MBP (Murder, Blood, & Psychopaths)

By: Eileen Santos and Jennifer Santos
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  • MBP Is a true crime podcast, about inherently evil psychopaths, I myself, your hosts, Eileen and co-host Jennifer and countless others have encountered. Join me in sharing stories of true survival instincts in Abusive Relationships. This Pod will also cover anything in the true crime universe to Murder, Blood, and Psychopaths.
    2022
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  • Episode 92- Hidden Scars: Emotional, Psychological, stalking, financial, and physical abuse

    Episode 92- Hidden Scars: Emotional, Psychological, stalking, financial, and physical abuse
    Oct 29 2024
    Segment 1: Stories of Survival and Tragedy This episode focused on real-life stories of victims who have endured abusive relationships, sharing stories can be impactful while also being respectful to those involved. Here are three cases that highlight different aspects of abusive relationships. These are based on common patterns and anonymized for privacy, reflecting real experiences. Content Warning: Let listeners know upfront that these stories may be triggering and encourage self-care. To begin, let’s talk about some stories—stories of survival and tragedy. Abuse doesn’t discriminate; it affects people of every background, gender, and age. Each story serves as a reminder of the horrors some people endure and the resilience they show in surviving and sometimes escaping these situations. Recognizing the Signs Emotional Abuse and Isolation Psychological Abuse and Stalking Financial and Physical Abuse So, what are the warning signs to watch for? Abuse isn’t always physical. It often begins subtly, escalating over time, and can include emotional, verbal, psychological, financial, and sexual abuse. Here are some red flags to keep in mind: Isolation: If your partner tries to cut you off from friends, family, or activities you enjoy, this can be a major warning sign. Abusers often isolate their partners to gain control. Excessive Jealousy and Possessiveness: Jealousy may be normal in relationships to a degree, but extreme possessiveness and demands for constant updates on your location, who you’re with, and what you’re doing can indicate a deeper issue. Frequent Criticism and Verbal Abuse: Abuse can start with comments that undermine your confidence. Phrases like “You’re worthless” or “No one else will love you like I do” can chip away at self-worth over time. Controlling Behavior: Abusers often control finances, social activities, and personal decisions. They may check your phone, manage your money, or try to control every aspect of your life. Physical Abuse or Threats of Violence: This might seem obvious, but it can start small, like grabbing or pushing, before escalating. Even threats of violence, while not physical yet, are a form of abuse and should be taken seriously. Love-Bombing and Apologies: A common cycle is intense affection followed by an abusive episode and then a flood of apologies, gifts, and promises it won’t happen again. This can create confusion and make the victim feel responsible. Take Sarah, for instance. Sarah was 24 when she met someone she thought was the love of her life. But things changed. He started controlling her friendships, checking her phone, and later became verbally abusive. Eventually, this turned into physical violence. Sarah later shared that she often felt isolated, fearing she’d be judged or blamed. But one day, she found the courage to leave after connecting with a support group. Today, she speaks out to help others understand they’re not alone and that it’s possible to go. Surviving and escaping an abusive relationship is hard, but there are resources and people ready to help. Let’s talk about support systems. 1. Hotlines and Crisis Centers: There are national and local hotlines dedicated to helping people in abusive situations. The National Domestic Violence Hotline, for example, operates 24/7 and offers confidential support. Calling a hotline can connect you to local resources, emergency shelters, and counseling services. 2. Friends and Family Support: Opening up to trusted friends or family members can be difficult, but it’s often a critical step. They can provide support, a place to stay, or even accompany you to appointments if you need. 3. Counseling and Support Groups: Counseling—whether for the survivor or for friends and family—can be life-changing. Many counselors specialize in trauma and domestic abuse, and support groups can be a powerful reminder that no one has to go through this alone. 4. Legal Resources and Protection Orders: If physical abuse is involved, legal options such as protection orders can create a barrier of safety. Many organizations offer legal assistance to those who need it. Surviving abuse isn’t the end of the story—it’s a chance to rebuild, heal, and reclaim power. We want every listener to know that whether you’ve experienced abuse or know someone who has, hope and support are always available. Healing is a journey, and every survivor deserves a life of peace, dignity, and love. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please reach out. Remember, reaching out is not a sign of weakness, but of incredible strength. In our next episode, we’ll talk with a therapist who specializes in helping survivors rebuild their lives, so tune in next week for expert insights on healing and growth. 1. National Domestic Violence Hotline (United States) Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) | TTY: 1-800-787-3224Text: Text "START" to 88788Website: thehotline.orgDescription: Offers 24...
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    12 mins
  • Episode 91: “I Went from Surviving to Thriving Under God”

    Episode 91: “I Went from Surviving to Thriving Under God”
    Oct 5 2024
    Welcome back to Murder, Blood, and Psychopath, where we dive deep into the dark corners of humanity. Today, we have a powerful episode that’s a bit different from our usual themes of crime and psychology. We’re focusing on resilience, survival, and empowerment, particularly in the face of domestic violence. That’s right. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to raise awareness about the impact of abuse and to empower those affected to find their voice and strength. We’re honored to have a special guest with us today—Eileen, who has an incredible story of survival. Eileen’s journey is not just about surviving; it’s about thriving under God and transforming pain into purpose. She’ll be sharing her personal experiences, but we also want to highlight some important statistics and information that can shed light on the broader issues at play. I’m grateful for the opportunity to share my story. Let’s start at the beginning. Can you tell us about your experiences and what made you feel like you needed to survive? Of course. Growing up in a household where domestic violence was prevalent shaped so much of my life. It was difficult, but I learned early on that my voice mattered, even if it felt small. I became a teen parent at a young age, which added layers of challenge. That’s incredibly brave of you to share. Statistics show that Latino teen parents often face significant barriers to higher education. Did you feel those pressures? Absolutely. Many of my friends who became parents young dropped out of school. It felt like there was a cycle of expectation that we wouldn’t achieve much. But I was determined to break that cycle, not just to survive but to thrive. That determination is inspiring, Eileen. For our listeners, it’s important to understand that statistics can be staggering. According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence. And the risk factors for teens can be higher, particularly for those in marginalized communities. And during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we focus on prevention and education. Eileen, how did your faith play a role in your journey? My faith was my anchor. When I felt most vulnerable, I found strength in my relationship with God. It wasn’t easy, but I saw my worth and purpose through prayer and community support. I wanted to empower others, especially those in similar situations. That’s a powerful testament to the healing power of faith. You mentioned community support—how important was that for you? It was everything. Finding groups that understood what I was going through helped me feel less alone. I started volunteering, sharing my story, and listening to others. It created a ripple effect of empowerment. Speaking of empowerment, we want our listeners to know about resources available for those experiencing domestic violence. Organizations like the National Domestic Violence Hotline provide confidential support and information. And for teens and young adults, there are educational programs designed to break the cycle of violence and promote healthy relationships. Yes, education is key. It’s vital for young parents to know that there are options, scholarships, and support systems available to help them pursue higher education. Eileen, what advice would you give to someone currently experiencing domestic violence or feeling trapped?Don’t lose hope. Reach out for help, whether it’s a trusted friend, family member, or a professional. You deserve to be safe and to thrive. It’s possible to rewrite your story. That’s a beautiful message, Eileen. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable with us today. Before we wrap up, we want to remind our listeners that October is about awareness and action. If you or someone you know is in danger, please reach out for help. There’s strength in seeking support. Thank you, Eileen, for sharing your journey. Your story is a beacon of hope for many. Thank you for allowing me to share. I believe together, we can make a difference. And thank you to our listeners for tuning in. Remember to take care of yourselves and each other. Until next time, stay safe and stay aware. Domestic Violence Hotlines and Resources United States National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Website: thehotline.org Canada Canada’s National Domestic Violence Helpline: 1-800-363-9010 Website: sheltersafe.ca United Kingdom National Domestic Violence Helpline: 0808 2000 247 Website: refuge.org.uk Australia 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 Website: 1800respect.org.au Mexico SAPTEL: 800-472-7835 Website: sapetel.gob.mx International Resources UN Women: Provides resources and support for ending violence against women worldwide. Website: unwomen.org World Health Organization (WHO): Offers information on the health impacts of domestic violence and strategies for prevention. Website: who.int Women Against ...
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    1 hr and 39 mins
  • Episode 90-I dated a psychopath (Evie and Ramon)

    Episode 90-I dated a psychopath (Evie and Ramon)
    Aug 22 2024
    Abusive relationships are complex and devastating, affecting many aspects of the victim's life. Here are some key facts that provide insight into abusive relationships: 1. Definition of Abuse Abuse can be physical, emotional, psychological, financial, or sexual. It involves patterns of behavior meant to gain or maintain power and control over another person. 2. Signs of an Abusive Relationship Physical Abuse: Includes hitting, slapping, choking, or using weapons.Emotional Abuse: Involves manipulating, belittling, or threatening to undermine the victim's self-worth. Psychological Abuse: Includes tactics such as isolation, gaslighting, or constant surveillance to control the victim.Financial Abuse: Involves controlling or limiting access to money, preventing the victim from working, or sabotaging their financial independence.Sexual Abuse: Includes any non-consensual sexual activity or coercion. 3. Frequency and Prevalence Global Impact: Abusive relationships are a global issue, affecting millions of people across various cultures and socioeconomic backgrounds. Statistics: In the U.S., approximately 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence, intimate partner contact sexual violence, or intimate partner stalking with impacts such as injury or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). 4. Cycle of Abuse Tension-Building Phase: The abuser’s behavior becomes increasingly tense and unpredictable.Incident Phase: The abuse occurs, whether physical, emotional, or otherwise. Reconciliation Phase: The abuser may apologize, promise change, or act lovingly to make amends.Calm Phase: The relationship appears to return to normal, but tension gradually builds again, leading to a cycle. 5. Impact on Victims Mental Health: Victims often suffer from anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other mental health issues.Physical Health: Abuse can lead to physical injuries, chronic health problems, and sometimes, long-term disabilities.Economic Impact: Abusive relationships can severely impact financial stability due to limitations on employment, financial control by the abuser, and legal costs. 6. Barriers to Leaving Fear: Victims may fear retaliation from the abuser or worry about their safety or the safety of their children. Isolation: Abusers often isolate their victims from family and friends, making it harder for them to seek help.Economic Dependence: Financial control by the abuser can make it difficult for victims to become financially independent and leave.Love and Hope: Victims may still love the abuser or hope that they will change, which can delay leaving the relationship. 7. Support and Resources Hotlines: Many countries have hotlines for immediate support. For instance, in the U.S., the National Domestic Violence Hotline provides confidential support 24/7.Shelters and Services: Many organizations offer emergency shelters, counseling, legal assistance, and other resources for victims of abuse.Legal Protections: Many jurisdictions have protective orders and legal measures to help victims escape and protect themselves from abusers. 8. Prevention and Education Awareness: Educating people about the signs of abuse and healthy relationships can help in early intervention and prevention. Empowerment: Empowering individuals through education and resources helps to recognize abusive patterns and take action to protect themselves. 9. The Role of Society Supportive Communities: Building a supportive environment that does not tolerate abuse and encourages victims to seek help can make a significant difference. Legislation and Advocacy: Advocating for stronger laws and support systems for victims of abuse is crucial for addressing and preventing domestic violence. Understanding these facts helps to create a more informed perspective on abusive relationships, emphasizing the importance of support, intervention, and education in combating and preventing abuse. Top of Form Bottom of Form Welcome back to [Murder, Blood, and Psychopaths]. I’m Your host [Eileen], and today’s episode will delve into a fascinating and alarming topic: dating a psychopath. Specifically, we will explore the story of Evie and Ramon, who met through mutual friends and are currently in what seems to be a blissful honeymoon phase. But underneath that charming exterior, Ramon has a dark side. Trigger Warning: This episode discusses psychological manipulation and toxic relationships. If these topics are too upsetting for you, please take care of yourself and feel free to skip this episode. Segment 1: The Honeymoon Phase Let’s start with Evie and Ramon’s story. They met through mutual friends, and their connection seemed instant and electric. During the honeymoon phase, everything feels perfect. Ramon appears charming, attentive, and seemingly ideal. This is often the phase where a psychopath’s manipulative traits are less apparent, overshadowed by their ability to charm and impress. Psychopaths are skilled ...
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    1 hr and 55 mins

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