Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

By: Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
  • Summary

  • Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!

    Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!

    If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.

    Send us your brunchtalk questions at hello@dateablepodcast.com or leave your question in a review!

    Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/

    Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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  • Special Edition Pre-Thanksgiving #brunchtalk: Are You Seeing Anyone Special + Other Awkward Thanksgiving Questions:
    Nov 24 2024

    With Thanksgiving right around the corner, it can be the most joyful...and stressful time of year. Not everyone wants enjoy their turkey dinner with questions about your relationship status! But have no fear, we're going to break down some of the most frustrating questions that can come your way over the holiday season – whether you're single AF, in a new relationship, or headed towards marriage (and beyond). And also share a reminder of where this is coming from and how to embrace the holiday season with a mentality of abundance and love.

    Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



    WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

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    21 mins
  • Quickie w/ Yue: Dating Shouldn't Be This Hard
    Nov 21 2024

    We're meant to do life with other people. So then, why is dating so damn hard? Yue's sharing why dating feels so difficult these days – and how we can start to shift our mindset to think about things differently. Because being with another human you love is natural, yet dating is not. And it's about time we change how we approach it altogether.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



    WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

    Our Sponsors:
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    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

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    11 mins
  • S19E13: The Validation Trap
    Nov 19 2024

    There's so much pressure when dating....so much that dating becomes more about measuring up than actually finding the right partner. We're diving into one of the biggest things that got in our way – and that we see stifle so many of you too – when we let dating define our worth and make it a lot more personal than it actually is. We're discussing the mindset of being the chooser vs. being chosen, how our ego can overtake love, and ways to make the shift from needing someone to wanting to be with someone.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



    WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations

    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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re: fwb's

Two thoughts occurred to me. First that a FWB could really be(!) a friend. My college freshman girlfriend was in my life for decades(!). After our boyfriend/girlfriend for a few months we messed around off and on for 20 years. She came to special occasions and we stuck together through thick and thin as long as she wasn't seeing anyone. I'm godfather to her daughter!

Secondly, don't be fooled that a FWB should 'ease" you into sex. The only value your real boyfriend holds is the experience that he(!) gives you. The less you have, the better he feels about it. No man is ever thinking ' I wish someone else had fucked her first'.

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