In this episode, I share my thoughts on reconnecting with someone I love. I explore the risks involved, the potential for both hurt and happiness, and why embracing uncertainty can be essential in the pursuit of love and fulfillment...

Dedicated to J

In this episode of Call Me Tony, I look at how remembering past experiences and honouring those we’ve lost can help us build a stronger present and future. Reflecting on where we’ve come from gives us resilience and a clearer sense of identity, grounding us in ways that support who we are today.

In this episode, I share my thoughts on truth and reconciliation in Canada, particularly as it relates to Indigenous First Nations. I explore why the focus seems so heavily on “truth” and how we might balance that with meaningful reconciliation. As a first-generation Canadian of mixed heritage, my unique background and experiences with systemic racism shape my view. With personal connections to Indigenous communities, I consider how we can create a path forward that includes voices from all backgrounds, fostering a more inclusive conversation around reconciliation.

In this episode, I explore why I’m openly opposed to political correctness and how it often stifles genuine conversation. I discuss how PC culture can inadvertently promote bigotry, limit honest dialogue, and create fear rather than understanding. Instead of fostering real connections, it encourages silence and resentment. Tune in to hear my thoughts on why honesty matters more than saying the “right” thing.

In this episode, I reflect on a question my mother asked me 22 years ago, shortly after my father’s death: “Do you think the wrong parent died?” My answer was “yes” then, and it’s still “yes” today. I’ll share why I feel this way by exploring the complicated relationships I had with both of my parents, the impact of my father’s abuse and later attempts to make amends, and my ongoing struggles with my mother. This episode is about understanding how those relationships shaped me and why my answer remains the same.

This week, I share a personal story about pushing past a long-standing insecurity—singing in a small group. By stepping outside my comfort zone, I discovered a new sense of joy in something I once thought was out of reach. Tune in to hear how this experience has not only helped me grow but also opened the door to unexpected fulfillment.

In this episode, I talk about breaking free from toxic relationships and self-destructive habits. I share my journey of exploring new connections, rediscovering joy through hobbies like playing guitar, and finding balance with meditation. Volunteering with my local UU church has also brought a sense of purpose and improved my self-esteem. It’s been a transformative time as I continue to push past my fears and redefine my comfort zone.

It's OK to say "ouch" when we're physically hurt so why not when the hurt is emotional?