Episodes

  • Episode 40: Boundaries part 2 - How to set healthy boundaries with your friends
    Nov 18 2024

    In this episode Ben and Lucas continue the conversation about boundaries, tackling the practicalities of how to set healthy boundaries with friends. Here's the key takeaway: Setting healthy boundaries involves knowing God and yourself, communicating your boundaries clearly, and then guarding them graciously. Simple, but not easy.

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    37 mins
  • Episode 39: Boundaries part 1 - Should I set boundaries with my friends?
    Nov 11 2024

    Boundaries are essential for healthy relationships. You were created in the image of God, created to be a unique person with an identity grounded in Jesus and free from unhealthy dependencies. In this episode we ask whether boundaries are actually biblical, define what boundaries are (and aren’t!) and give some specifical examples of relationships that lack healthy boundaries.

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    30 mins
  • Episode 38: Friends and Politics
    25 mins
  • Episode 37: 5 simple ways to be a better friend
    24 mins
  • Episode 36: Why does friendship matter?
    Oct 14 2024

    We’ve spent 30+ weeks talking about friendship. In this episode we go back to the beginning and ask the big question - does friendship even matter? Hint: it definitely does.


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    22 mins
  • Episode 35: Should I ever cut a friend out of my life?
    Oct 7 2024

    Is there ever a legitimate reason to cut someone out of your life, especially if they’ve been a long-time friend? In this episode we examine what the Bible says about when it’s appropriate to step back from a relationship with a friend and provide two essential paradigms for ensuring that you’re doing it with the right motives.

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    24 mins
  • Episode 34: How to forgive a friend who’s hurt you
    Sep 30 2024

    Ever had to forgive someone for something significant? Hear a story of difficult forgiveness from Lucas, learn biblical foundations for forgiving others when they hurt you, and a simple (but not easy) process for following Jesus’ command to forgive in this episode of Hey Friend.

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    33 mins
  • Episode 33: Can Christians drink alcohol with their friends?
    Sep 23 2024

    You’re a Christian. Should you drink alcohol with your friends? Throughout church history this question has been answered in a variety of ways, and in this episode we discuss the bigger “up-stream” questions that need to be answered about what God’s purpose for those who are followers of Jesus are, how the Bible functions, and more before being able to accurately, biblically answer how Christians should relate to alcohol and if you should have a drink with your friends this Friday night.

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    28 mins