What happens when a devoted husband from Houston finds himself suddenly single in the vibrant dating scene of San Diego? Join me on the Accidentally On Purpose podcast as I recount my rollercoaster journey from married life to navigating the chaotic waters of Southern California's dating pool. Through humorous tales of botched dates and a particularly embarrassing drunken birthday video, I reveal the often-shared struggles of modern dating. This candid exploration isn't just about mishaps, but also about the significance of focusing on personal growth and self-improvement rather than competing with past partners.

As the conversation unfolds, I dive into the complexities of self-discovery following a long-term relationship. Discover how finding one's true self, adjusting expectations, and learning from past love stories can pave the way to a more fulfilling partnership. I discuss the invaluable role of therapy in boosting communication and emotional intelligence, stressing the importance of respect and integrity. From reflecting on community engagement to the power of voting, this episode is not just about personal growth but also about fostering strong community values. Plus, don't miss my live R&B sessions where we vibe to 90s classics and mashups, bringing together rhythms and community spirit.