Fail Better with David Duchovny

By: Lemonada Media
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  • To be human is to fail – period. And not just to fail once, but to fail a lot. As the author Samuel Beckett said: “Fail again. Fail better.” This saying means a lot to me and my family – so much so that my daughter got a tattoo of it. Why are we, and so many others, so deeply concerned by failure? And if it’s something we all do so often, why are we so afraid of it – especially those of us here in win-at-all-costs America? In this podcast, I sit down with successful, thoughtful people like Ben Stiller, Bette Midler, Sean Penn and more to talk about failure – or what they labeled “failure,” but what was really an unparalleled opportunity for growth and revelation. I even want to delve into my own hardest moments, when I wrestled with setbacks, shame, and fear. We’ll still fail again. And again. But maybe if we fail better, we’ll feel better -- and maybe if we can all laugh together in failure, that's a start.

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Episodes
  • Graydon Carter and The Editor’s Eye
    Apr 1 2025

    Graydon Carter, the editor whose two decades at the helm of Vanity Fair transformed the publication, sure knows how to curate. He made the magazine into the cultural touchstone it is today (think: the much-photographed Vanity Fair Oscars Party, the viral celebrity lie-detector tests), though not without trial, error, and lots of nerves. He and I talk about his long tenure, the pitfalls of a project not having a “point,” and what he gets out of being at the head of a completely new enterprise, the digital magazine Air Mail. It’s a creative conversation I didn’t know I needed, and one I’m very glad I had.

    Graydon’s memoir, When the Going Was Good, is available now wherever books are sold.

    Follow me on Instagram at @davidduchovny. Stay up to date with Lemonada on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia.

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    55 mins
  • 25 Years Later and Bree Sharp Is Still Asking Why Won’t I Love Her
    Mar 25 2025

    In 1999, the musician Bree Sharp released a single titled “David Duchovny,” off her debut album, A Cheap and Evil Girl. Despite it being the early days of the internet, the song — with its refrain “David Duchovny, why won’t you love me?” — found its way to me, as did the surprise music video that a bunch of people came together to make for our X Files Christmas party. In the time since, Bree and I have only spoken a handful of times — so for the first time, she and I sit down to talk about how and why she wrote the song, what it’s meant for her career, and all the thoughts I’ve been sitting on about the lyrics. Then, finally, Bree gives a full performance undisturbed by my commentary, and we time-travel back to the moment this first entered the world. Or maybe you just Want To Believe that.

    The 25th anniversary edition of A Cheap And Evil Girl is available now on eco-friendly vinyl, and folks in New York and Pennsylvania can catch Bree on tour in April. Tickets can be found on her website, www.breesharp.com.

    Follow me on Instagram at @davidduchovny. Stay up to date with Lemonada on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia.

    Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our shows and get bonus content. Subscribe today on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors.

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    46 mins
  • Failure Matters with Jaleel White
    Mar 18 2025

    To me, there are few sitcom characters more memorable than Steve Urkel on Family Matters. So getting to talk to the actor Jaleel White — about his approach to acting, his take on Hollywood in the ‘90s and now, and what it’s meant to have a character follow him into adulthood — was as illuminating as I’d expected. As a pillar of show business and an astute observer of it, Jaleel is someone whose perspective I deeply appreciate. Plus, his new memoir ‘Growing Up Urkel’ is thoughtful and nuanced, and I’m grateful we could reflect on it together.

    Follow me on Instagram at @davidduchovny. Stay up to date with Lemonada on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @LemonadaMedia.

    Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our shows and get bonus content. Subscribe today on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    56 mins

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This is a Down to Earth View from the Top

This is such an amazing, relaxed conversation between friends, with so many interesting stories.

This is instantly my favourite podcast.

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Imperfectly Perfect

I started listening to this podcast out of my own live and appreciation for David Duchovny as an actor, musician, and writer and within the first few minutes of the first episode I realized I’d keep listening because it felt more real and raw than I was expecting. I’ve laughed, I’ve cried, and I’ve come to very big realizations through his various interviews and anecdotes that are inherently based on the fundamental truths we all face. I have enjoyed every guest he’s had on, even those I wasn’t familiar with, and I’m so thankful he’s decided to do this podcast on failure and how one can ultimately succeed through their failures. I highly recommend listening to this podcast, especially for those on the fence simply because of the thought “another celebrity pretending to be relatable, but I’m no where near famous or accomplished enough to relate” - this is NO WHERE near that. This podcast is filled with relatable, real problems, the thoughts and doubts that run through us all, and how everyone fails, and THAT’S OKAY.

Thank you for sharing this with us, David. I truly can’t say how much I appreciate your candid words, even if you have doubt about sharing them in the first place. They matter.

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