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Ep 529: Unlocking the Secrets to Women's Pleasure, Empowerment, and Sexual Well-being, Embracing Pleasure with Danielle Savory - A Journey to Empowerment. In this enlightening episode, Ruan Willow is joined by Danielle Savory, a sex and intimacy coach, podcast host, and advocate for women's pleasure and wellbeing. Together, they delve into the critical importance of prioritizing sexual health and pleasure in one's life. Danielle shares her insights on how neglecting this aspect can lead to a less fulfilled life and how embracing it can lead to empowerment and personal growth.

Discover the biological and physiological benefits of pleasure, and how societal norms often hinder our natural desires. Danielle and Ruan discuss the misconceptions surrounding female pleasure and self care, the impact of societal shame, and the importance of communication with partners. They also explore the transformative power of understanding one's own body and the liberation that comes with shedding shame and embracing sexual wellness.

Whether you're looking to enhance your own sexual wellbeing or seeking to understand the dynamics of pleasure more deeply, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Danielle emphasizes the need for personal motivation and finding a "why" that resonates with you to truly embrace and prioritize pleasure in your life. Sexual health is a part of mental health.
Learn more about Danielle at https://www.daniellesavory.com/

01:08 Ruan Willow says many women put their sexual health on the back burner
08:47 When we are in stress cycles, our nervous system becomes more vulnerable
14:56 Shaking is your body's way of getting rid of trauma and stress
18:15 What are some reasons women are denying the indulgence of sexual pleasure
25:29 I think we need to accept that we're gonna mess up along the way
29:59 One thing I never knew about my vulva area is color change
35:41 Women can also multiple orgasm, whereas...
40:17 Studies on how long women take to reach arousal versus climax are getting shorter
47:19 Danielle says women need a place to celebrate pleasure
51:59 Your resistance to pleasure will never stop because your life is changing

Don't miss out on this episode that could change the way you view pleasure and its role in your life. Tune in and start your journey towards a more empowered and pleasurable life today!
Find Danielle Savory on Instagram at @thepracticeofpleasure and explore her podcast It's My Pleasure for more insights.

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Quotes from Danielle Savory; "A pleasured woman is an empowered woman."
"Our nervous system thinks you're a tiger right now. Let me soothe my nervous system and then we can get back to being human beings."
"Find your reason, but you've got to find a why that really resonates and makes sense to you in order to actually make a change."

Quotes from Ruan Willow: "Pleasure is a birthright. This is what our bodies were meant to do."
"We weren't given our taste buds to not taste foods."

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Ep 528: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 4. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too!

Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed.

The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes.

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Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise

Stay tuned for one more chapter coming next week!

CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF.
Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause.

We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places).

Spring Break & Stranded with her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men: On the Court Reverse Harem, why choose, mild impact play, multiple partner, sexual empowerment and exploration: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbffsbrothersplus6menonthecourtrw

Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology

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Ep 526: From Lifesaver to Dominatrix, Mistress Kora Bell Shares her Spicy New Adventures! Kora Bell is a dynamic personality with a unique journey from the medical field to becoming a renowned dominatrix and adult content creator. Discover how she navigated the transition from a respiratory therapist to embracing her adventurous spirit and exploring her passion for femdom content.

Mistress Kora Bell shares her intriguing life story, from her early days in the medical field to her transformative experiences that lead to her eventual foray into the world of OnlyFans and dominatrix sessions. Listen as she discusses the challenges and triumphs of balancing personal growth, motherhood, and a burgeoning career in adult entertainment.

Explore the intricacies of BDSM, the importance of consent, and the empowerment that comes from embracing one's sexuality. Mistress Kora Bell opens up about her experiences at various adult industry and Exxxotica events, her love for motorcycle riding, swinging lifestyle, and the meaningful stories behind her tattoos.

This episode is a fascinating glimpse into the life of a woman who defies conventions and embraces her true self, all while helping others explore their own sexual identities.
00:00:33 Mistress Kora Bell shoots Fem Dom content in addition to traditional
00:01:56 I'm actually an RN too
00:02:19 Tell us a little bit about your story.
00:09:10 Why is everything so sex negative? Why do people think sex is bad?
00:10:11 When you got fired
00:15:19 You have a medical background in what you do now
00:16:05 Do you have favorite paraphernalia
00:18:02 Are there a lot of clubs near you
00:19:11 Do you feel like you miss the medical field at all or you just
00:21:22 Did you ever have any issues with people pushing back with your lifestyle
00:26:46 You split up with your husband
00:29:03 You say you learned about sexuality through experience and research
00:35:04 The importance of testing is something that needs to be promoted more
00:37:05 orgies depend on the atmosphere and your connection with people
00:38:32 Do you tend to have a connection with people you shoot with
00:41:09 Do you have specific scenarios you love to do in films
00:42:23 Would you ever take a role where you're a submissive
00:43:29 Tell us something about yourself recently that surprised you
00:51:00 Tell us about your tattoos and what they represent
00:56:41 Tell us about your motorcycle riding
00:59:33 Have you taken sexy pics on your bike? I have, yes
01:08:55 Talk about your dogs
01:10:50 Do you have any advice for people to explore their sexuality better
01:13:01 Do you have a favorite sex toy
https://www.mistresskorabell.com/
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Not So Guilty Charity anthology: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityantholog

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