Adoption: The Making of Me. An Oral History of Adoptee Stories

By: Louise Browne & Sarah Reinhardt
  • Summary

  • Two adult adoptees, Sarah Reinhardt and Louise Browne, delve into all things adoption - from their perspectives as adult adoptees.

    Each season Sarah and Louise recap a chapter from a book centered on adoption and then interview a guest. Sarah and Louise come out of the 'fog' in real-time through Seasons One and Two and are advocating for change in the adoption industry. They want to give voice to all adoptees. Adoptee stories are needed to reframe the narrative around adoption.

    Sarah and Louise, two former business partners who had a successful ice cream truck in Los Angeles, team up again - this time in frank and honest conversations about all things adoption from the adoptee perspective. Both were adopted shortly after birth, but they had very different experiences.

    These will be intimate conversations, but also fun - because Sarah and Louise know how to lighten things up and have a good time. They also have an uncanny ability to get to the heart of a subject with anyone who crosses their path - so conversations will take many turns.

    © 2024 Adoption: The Making of Me. An Oral History of Adoptee Stories
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Episodes
  • Julie: For this Adoptee, Belonging Comes from Within
    Nov 5 2024

    Julie Brumley is a trauma-informed adoptee coach who has been coaching men and women for more than 15 years to overcome addictive behaviors and heal the primal trauma of abandonment. She is also the CEO of Coming Home to Self, a company dedicated to helping adoptees heal. After her own birth mother tried to abort her twice, she found herself frozen in an unconscious trauma response for decades until she found the power of somatic trauma healing. Now, she uses somatics, nervous system regulation, personal experience, and her master's in counseling to help other adult adoptees find their way out of their own trauma and into a life of radical self-belonging.

    The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler

    Exciting News!
    We will be reading and discussing: You Should Be Grateful: Stories of Race, Identify, and Transracial Adoption by Angela Tucker in Season 9.
    Here is a link to order her book: bookshop link.

    Magic Mind Adoptee 20 Link
    USE THE CODE AND LINK TO RECEIVE 20% OFF YOUR SUBSCRIPTION
    magicmind.com/adoptee20

    RESOURCES for Adoptees
    S12F Helping Adoptees
    Gregory Luce and Adoptees Rights Law
    Joe Soll & other adoptee resources
    Fireside Adoptees Facebook Group
    Reckoning with the Primal Wound Documentary
    Dr. Liz Debetta: Migrating Toward Wholeness Movement
    Hiraeth Hope & Healing
    Moses Farrow - Trauma therapist and advocate
    National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 1-800-273-8255 OR Dial or Text 988.
    Unraveling Adoption with Beth Syverson
    Adoptees Connect with Pamela Karanova

    To connect with Julie:
    https://www.instagram.com/juliebrumley_/
    https://www.facebook.com/julierasbrum/
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/theresilienceprojectforadoptees

    Thank you to our Patreons! Join at the $10 level and be part of our monthly Zoom /ADOPTEE CAFE community. This is an adoptee-only space. We do appreciate all of our Patreons. The next meeting is November 9th @ 1pm ET









    Support the show

    To support the show - Patreon.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Ann: For This Adoptee, A Long Wait for Answers
    Oct 29 2024

    Ann Haralambie is an award-winning author and a trial and appellate attorney (a Certified Family Law Specialist and a Certified Child Welfare Law Specialist). She has a BA in Creative Writing, an MA in English Literature, and a JD in law. Her first book was a poetry chapbook published in 1976 by Desert First Works while she was in law school. Her three-volume Thomson Reuters legal treatise, "Handling Child Custody, Abuse and Adoption Cases 3d" is supplemented annually. Her three other major law books are written primarily for a legal and multi-disciplinary professional audience.

    Ann is an adoptee who searched for her birth family for 35 years. Her award-winning book, "Not Nicholson: The Story of a First Daughter," (2023) is an adoption search and reunion memoir. It has been called "a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring quest for self-understanding. . . a deeply moving read, one that resonates long after the final page is turned" (The Reading Bud), "universally inspiring, exemplifying an unwavering resolve that continues even in the face of numerous obstacles. . . an invaluable companion for those navigating the intricate paths of understanding and acceptance in the realms of adoption" (Literary Titan), and "a compelling read that balances personal narrative with broader social issues. . . . a book that will appeal to a wide range of readers, . . . a powerful reminder of the enduring human spirit and the profound impact of uncovering one’s past." (Jeyran Main, Editor-in-chief, Review Tales Magazine).

    Spending her time equally between Arizona and New Hampshire, in her spare time Ann loves singing all kinds of music from classical choral music to traditional Irish/Scottish songs to worship music, playing various fretted string instruments and the Irish bodhrán (a framed goatskin drum), Irish and ballroom dancing, and serving as the Loon Preservation Committee field volunteer for Silver Lake, NH.

    The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler
    Exciting News!
    We will read and discuss: You Should Be Grateful: Stories of Race, Identify, and Transracial Adoption by Angela Tucker in Season 9.


    Magic Mind Adoptee 20 Link
    USE THE CODE AND LINK TO RECEIVE 20% OFF YOUR SUBSCRIPTION
    magicmind.com/adoptee20

    RESOURCES for Adoptees
    S12F Helping Adoptees
    Gregory Luce and Adoptees Rights Law
    Fireside Adoptees Facebook Group
    Reckoning with the Primal Wound Documentary
    Dr. Liz Debetta: Migrating Toward Wholeness Movement
    Unraveling Adoption with Beth Syverson
    Adoptees Connect with Pamela Karanova

    Join at the $10 level and be part of our monthly ADOPTEE CAFE community. This is an adoptee-only space. The next meeting is November 9th @ 1 pm ET

    Support the show

    To support the show - Patreon.

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    1 hr and 39 mins
  • Lena: For This Adoptee, Reunion is Complicated
    Oct 22 2024

    Lena Rosenbloom is a domestic, closed-adopted person from New Jersey. She was adopted in the 80s and raised as an only child in an adoptive family that could not have children. She entered reunion in 2002 with her paternal biological family. Lena discovered her biological family through the adoption.com website and message boards in 2002. She has three half-siblings on her paternal side. Lena has reached out to her biological mother two times in the past 20 years and has been rejected. Lena is a licensed clinical social worker in Florida working with grief and loss as well as terminally ill clients. She helped start a nonprofit organization for first responder spouses in 2018. She has been married to her wonderful husband for 15 years and has two children. She loves to journal, make crafts, and find healing through music and concerts.

    The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler

    Exciting News!
    We will be reading and discussing: You Should Be Grateful: Stories of Race, Identify, and Transracial Adoption by Angela Tucker in Season 9.
    Here is a link to order her book: bookshop link.

    Magic Mind Adoptee 20 Link
    USE THE CODE AND LINK TO RECEIVE 20% OFF YOUR SUBSCRIPTION
    magicmind.com/adoptee20

    RESOURCES for Adoptees
    S12F Helping Adoptees
    Gregory Luce and Adoptees Rights Law
    Joe Soll & other adoptee resources
    Fireside Adoptees Facebook Group
    Reckoning with the Primal Wound Documentary
    Dr. Liz Debetta: Migrating Toward Wholeness Movement
    Hiraeth Hope & Healing
    Moses Farrow - Trauma therapist and advocate
    National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 1-800-273-8255 OR Dial or Text 988.
    Unraveling Adoption with Beth Syverson
    Adoptees Connect with Pamela Karanova

    Thank you to our Patreons! Join at the $10 level and be part of our monthly Zoom /ADOPTEE CAFE community. This is an adoptee-only space. We do appreciate all of our Patreons. The next meeting is November 9th @ 1pm ET


    Support the show

    To support the show - Patreon.

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    52 mins

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Thank you ❤️

This is AWESOME! As an adoptive mom of a young girl I am absolutely riveted to these ladies who are so brave to just put their adoption stories and others out there with humor and absolute honesty. Thank you for sharing. I literally want to have you two over for dinner!

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Love this podcast!

This podcast is so enjoyable to listen to on such an underserved topic. The hosts are funny and real and heartfelt. Looking forward to many more episodes on this topic that touches so many.

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Why are you promoting adoption propaganda?

Adoption's not a win-win, and you should know that by now, instead of regurgitating adoption propaganda.Sometimes you both sound like you're still in the "fog" ... or that you're being afraid of the opinions or reactions of your adoptive members that listen to your podcast.
Yes, you can be grateful and still acknowledge issues and trauma which are related to ypur adoption. But it's definitely not a win-win for adoptees and birth mothers ...

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Too many likes...

I had to give up listening. I found the word "like" used so often that I couldn't concentrate on the story.

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