The more you think you’re in control, the more you’re likely to lose it. I’ve learned this the hard way. And I was the athlete who grew up on the phrase, “Control the Controllables.”

But what if the so-called controllables aren’t fully controllable?

On my latest episode of the Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™ show, I sit down with Joey Feste - a guy who once described himself as a “recovering control freak.” Joey is the Senior Managing Partner of KM Capital Management and has been advising some of the top players in the NFL for over 36 years. During our interview, we got real about Joey’s journey through sports, business, and life and how he overcame the pile of challenges that were out of his control. If you want to feel more confident when you’re dealing with things out of your control, then lock in to today’s episode.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• What to do when people question your reputation and try to knock you off your God-given destiny
• Why Joey described himself as a “recovering control freak”
• The similar challenges Joey noticed between those he served in his church and his superstar athlete clients
• The common, yet preventable mistake around money

Key Quotes

• “Asking for feedback accelerates change.” - Joey Feste
• “Your relationships are key to managing and protecting your money.” - Joey Feste
• “It’s OK not to be OK.” - Joey Feste
• “Spending becomes a habit just like everything else.” - Joey Feste
• “Don’t just put people in your life that will give you feedback. Put people in your life that you can ask for feedback.” - Joey Feste

Resources from this Episode

• Linkedin: /in/joeyfeste
• Instagram: @daddyfeste
• Website (personal): https://joeyfeste.com/
• Website (KM Capital Management): http://www.kmcapitalmgt.com/

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• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid
• Website: jamesreid.com
• Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only)

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In this episode, I discuss embracing God's grace as a resource to be stewarded, just like finances or time. I share my personal journey from being a "head-in-the-cloud" Christian to discovering how leaning into my unique gifts brought unexpected blessings and favor. I explain how adopting a stewardship mindset can unlock unprecedented success in various aspects of life, including careers, health, and relationships. I then challenge listeners to audit their lives through the lens of stewardship, offering advice on how to maximize their God-given gifts for greater blessings.

Join me for a conversation that will ignite your passion for service and inspire you to share God's grace in every aspect of your life.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Discovering God's grace as a resource to be stewarded.

• Exploring stewardship beyond material wealth, including relationships, health, and careers.

• Practical steps to assess and improve stewardship in various life areas.

• Understanding the biblical basis of stewardship and its impact on receiving God's favor and blessings.

• Encouragement to leverage unique gifts to serve others and share God's grace.

Connect with J.R.

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesJRreid

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesjrreid/

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/

• Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid

• Website: jamesreid.com

• Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only)

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Join me for an incredible conversation with René Banglesdorf, a changemaker, serial entrepreneur, and executive business coach in the private aviation industry. In this episode, we discuss how to stay true to yourself in a fast-paced, affluent industry and share some truly memorable moments, including René's embarrassing encounter with Michael Westbrook and his baby. Listen in as we explore maintaining faith, integrity, and authenticity, and how to navigate misaligned relationships.

René shares her journey from being the CEO of Charlie Bravo to transitioning into a coaching business, and how she positioned herself for success. We talk about the importance of staying true to ourselves and our vision, even when it might be hard or risky. We also discuss the importance of equipping our successors to succeed when we transition. This wisdom-packed conversation is filled with valuable insights and practical advice.

We explore how to maintain faith and integrity in an ever-changing, high-stakes environment, as well as how to handle toxic relationships and approach reconciliation with those we care about. René emphasizes that the root of both leadership success and failure rests in the heart of the leader. Don't miss this incredible episode filled with powerful stories, wisdom, and advice from the inspiring René Banglesdorf!

In this episode, you'll hear:

• How to gain confidence when you know you’re an outlier
• What René did when she needed to overcome the labels that were put on her
• How René maintains her faith, integrity, and authenticity in a fast-paced, affluent industry
• What to do when you know your relationship with someone is misaligned
• What René sees as the root of leadership fails, especially around people

Key Quotes

• “It’s important to believe in who God says you are” - J.R.
• “It’s so easy to get caught up in the noise that we forget to be true to ourselves” - René Banglesdorf
• “Every day could be the beginning of a season that we didn’t even anticipate” - René Banglesdorf
• “If we’re not grounded in who we are, who we want to be, and how we want to show up every day, we can get really sidetracked when we get derailed from the path we’re on” - René Banglesdorf
• “The root of leadership failure is the same root of leadership success: it’s in the heart of the leader” - René Banglesdorf

Connect with René

• Instagram: @Renébanglesdorf
• Twitter: @Renébanglesdorf
• Linkedin: /in/René-banglesdorf
• Discord: @JetRed
• Personal Website: https://Renébanglesdorf.com
• Ethjets: https://ethjets.com

Connect with J.R.

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesJRreid
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesjrreid/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid
• Website: jamesreid.com
• Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only)

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You have a lot on your plate. I get it. Because I do, too. But what happens on those days when you wake up and suddenly become overwhelmed about everything that’s ahead of you? It’s a big reality in the life of a high achiever.

And when the overwhelm kicks in, you start talking to yourself. And in that moment, another reality comes to the surface. That is, one word could shift the trajectory of your day.

In today’s 5 Minute Drill, I’m going to help you better approach your day when your plate is full. I want to help you more consistently set yourself up for a powerful day instead of positioning yourself for a setback.

If you want a more reliable way to tap into the best of you when a challenging day is ahead, then make sure to lock in to today’s Drill.

LET’S GET IT!

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Shifting from overwhelmed to empowered with an "I will" mindset.
• Using intentional language and conscious choices to avoid regrets.
• Managing a hectic schedule and balancing multiple roles.
• Transforming negative thoughts into positive energy.
• How to unlock elite performance and find fulfillment in your personal and professional life.

Connect with J.R.

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesJRreid
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesjrreid/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid
• Website: jamesreid.com
• Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only)

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Today, we’re going to talk about what to do in those moments where you feel under attack by the people closest to you. When I say under attack, I’m talking about those moments when something was said to you that triggered negative emotions, or when someone called you out on something you didn’t like being called out on. This topic means a lot to me because, if I’m being honest, the passionate half-Italian athlete in me has failed SO many times in these moments. But, I’ve learned a ton from them and want to share a strategy that’s going to help you stay strong in those moments instead of falling apart.

Lock in to find out how to turn challenging moments into powerful, win-win opportunities.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Strategies for managing negative emotions and staying composed in triggering situations
• How acknowledging and owning your feelings can be a powerful tool for personal growth and emotional maturity
• How to prevent yourself from bottling up your feelings
• A four step method for transitioning from being emotionally triggered to responding objectively
• Analysis of the common tendency to view loved ones as liabilities instead of assets, with strategies to shift this perspective

Connect with J.R.

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesJRreid
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesjrreid/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid
• Website: jamesreid.com
• Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only)

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From all-time leader in wins to unemployed, but still finding joy in life. Whaaaaat?

Yep. And that’s just part of Mike Pinto’s story.

For 15 years, Mike built the Southern Illinois Miners from the ground up into one of the winningest and most respected organizations in professional baseball. Mike was the all-time leader in managerial wins with 770, and had 13 winning seasons in 14 years! But, in 2021, Mike showed up to work and learned that the Miners organization and his winning streak would end due to circumstances outside of his control. Talk about a major life and career transition.

During our conversation, Mike unpacks his innovative process of “what else thinking” that’s helped him consistently generate new ideas and kept his teams at the top. We discuss the balance between innovation and distraction and how Mike’s ultimate goal of fostering a great culture guided his decision-making.

Mike talks about the importance of making the most of opportunities and encourages you to cheat life as long as you can. He shares his philosophy of “Stage Five Players,” urging you to be present, work on improving your skills, and not get too preoccupied with things beyond your control.

If you want to learn more about Mike's inspiring journey and experience more joy amidst the adversity in your life and career, then don’t miss today’s episode.

In this episode, you will hear:

• How Mike managed his focus and relationships while in BOTH a COO and Baseball Team Manager role
• Mike’s secret sauce behind building winning teams and cultures for decades
• Mike’s five stages of the Independent Baseball career that applies to life and business

Key Quotes

• “Cheat life as long as you can.” - Mike Pinto
• “Be where your feet are.” - Mike Pinto
• “Act like you’re going to be reviewed on Yelp every day. How many five stars are you getting?” - Mike Pinto
• “It’s not about who you know. It’s about who knows you.” - Mike Pinto

Connect with Mike

• Instagram: @mikepinto3
• Linkedin: /in/mikepinto
• Twitter: @mikepinto3
• Mike’s Band: San Antonio Transit
• Joliet Slammers Baseball: https://jolietslammers.com/

Connect with J.R.

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesJRreid
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesjrreid/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid
• Website: jamesreid.com
• Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only)

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How much has your identity taken a beating? You know, from the…

Mistakes you’ve made…

Stories others have told about you...

Labels people have put on you since childhood (“he’s quiet,” “she’s shy,” “he’s too short”)...

What social media influencers say about people like you…

What your so-called fans and supporters say.

These ALL pose a threat to our identity - the very thing that influences our thoughts, beliefs, and actions. We all need to strengthen the wall around our identity. But how?

In today’s 5 Minute Drill, I dig into the pillar of identity work that isn’t being talked about enough. It’s the pillar that, at the end of the day, is the one that holds up all the others…it’s the one behind your ultimate clarity, confidence, and contribution to this world in whatever roles you play.

If you want to fully protect YOUR identity and have more clarity, confidence, and meaningful contribution in your life, then make sure to lock in to today’s Drill.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Understanding the concept of identity and its pivotal role in determining your life's purpose.
• The importance of self-discovery and introspection in identifying your life's mission or calling.
• The symptoms and triggers of an identity crisis and how it impacts your life's purpose.
• How a solid understanding of your identity can pave the way for a purposeful life.
• The significance of recognizing the first point on the Diamond of Identity™.
• The detrimental effects of depending on others' opinions

Connect with J.R.

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamesJRreid
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesjrreid/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesjrreid/
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/jamesJRreid
• Website: jamesreid.com
• Check out The Clutch Club™️: jamesreid.com/club (For Men Only)

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