In this episode, we are joined by guest hosts, Min. Brandy Nelson & Elder Antwan Nelson to discuss the struggles and challenges we have faced in our marriages and how we overcame them. Our guests were actually responsible for introducing us and marrying us, so we are incredibly grateful to welcome them for this transparent conversation. Yes--we keep it real REAL! We explore the need for commitment and working through difficulties, even when it feels tough.

Takeaways Abound!!! Listen in!!!

In this episode, we discuss the concept of filters in relationships and communication. We explore various filters that can affect communication, including inattention, emotional state, beliefs and expectations, different styles of communication, and external influences. We emphasize the importance of open and honest communication, understanding each other's filters, and using love as a positive filter. They also highlight the need for continuous growth and learning in relationships.

Highlighted Resource: Fighting for Your Marriage (book)

Takeaways

• Filters in relationships and communication can affect how we perceive and respond to each other.
• Inattention, emotional state, beliefs and expectations, different communication styles, and external influences can act as filters.
• Open and honest communication is crucial for understanding and navigating these filters.
• Using love as a positive filter can help foster understanding and connection in relationships.

***Valentine's Day Edition*** In this episode, we discuss the importance of being lovers and friends in a marriage. We each highlight three key aspects that we need in order for our partner to become our lover AND friend. We conclude by emphasizing the need for authentic conversations to foster a deeper connection to become true lovers and friends. If you are single and dating . . . we dedicate a special section to you at the 25-minute mark by talking about how to determine if someone is truly invested in a relationship with you.