Awkward Etiquette With Kiki Astor

By: Kiki Astor
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  • Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirling at a ball. Wondering about the historical roots of fork placement or the proper way to decline a social invitation without causing a scandal? Auntie Kiki has you covered, darling! In each episode, Kiki Astor delves into the archives of social graces, uncovering the hidden gems of bygone eras and bringing them into the 21st century with a wink and a nod. Learn how to curtsy with confidence, when to deploy the subtle art of shade, and why you should never, ever drop your pedigree papers, whether it's during a soirée, a cocktail party, or in the PTA or HOA meeting. From navigating the treacherous waters of modern technology to mastering the delicate dance of small talk, Kiki Astor is here to ensure you ascend the social ladder without stepping on any well-heeled toes. So, grab your monocle, straighten your tiara, and prepare for a delightful blend of refined advice and uproarious anecdotes that will have you laughing all the way to the gilded gates of high society. Subscribe now and embark on a journey through the annals of etiquette, where Kiki Astor transforms the socially awkward into the effortlessly elegant, one podcast episode at a time. After all, darling, why be gauche when you can be gloriously graceful? 🥂 #AwkwardEtiquette #KikiAstor #MannersMatter
    2023
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Episodes
  • Modern manners? Which etiquette rules are outdated, and why
    Nov 4 2024

    In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, hostess Kiki Astor dives into the fascinating world of etiquette and manners, exploring which traditional etiquette rules may now feel outdated and why. From rigid social scripts to the nuances of dining decorum, Kiki examines how changing societal values, cultural shifts, and modern social skills are transforming what we once considered polite behavior. Tune in for an entertaining yet insightful discussion on the sociological and anthropological aspects of evolving social norms. This entertaining episode full of cheekiness and personal anecdotes is perfect for listeners intrigued by social skills, the history of manners, and the evolving landscape of interpersonal etiquette.

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    46 mins
  • What's in a name? Trending vs "old money" baby names, name history and etiquette
    Oct 28 2024
    What's in a Name? Our moniker might be our most important attribute, influencing how we succeed and how we are perceived. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Kiki Astor dives into the delightful—and sometimes awkward—world of names. Starting with the hottest naming trends for 2025, sourced from Nameberry, Kiki explores how some baby names go in and out of style and why certain ones are making a comeback. Next, we go on a fascinating journey through the history and anthropology of naming, from ancestral customs to “old money” traditions that add an air of distinction (or occasional pretension) to family names. As Kiki shares her top tips for selecting the perfect name for a child, you’ll get insight into her curated list of timeless, old-money-approved names that evoke classic sophistication. Next, Kiki tackles the social minefield of name etiquette: what to do when you can’t remember someone’s name, how to handle "name poaching" from a close friend or family member, and whether it’s appropriate to name your dog after a friend. And for those of us with four-legged friends whose names overlap with our human companions, Kiki provides a cheeky yet respectful approach to those situations. Tune in for a fun, informative, and etiquette-savvy discussion on all things names and naming!
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    55 mins
  • Awkward but necessary: addressing microaggressions
    Oct 21 2024

    In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, your hostess, etiquette maven and romance author Kiki Astor, dives deep into the world of microaggressions—those subtle, often unintentional comments and actions that can have a profound impact on individuals and communities. Although they may seem small, microaggressions accumulate, leading to emotional distress and a feeling of being marginalized. Kiki discusses what microaggressions are, the different types that exist, and why addressing them is crucial for fostering an inclusive environment.

    Listeners will learn how to identify microaggressions in their daily interactions and what steps to take if they find themselves as victims, perpetrators, or witnesses of these behaviors. While traditional etiquette focuses on smoothing over discomfort, this episode emphasizes the importance of speaking up to break the cycle of microaggressions by educatin yourself and becoming an ally. We'll also discuss what victis of microsaggressions can do. Join us for an enlightening conversation that blends awareness with actionable advice, empowering you to navigate awkward situations with confidence and compassion.

    This is a difficult, often awkward conversation, but fear not, your Auntie Kiki will address it with a blend of cheekiness and compassion.

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    34 mins

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Auntie Kiki to the rescue

I first became aware of Auntie Kiki on TikTok. Her content is fresh, fun, and entertaining. I am an avid reader of her books (delightfully smutty) and a dedicated listener to her podcast. Her advice on navigating various social situations, relationships, and etiquette are top notch.

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