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In this unfiltered unhinged instant classic episode, Bobby and Jim kick things off by embracing a doomed mission: pretending to be straight bros. Spoiler alert—it’s hilarious and painfully bad. Their half-hearted attempt to discuss “smashing pussy” quickly devolves into a crisis of identity and nostalgia, sparking deep memories of hiding who they were and re-living past traumas, but with their signature humor and sass. From there, it’s a high-speed jump into the absurd, as they share unhinged rants about Aldi’s suspiciously moldy produce, America’s unhealthy obsession with trauma porn, and their recurring political nightmare—the state of democracy and anti-trans legislation.

Between deep dives into existential dread and biting humor, the duo talks about Roman bathhouse fantasies (because, of course), reminisces over pagers and the “texting” culture of yore, and dissects Stephen Hawking’s aesthetic choices with zero chill. Bobby laments how dogs ruin spontaneous trips with their bougie pet camp needs, while Jim recounts his IV therapy adventure after a wild night out. The pair bond over fat kid moments—like stuffing their faces with stuffed crust pizza and sneakily devouring McDonald’s double cheeseburgers before anyone notices. Sprinkle in wild, late-night escapades at AWOL’s jock night, and you’ve got one spicy, laugh-out-loud ride.

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In this episode of Not Well, listeners are taken on a journey through a special segment featuring letters from the Founding Fathers, reimagined for today’s turbulent political climate. With historical reflections and modern parallels, George Washington introduces the discussion, emphasizing the enduring importance of constitutional principles in safeguarding democracy and freedom. Through words brought to life by Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Jefferson, John Adams, James Madison, and Alexander Hamilton, the Founders explore the critical issues of governance, balance of power, and the dangers of unchecked ambition.

The episode delves into how these principles apply to contemporary issues, including political divisions, the role of government, and the importance of protecting minority rights against majority tyranny. Through humor, wit, and a touch of reverence, the hosts reflect on the wisdom of the past to shed light on the challenges of the present, ultimately urging listeners to engage thoughtfully with the democratic process and safeguard liberty for all.

Concluding with a powerful message from Alexander Hamilton, the podcast leaves its audience with a call to remain vigilant, pursue balance, and trust in the enduring framework of the Constitution to guide and protect the nation through the complexities of modern governance.

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In this episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim take listeners on a wild ride of hilariously chaotic stories, cringe-worthy Lyft encounters, turning another year older, and messy nights out in New York City’s queer scene. From Jim’s struggle with an incompetent Lyft driver to Bobby’s existential thoughts on Halloween costumes, the duo keeps it real and raw. Jim reflects on hitting 37, sharing his mixed feelings on aging, while Bobby hilariously overshares his panic over eating pumpkin seeds whole. Together, they tackle everything from misfit spa visits to bizarre political tirades, serving listeners the classic mix of humor, snark, and outright silliness that defines Not Well.

The episode spirals into topics like the drama around trans identity in queer spaces, the absurdity of celebrity “coming out” moments (looking at you, Shawn Mendes), and Bobby's intense pumpkin seed confusion. With moments of introspection sprinkled throughout, the hosts navigate serious LGBTQ+ issues while delivering absurd observations with their trademark irreverence. The episode wraps up with a bold, unscripted tirade on Trump supporters, proving that Not Well remains as chaotic as ever.

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In this lively and humorous podcast episode, Bobby and Jim return with plenty of energy and discussions that range from Bobby's recent trip to Kansas City to the quirks of social life and nightlife in Columbus. Bobby, who has just recovered from being under the weather, reflects on his trip to Kansas City, praising the city's liberal atmosphere and vibrant nightlife. They dive into Kansas City's appeal, comparing it to places like Columbus, and highlight specific hotspots like "Missy B's," a multi-roomed bar with energetic vibes.

As the conversation moves forward, the duo shares their frustrations about their local bar scene and how things have changed in the once-vibrant "Short North" area of Columbus, now overtaken by straights. This leads to a broader discussion on the culture of different cities, Kansas City being noted for its openness and active nightlife compared to what they see in Columbus. They express a longing for more queer spaces, noting how the culture in their hometown has shifted.

The two hosts also discuss workplace dynamics and the awkwardness of dealing with co-workers who send mixed signals—whether about being too sensitive or quiet. This sparks a relatable rant about office culture, the challenges of maintaining a professional demeanor, and how some colleagues push the boundaries of polite behavior.

Another entertaining segment is a reflection on funny and awkward experiences from past relationships and personal milestones, particularly around the awkwardness of wisdom teeth surgery and the shared fear among many gay individuals of accidentally coming out while under anesthesia.

In the latter part of the episode, Bobby and Jim take a humorous and slightly exaggerated approach to discussing substances like poppers and "whip-its," reflecting on the appeal of various subcultures. They wrap things up with playful critiques on the increasing presence of kiosks in everyday life and how automation seems to be replacing human interaction in many service roles.

Throughout the episode, Bobby and Jim’s dynamic chemistry is on full display as they bounce from one topic to another with wit and candor, offering relatable humor, insightful social commentary, and plenty of laughs.

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In this episode, Bobby’s AI voice steps in while Bobby recovers from a post-vacation sickness (thanks, Kansas City). The AI voice navigates through the mess of dating narcissists, offering tips on surviving the modern gay dating scene, and reminds listeners why voting matters, especially for LGBTQ+ rights. Plus, Brat Summer isn’t over, thanks to Charli XCX’s new release, and of course, some hilariously real talk about post-vacation sickness and the work dilemma that follows. Call us at 614-721-5336 for juicy gossip or to cuss us out!

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In this raw, unedited episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into an assortment of personal, humorous, and thought-provoking topics. The episode starts with Bobby revealing a recent life decision: he got Botox for the first time, leading to a lighthearted and detailed discussion about beauty treatments, anti-aging, and skincare routines. Jim shares his own skincare journey, discussing the importance of moisturizing and his use of specific products. They both laugh about how these routines have slowly taken over their lives, from feeling “glowy” to the pressures of having a regular skincare regimen.

From there, the conversation shifts to body image issues, where they talk about how societal standards of beauty—especially in the queer community—can make people feel the need to constantly enhance their appearance. They poke fun at their own obsessions with staying youthful and looking “perfect,” but the humor doesn’t stop the underlying message of the pressures gay men face around body image.

Next, the pair turns their attention to one of Bobby’s upcoming trips to Kansas City, where he plans to explore the local gay scene. They speculate about what to expect, from seedy clubs to potential hookups, while blending humor and anticipation about this Midwest gay adventure.

The conversation takes a more critical turn when they discuss the problematic nature of mission trips, describing them as outdated and patronizing. They criticize how people go on these trips under the guise of “helping,” but really, they do more harm than good by reinforcing colonialist mindsets and doing little to create lasting change.

The discussion circles back to modern-day internet habits, particularly their annoyance with clickbait culture. Bobby explains his frustration with being misled by sensationalist YouTube thumbnails and exaggerated headlines. The hosts dig into how everything in today's world is about getting someone to "click," reflecting on how media and advertising have evolved to manipulate people's attention for profit.

The duo finds themselves going off on tangents, discussing everything from the awkwardness of being around elderly people who can't communicate, to the annoyance of outdoor smells, and their general frustrations with daily life.

Towards the end, Bobby vents about a frustrating work situation where a colleague condescended to him, adding another layer of relatability to the episode. The episode wraps up with their usual quirky and unscripted fare, leaving listeners with plenty of laughs and several memorable takeaways.

This episode showcases their ability to mix comedy with deeper reflections on societal norms, all while maintaining an unfiltered, carefree vibe that’s become a hallmark of Not Well. From Botox confessions to clickbait rants, the episode is a whirlwind of humor, critique, and relatable gay cul

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🎮 Gaming Obsession: With the highly anticipated new Zelda game launching soon, it’s officially game-on mode. Who else is ready to disappear for a week (or two) to conquer every level? Ideal for the plane ride to NYC, if you can fit in a couple mimosas before it lands!

🍾 Flying & Mimosas: Speaking of flights, what’s your record for mimosas on a short flight? Three seems totally achievable, right? Especially when you’re heading to the big city with dreams of fame… or, you know, brunch.

🤖 AI Criticism: Someone on YouTube thinks we’re AI-generated? Please, AI can’t handle this level of flawlessness. At least not with the human touch we bring to the chaos.

💬 Podcast Growth: YouTube's new podcast section is getting our old episodes some unexpected traction. But hey, any press is good press, even if it involves digging up comments from years ago.

📞 Listener Wellness Checks: If you’re a Patreon subscriber, we’re offering wellness checks for $5.99/month. Forget the police — we’ll make sure you’re doing okay without the risk of getting accidentally tased!

🎤 Concert Vibes: Sweaty, chaotic, and absolutely electric. If you haven’t seen Troye Sivan and Charli XCX live, you’re missing out. It’s a hyper-pop revival, and it’s worth flying anywhere to catch this energy.

🍻 Kansas City Bound: Planning a solo trip soon to KC for a weekend of whatever feels right — maybe even a stop at the local bear party. Solo trips are underrated therapy!

🦄 Trans, Non-binary, & Queer Representation: The next political mess? Forget the Middle East, let's talk about the rampant hypocrisy in U.S. politics. Politicians preaching anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric while harboring their own skeletons — we see you.

🚗 Uber vs. Lyft: Ever been trapped in a Lyft that smells like a mix of roadkill and grandma’s perfume? It’s bad enough to make you reconsider your ride-share allegiance, but sometimes you just know the second that car pulls up that it’s going to be a “hoopty” situation.

🥛 Protein Struggles: For the plant-based eaters, getting enough protein is a constant challenge. How do you hit that 160g daily goal without overloading on fish or worrying about mercury levels?

🎶 P. Diddy & Industry Secrets: There's some dark, shady stuff surfacing around P. Diddy, from Justin Bieber stories to Danity Kane getting ripped off. Music industry corruption is no joke, and these allegations are getting harder to ignore.

🌕 The Moon Effect: Is it just us, or did that recent full moon mess with everyone’s sleep? Insomnia peaked for days, and we’re blaming the lunar chaos. 🌙

💭 Climate Guilt: Does anyone else feel guilty about their carbon footprint on short trips? It’s like, “Yeah, I’m here for a good time, but the planet is paying for it.” I

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Bobby and Jim are back from Puerto Vallarta, celebrating Bobby’s 40th birthday in true chaotic fashion. From forgotten weed gummies to full blackouts in gay pool parties, the episode takes you on a wild journey. Highlights include Bobby's panic over leaving his weed gummies at home, several intense discussions about aging, and multiple bottoming revelations. They also reflect on their peak moments at Montemar, stories about a threesome with a cartel-adjacent daddy, and detailed escapades in the streets of PV, where they embraced their inner brat spirit. The episode dives into everything from tequila-fueled threesomes, hangover guacamole, the oddities of traveling, and new life philosophies like "Imodium before sex." The narrative gets both spicy and reflective, with Bobby deciding to make the most of his "daddy peak" and discussing the circle of life at Montemar.

The chaotic pace is matched by snarky asides, irreverent observations on straight culture, and a whole lot of self-deprecating humor. Expect tons of outrageous stories about everything from nearly doing meth to deep discussions about belly buttons.

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