug 6 2024

    Welcome back to another episode of the Raising Confident Girls podcast! As we head back into school and prepare our girls to start the new year strong, it’s normal for worries to arise, especially if the previous year ended on a challenging note. Each girl’s experience is unique, but there are practical steps you can take as a parent or guardian to ease their worries and help them begin the new school year positively.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    • Various scenarios our girls might have faced at the end of the last school year.
    • Common causes of anxiety as the new year begins.
    • Tips and tricks to help them overcome past challenges and succeed.


    I hope this episode offers valuable insights and strategies for working with the girls in your life, ensuring they start their new school year confidently. Whether it's through journaling, daily check-ins, or other supportive practices, finding what works best for them is key to their success. Join us to learn how to make this school year the best one yet!

    Share your thoughts on this episode and connect with us on Instagram @GirlsPositivityClub!

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    30 mins
  • Guiding Girls Through Big Emotions
    Jul 30 2024

    Welcome to the Raising Confident Girls podcast! We're back with another enriching episode this week, focusing on guiding our girls through big emotions. As our girls grow up, they may encounter situations where they have a “big” or unexpected reactions. Know that this is completely normal, and I am here to provide insight on why they might have these reactions or emotions and what we can do to help our girls.

    Tune in for more on:

    • Why big reactions are a tricky topic to take on as a parent or guardian.
    • How these reactions can evolve from one situation to another, even as girls get older.
    • What might cause these big emotions?
    • Strategies you can use to help cope and work through these moments with your girls.

    Big emotions are a part of growing up, both for girls and boys. Using these tools and working with your daughter to understand her emotions better is the perfect starting place. Always remember to acknowledge how she feels, and if it feels like a challenge, start with one small step in the right direction.

    Join us for an insightful and practical discussion on supporting our girls through their emotional journeys! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to rate, review and share it with a friend or parent who might benefit from hearing it too!

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    31 mins
  • Preparing Girls for a New School Year
    Jul 23 2024

    Welcome back to another episode of the Raising Confident Girls podcast! As we approach the back-to-school season, it's essential to prepare our girls for the challenges and opportunities that come with a new academic year. Whether your daughter is moving to a new school or transitioning to high school, this time can be both exciting and daunting.

    In this episode, I share valuable tips and tricks to help make this new school year the best it can be for your girls and you as a parent or guardian!

    Tune in to learn about:

    • The common fears our girls may face in the new school year.
    • Strategies for parents to ease their daughters' transitions.
    • Ways to support their social, mental, and physical well-being during this time of heightened stress and anxiety.


    New school years can bring a mix of excitement and apprehension. By listening to this episode, you'll discover actionable tips that will help your girls start the school year on a positive note.

    Join us for this insightful discussion and get ready to empower your daughters to thrive in the upcoming school year! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to rate, review and share it with a friend or parent with a girl in their life who might benefit from hearing it too!

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    31 mins
  • How to Strengthen Your Daughter's Confidence
    Jul 16 2024

    Welcome back to another empowering episode of the Raising Confident Girls Podcast! I’m thrilled to have you join me again this week as we continue our journey into nurturing confidence in our young girls.

    In this episode, we delve deeper into the theme of bolstering our daughters' self-belief. Building on last week’s discussion (if you haven’t caught up, I highly recommend you do!), we explore the misconception that confidence is innate. Together, we'll uncover practical strategies and insights to empower our growing girls to cultivate lasting confidence.

    Join me as we explore:

    • The underlying factors that contribute to a lack of confidence in our girls.
    • Effective approaches for adults and mentors to actively support and strengthen their confidence.
    • Practical phrases and questions that can make a significant impact in nurturing confidence in our girls during crucial moments.


    I hope you'll discover actionable insights and valuable takeaways in this episode. Together, let's sow the seeds of unwavering confidence in our girls, ensuring they navigate life’s challenges with resilience and self-assurance. Tune in and let's empower the next generation of confident women!

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    31 mins