Episodes

  • Episode 191: From Undiagnosed ADHD to Dope Black Dad

    Episode 191: From Undiagnosed ADHD to Dope Black Dad
    Dec 4 2024
    To say that this conversation is inspirational and heartfelt, thoughtful and emotional, and fundamentally captures all that this summit intends to convey to our listeners -- well, that’s an understatement. This conversation with Marvyn Harrison offers a fresh perspective on what it means to be an adult diagnosed with ADHD, what it means to be a black man diagnosed with and treated for ADHD, what it means to be a father with ADHD, a partner, an entrepreneur, a thought-leader. You get the picture. This conversation is a meta conversation about ADHD. And while it will appeal to everyone, it’s likely that it will resonate most with the adults with ADHD who are continuously trying to understand and manage themselves. Marvyn Harrison is a visionary business consultant driving cultural change through BELOVD, working with clients like WPP, Footlocker, and News UK. As the founder of Dope Black Dads and Dope Black Men, he inspires greater change, advocating for the Black community across the UK, US, and Africa. A media contributor on platforms like Good Morning Britain and BBC 5Live, Marvyn has also authored two children’s books, *I Love Me* and *The Best Me,* and is writing a guide on personal transformation for men. His late-life ADHD diagnosis fuels his impactful work. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Marvyn Harrison about fatherhood and undiagnosed ADHD. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Marvyn discusses his journey towards self-discovery and understanding his late-life ADHD diagnosis and the need for conscious in managing the condition. One crucial tip shared by Marvyn revolves around the importance of being present and tuned in to your children's needs. Marvyn points out, "There is no program to help men better at home. It's just kind of do it because it's the right thing to do." This calls for a more supportive and inclusive approach to fatherhood, acknowledging the diverse roles and responsibilities that dads undertake. Connect with Marvyn: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/discoverwithmarvyn/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marvinharrison/ Website: https://dopeblack.org Related Links: Co-Parenting with Elaine & David: Real Strategies to Improve Family Dynamics: https://youtu.be/UKb1jMlQ71o Success! “Dad’s Fun, But I Can Talk to Mom About Anything”: https://youtu.be/xcrGRr8TvSM Paradox: High Achieving Adults with ADHD: https://youtu.be/VUbEgYQCVKM Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    43 mins
  • Episode 190: Social Growth & Emotional Intelligence in Children (Part 2)

    Episode 190: Social Growth & Emotional Intelligence in Children (Part 2)
    Nov 27 2024
    Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss emotional intelligence and social dynamics. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Elaine and Diane explain understanding one's own emotions and being empathetic towards others are key components of emotional intelligence. Building a supportive environment within the family involves prioritizing relationships and self-care, Elaine and Diane note. Elaine and Diane acknowledge that social skills develop over time and require patience. By meeting children where they are and guiding them towards healthier interactions, parents can empower them to navigate social dynamics effectively. Related Links: What is Going to Happen to my ADHD Child in the Future?: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/adhd-child-in-future/ Did Social Anxiety Make Me a Leader?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/did-social-anxiety-make-me-a-leader/ Deal Them In: Using Playing Cards for Social Skills: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/deal-them-in-using-playing-cards-for-social-skills/ 7 Ways to Socialize With Your Child With ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/7-ways-to-socialize-with-your-child-with-adhd/ Raise Your Child's Social IQ: Stepping Stones to People Skills for Kids by Cathi Cohen, LCSW: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0966036689/?tag=im0ea3-20 Why Will No One Play with Me?: The Play Better Plan to Help Children of All Ages Make Friends and Thrive by Caroline Maguire, PCC, M.Ed. with Teresa Barker: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1538714833/?tag=im0ea3-20 4 Clues that Family Members are Stressed (& 3 Tips to Help): https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/stressed-family/ Ways to Improve Emotional Intelligence: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/ways-to-improve-emotional-intelligence/ To Worried Parents of Complex Kids: You are Not Alone: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/to-worried-parents-of-complex-kids-you-are-not-alone/ Empathy: A Magic Wand to Connect with Complex Kids & Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/empathy-a-magic-wand-to-connect-with-complex-kids-teens/ What To Do When Kids Push Back With Sass and Disrespect: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/what-to-do-when-kids-push-back-with-sass-and-disrespect/ How to Help (Without Enabling) Your Kid: The Four Roles of the Parent: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/how-to-help-without-enabling-your-kid/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    26 mins
  • Ep 189: Eliminating Shame to Be 'Unapologetically ADHD'

    Ep 189: Eliminating Shame to Be 'Unapologetically ADHD'
    Nov 20 2024
    Since 2010, Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright have been the co-hosts of the award-winning podcast, Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast, speaking to adults with ADHD all over the globe. Over 29 seasons—and more than 600 episodes—Nikki and Pete continue to offer support and strategies for adults living with ADHD. And now they decided to write their first book, Unapologetically ADHD. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright about becoming ‘Unapologetically ADHD’. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Nikki and Pete advocate for fostering a safe and supportive environment by engaging in curiosity-driven conversations with children with ADHD. Pete highlights the importance of overcoming shame associated with ADHD and embracing the condition unapologetically. Pete emphasizes the significance of providing structure and support without judgment. Links Mentioned: Unapologetically ADHD by Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1394265425/?tag=im0ea3-20 Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast: https://takecontroladhd.com/the-adhd-podcast Shame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness: https://youtu.be/ZvV3GdXiE8s Success! A Mother’s Journey From Shame to Acceptance: https://youtu.be/nXuBh5n8DEg?si=V9xAbko0eE8G-UTE Medical Bias vs. ADHD: The History of a Smear Campaign: https://youtu.be/0Cdcg5nwV2Y CBT for ADHD: Thoughts Don't Cause ADHD, But They Can Help Manage It: https://youtu.be/S-pgDRjS7zQ?feature=shared Magic 3 Questions: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/learn-from-mistakes/ 3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-ace-communication-with-complex-kids-teens/ 3 Steps to Respond Without Reacting: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-respond-without-reacting/ Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake a New One: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/failing-forward/ What Does it Mean to “Treat” ADHD?: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/what-does-it-mean-to-treat-adhd-2/ Connect with Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright: Website: takecontroladhd.com Unapologetically ADHD by Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright: takecontroladhd.com/adhdbook Facebook: facebook.com/takecontroladhd Instagram: instagram.com/takecontroladhd Pinterest: pinterest.com/takecontroladhd YouTube: youtube.com/@takecontroladhd Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 mins
  • Ep 188: Executive Function through the Lens of Social Thinking

    Ep 188: Executive Function through the Lens of Social Thinking
    Nov 13 2024
    What does it mean to break down information in order to build up social competencies? And how does that relate to people with compelling social anxiety? In this discussion with the founder of Social Thinking, Michelle Garcia Winner, we explore the relationship between "being social" and social cognition (ie. social thinking). We touch on four areas of executive function that can foster our ability to learn how to take action on social dynamics that we want to do and are important to us. Get a better understanding of social dynamics and how to help your kids navigate them. Michelle Garcia Winner, MA, CCC-SLP, is the founder and CEO of Think Social Publishing, Inc, (a.k.a. Social Thinking). She is a globally recognized thought leader, author, speaker, and social-cognitive therapist who is dedicated to fostering awareness and development of our social-emotional and organizational selves, both neurodivergent and neurotypical. Across her 30+ year career she has created numerous evidence-based strategies, treatment frameworks, and curricula to help family members as well the professionals who support them foster the development of social and organizational competencies and problem solving. Her methodology is most effective with children and adults who have a solid command of expressive and receptive language. Michelle and her team continually update the Social Thinking® Methodology based on the latest research and clinical insights. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Michelle Garcia Winner. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Michelle stresses the importance of understanding the individual you are trying to help. Tailoring social strategies based on the person's specific challenges and strengths can significantly enhance their social learning experience. Michelle explains managing social anxiety requires self-regulation, flexibility, and self-compassion. Encouraging individuals to be kind to themselves and allowing them to progress at their own pace can foster a more comfortable social interaction environment. Michelle highlights the significance of working through the social learning process slowly and deliberately. Links Mentioned: Website: socialthinking.com Addressing Social Competencies and Social Anxiety: https://www.socialthinking.com/Articles?name=anxiety-and-social-competencies Is Anxiety Making it More Difficult to Diagnose ADHD?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/is-anxiety-making-it-more-difficult-to-diagnose-adhd/ Did Social Anxiety Make Me a Leader?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/did-social-anxiety-make-me-a-leader/ Treating Depression & Anxiety Disorder in People with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/recognize-treat-depression-anxiety-disorder-adhd/ 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive: https://drdansiegel.com/whole-brain-child-handouts/ Executive Function Skills - What Every Parent Needs to Know: https://youtu.be/_s1Kj0lEzkA Helping Complex Kids Process: A Student Coach's SUCCESS STORY: https://youtu.be/XtH5vBXtJ7E Helping Kids Become Better Problem-Solvers: https://youtu.be/RHMxf7tMlJU Connect with Michelle: Website: www.socialthinking.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/socialthinking Pinterest: www.pinterest.com/2socia1thinking Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    38 mins
  • Ep 187: The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Parenting

    Ep 187: The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Parenting
    Nov 6 2024
    Parenting With ImpListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss Emotional Intelligence. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Elaine and Diane explain children learn by example, so showing them how to express emotions in a healthy and constructive way can have a lasting impact. Elaine and Diane suggest helping your children develop healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with difficult emotions, such as deep breathing exercises. Elaine highlights that children on the spectrum may encounter challenges in interpreting social cues; stressing the need for custom strategies to help developing these skills. Related Links: Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s The 3A's: A Framework for Parenting Complex Kids: https://youtu.be/URLEsgftZ5o Deal Them In: Using Playing Cards for Social Skills: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/deal-them-in-using-playing-cards-for-social-skills/ Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    25 mins
  • Ep 186: Parenting & Hope: Helping Kids Navigate an Uncertain Future

    Ep 186: Parenting & Hope: Helping Kids Navigate an Uncertain Future
    Oct 30 2024
    Dr. Andreas Krafft holds a doctorate in Management Sciences from the University of St. Gallen, specializing in Organizational Psychology, Culture, and Development. With academic expertise in Social, Work, and Health Psychology, as well as Positive Psychology from the University of Zürich, he serves as an associate researcher and lecturer at St. Gallen and teaches at universities in Zürich, Lisbon, and Berlin. He is co-president of swissfuture, a board member of SWIPPA and DACH-PP, and leads the International Research Network of the Hope-Barometer, with multiple publications on hope. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Andreas Krafft about hope. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Andreas stresses that our perceptions of the future play a significant role in shaping our present behaviors and quality of life. In his book "Our Hopes, Our Future," Andreas argues that maintaining hope is a responsibility we owe to ourselves and future generations. Andreas highlights the importance of viewing the future as something to be actively constructed and shaped. Related Links: https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-662-66205-2 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 mins
  • Ep 185: The 3A's: A Framework for Parenting Complex Kids

    Ep 185: The 3A's: A Framework for Parenting Complex Kids
    Oct 23 2024
    Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the three A’s: Awareness, Acknowledgment, and Action. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of approaching challenges with an open mind and a willingness to experiment. "Commit to calm before you take action;" By cultivating a sense of calm and mindfulness, parents can make more deliberate and effective decisions in response to their children's behaviors. Elaine and Diane highlight the value of involving children in the decision-making process and seeking their feedback. Related Links: Welcome to Parenting With Impact: https://youtu.be/FykSBnaWXhk How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools: https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0 Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.: https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_P Accommodations vs. Remediation - What's the Parent's Role?: https://youtu.be/2tfQ4nZDs2E?si=Ysl6UyqmxyZyIIUd Self-Awareness, Self-Regulation & Self Management: https://youtu.be/V49MEzft064?si=jSOOO4ZmjvEiaVu6 The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily Tasks: https://youtu.be/Z6AiUIxhWnE?si=cXo9oxKWOX1YE-PA Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    30 mins
  • Ep 184: Why Your Child May Struggle with Following Directions (hint: PDA?)

    Ep 184: Why Your Child May Struggle with Following Directions (hint: PDA?)
    Oct 16 2024
    In the world of childhood ADHD, you may have heard of Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), and you might even have some opinions about it, too. It often travels with untreated ADHD. But as the medical community begins to understand the overlap between ADHD and Autism, we want to invite you to learn more about a presentation of Autism called PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance). To be honest, there’s some controversy about this diagnosis, because it exists in the UK and Australia, but not officially in the US. So, let’s focus instead on the reality of what’s going on when a child resists and avoids the demands of life! In our community, we’ve learned that if you can understand what’s underlying troublesome behaviors, you can support them better. And this conversation with Nicola is guaranteed to help you do just that! Nicola Reekie is a parent to a young, autistic person who has a PDA profile. PDA is an abbreviation for Pathological Demand Avoidance or, as some prefer, Pervasive Drive for Autonomy. Her mission is to support families and professionals in understanding PDA, and she founded The PDA Space to provide resources that will deepen their understanding to create a safer environment for young people. A solution-focused therapist, Nicola collaborates with many amazing families, education and healthcare professionals to information and an excellent support network that supports their emotional well-being and helps to create calm in often challenging situations. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Nicola Reekie. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: The episode highlights the significance of approaching individuals with PDA with compassion and understanding, focusing on their unique needs rather than demanding conformity. Nicola emphasizes the importance of establishing connections and collaborating with individuals with PDA. Nicola explains framing behaviors as neurologically driven rather than defiant can shift the perspective and reduce stigma. Links Mentioned: Bloody Awesome Parents Awards: https://www.myfamilyourneeds.co.uk/baps/ Website: https://www.thepdaspace.com Autism, PDA & Combative Behaviors: https://youtu.be/fmFRyyelMsQ Connect with Nicola: Website: https://www.thepdaspace.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1632926726873571 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thepdaspacenicolareekie264/videos Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    46 mins