In this episode of Inspired Men Talk, we speak with James Newell, a business owner and father of three, who shares his astonishing story of surviving the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami in Thailand. But this is far more than just a survival story — it’s a deeply human account of overcoming childhood trauma, processing grief following the suicide of a parent, battling anxiety, and ultimately finding healing through therapy and connection.

James opens up with raw honesty, warmth, and even humour, offering insights into trauma recovery, the power of choosing your response, and why he considers himself one of the lucky ones.

Whether you’re seeking inspiration, emotional wellbeing support, or simply a story of remarkable resilience, this episode is not to be missed.

💬 Topics include:

• Men’s mental health & emotional wellbeing
• Surviving trauma and natural disaster
• Coping with grief and loss
• The power of CBT and counselling
• Breaking generational cycles & positive parenting

🧠 Empowering conversations that remind us it’s okay to speak up. You’re not alone.

🔗 Connect with James Newell:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesnewell/
Business: https://clearsalesmessage.com

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Visit [your website or resource here] for a free initial consultation and access to our wellbeing resources.

🕒 Timeline / Chapters:

00:00 – Introduction to Inspired Men Talk
02:00 – Meet James Newell
04:20 – Early trauma: losing his father to suicide
08:30 – Travelling solo to reset life
13:00 – Christmas on Phi Phi Island
18:20 – The tsunami strikes: James’ near-death experience
28:45 – Escaping the island and the aftermath
38:00 – Returning home & recovery
43:00 – Mental health struggles and therapy
49:10 – Rebuilding with CBT
54:40 – Fatherhood, purpose & breaking the cycle
1:01:00 – The power of choosing your response
1:07:30 – Final reflections & advice
1:10:00 – How to connect with James

Welcome to Inspired Men Talk, where real stories inspire genuine change. In this powerful episode, we speak with the remarkable Pazbi Zavazki, a creative force and resilient spirit who overcame stage 4 cancer as a child, learned to walk again when doctors said he never would, and is now leading the way in neuroinclusive tech innovation.

From his childhood battle with leukaemia to navigating life with ADHD and building a purpose-driven business, Pazbi’s story is filled with hope, humour, and heartfelt insight. This is a conversation you won't want to miss.

⏱️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
00:00 – Meet Pazbi Zavazki: A Story of Strength
03:15 – Growing Up Between Greece, Poland & the UK
06:40 – Cancer Diagnosis at Age 7 & Relearning to Walk
13:00 – The Power of Hope, Teachers, and Mr Bean
21:00 – Being Diagnosed with ADHD at 30
25:45 – Learning to Focus & Letting Go of Shiny Things
31:10 – How Identity Shifts Rewire the Brain
38:00 – Advice for Parents & Adults Facing Illness
43:30 – Creating Neuroinclusive Standards in Business
50:20 – Travel Tips for Japan!
55:00 – Why Therapy, Focus & Small Joys Matter

Description:

Dating in 2025 is harder than ever, especially for men. With dating apps creating unrealistic expectations and rejection becoming a daily struggle, it's no surprise that men's mental health is suffering. In this powerful episode of Inspired Men Talk, hosts Peter Ely, Benn Baker-Pollard, and Gary Johannes sit down with Eamer Draper, a straight-talking dating coach, to unpack the challenges modern men face in dating and relationships.

💡 What you'll learn in this episode:
✔️ The hidden struggles men face in online dating
✔️ Why rejection is actually protection
✔️ The truth about dating app algorithms (and how they work against you)
✔️ How to boost confidence & find meaningful connections
✔️ Practical tips to navigate dating with a healthy mindset

If you’ve ever felt lost in the dating world or frustrated with the modern landscape of love, this episode is for you!

✨ Resources & Links:
🔹 Take the Dating Persona Quiz: https://bit.ly/43orRS2
🔹 Learn more about Kindling Dating Coaching: https://kindlingdating.com/
🔹 Follow Eamer Draper on Instagram: @kindling_dating

💬 What’s your biggest struggle with dating? Drop a comment below! Don’t forget to LIKE, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE for more real conversations on men’s mental health.

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