Mindfully Masculine: Personal Growth and Mental Health for Men

By: On "Mindfully Masculine" we support and encourage men who strive to level-up their lives as we share books media and personal stories on mental health and well-being. Challenges in your life? We deliver the tips and tools that really help.
  • Summary

  • Charles and Dan are just two guys talking about relationships, masculinity, and authenticity. Join them as they discuss books and media, as well as their (sometimes messy) personal stories, to encourage men to join the fight for their mental, physical, and emotional health--because a world of healthy, resilient men is a thriving and more secure world for everyone.

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Episodes
  • What Do Women REALLY Want?
    Nov 6 2024

    In this episode of Mindfully Masculine, Charles and Dan tackle the age-old question, "What do women really want?" through the lens of John and Julie Gottman’s acclaimed relationship guide, The Man’s Guide to Women. The hosts share actionable relationship advice for men, discussing the importance of trust, emotional attunement, and how understanding women on a deeper level can foster better relationships.

    Key Topics Covered:

    • Understanding Women and Avoiding Common Stereotypes:
      • Charles and Dan challenge popular stereotypes around women being "unpredictable" or "difficult to understand," emphasizing that meaningful relationships require intentionality and empathy.
    • Building Trustworthiness in Relationships:
      • Women desire trustworthiness, which encompasses more than honesty. Trustworthiness involves dependability, vulnerability, and a commitment to consistency—qualities that can strengthen any partnership.
    • Mastering Attunement for Deeper Emotional Connection:
      • The hosts explain the ATTUNE approach (Attend, Turn Toward, Understand, Non-defensive Listening, Empathy), a method for fostering emotional intimacy. Each step helps men create a safe and supportive space for their partners.
    • Overcoming Defensiveness and Embracing Emotional Vulnerability:
      • Charles and Dan candidly share their struggles with vulnerability and how men’s fear of showing emotions can hinder relationships. They encourage listeners to view emotional openness as a strength, not a weakness.
    • Breaking the Cycle of Conflict and Building Intimacy:
      • The episode covers strategies for ending cycles of conflict and withdrawal in relationships. The hosts explain that empathy and understanding, rather than a desire to "fix" things, can lead to meaningful intimacy.
    • Physical Presence and Attentiveness in Relationships:
      • Small gestures—like putting away distractions, making eye contact, and offering full attention—can strengthen trust and convey emotional security to a partner.

    Top Takeaways and Relationship Tips for Men:

    1. Develop Trustworthiness - Consistency and honesty are key. Show up as a reliable partner by honoring commitments and staying transparent.
    2. Use Attunement Techniques for Lasting Connection - Apply the ATTUNE method to connect emotionally with your partner and build a resilient relationship.
    3. Prioritize Listening and Empathy Over Fixing - Women want to feel heard and understood, not necessarily "fixed." Listen actively and ask questions to show you care.
    4. Be Present in the Moment - Avoid distractions like phones or TV during meaningful conversations to demonstrate respect and priority.
    5. Break Cycles of Conflict with Empathy - Be the first to create emotional connection, even when it’s uncomfortable, to foster closeness and intimacy.

    Memorable Quotes for Reflection:

    • “Trustworthiness is about more than being truthful; it’s about showing up consistently and reliably.”
    • “Attunement isn’t just about hearing words—it’s about fully engaging to make your partner feel valued and understood.”
    • “Our relationships thrive when we stop focusing on fixing and start focusing on understanding.”

    Additional Resources:

    • The Man’s Guide to Women by John and Julie Gottman for more insights into relationship dynamics.

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    59 mins
  • It Rained, Now I'm Homeless!?
    Oct 29 2024

    In this heartfelt episode, Charles from the Mindfully Masculine podcast dives deep into the unexpected challenges he faced after Hurricane Milton left him without a home. Through his story, Charles shares personal insights on resilience, gratitude, and empathy for those experiencing homelessness. He explores the fine line between temporary hardship and chronic homelessness and reflects on the financial, mental, and social safety nets that helped him navigate this tough period.

    Tune in as Charles discusses:

    • His real-life hurricane experience and the flood damage to his RV, leaving him “homeless.”
    • How support systems and resources can make a difference in crises.
    • Insights on empathy, privilege, and the challenges faced by people without such support.
    • Minimalism and the lessons he learned from losing his possessions.
    • His recent journey to Texas for an unforgettable car-buying adventure.

    This episode is a journey of personal growth and perspective, offering valuable lessons on resilience, community, and the importance of having people to lean on.

    Keywords: Hurricane Milton, homelessness, resilience, minimalism, mental health, gratitude, community support, crisis recovery, privilege, empathy

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    27 mins
  • 75 Not So Hard?
    Oct 28 2024

    In this episode of Mindfully Masculine, Charles and Dan dive into the journey of completing (and almost completing) the intense 75 Hard Challenge. Dan reflects on his success, sharing his highs, struggles, and the mental and physical changes he experienced. Topics covered include:

    • Diet and Caloric Challenges: Sticking to a strict diet plan, calorie tracking, and adapting while on vacation.
    • Exercise and Routine Building: Keeping up with daily workouts, even in challenging environments like cruises, and the discipline required for outdoor activities.
    • Hydration and Healthy Habits: Managing the gallon-a-day water requirement and the surprising benefits of prioritizing hydration.
    • Long-term Benefits and Mindset Shifts: From weight loss and increased confidence to building discipline and mental toughness.
    • Embracing Discomfort and Voluntary Hardship: Learning from challenging conditions and discovering the value in stepping out of comfort zones.
    • Support Systems: The impact of community, mentorship, and accountability on achieving difficult goals.
    • Preparation for Live Hard Phases: A look at what’s next, with Dan sharing his plans for phase one of the Live Hard program.

    Whether you're curious about the 75 Hard Challenge, interested in the psychological effects of self-discipline, or looking for inspiration on achieving tough goals, this episode is packed with insights and personal stories that highlight the power of persistence and the benefits of a supportive community.

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    30 mins

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