You wouldn't think I struggled to be visible would you 😂

I want nothing more than to reach people, to connect to people on a massive scale, to feel like the energy and passion I have are fully expanded in the biggest, boldest and best possible way.

My conscious mind is on board. I do podcasts, Instagram and Facebook lives, speak in front of large audiences....and yet I knew there was something holding me back.

Because I know what I want. And I'm doing the things. It wasn't an algorithm problem, no baby no, it was coming from me. And I could feel it, because it wasn't just in business, it was in dating as well.

I have (had) an invisibility complex. A belief in the deep, dark corner of my mind that being visible wasn't safe. A belief that came from childhood and had attached a survival instinct to being hidden. And I didn't even know it was there.

It's like going against the current when you're fighting these old, deep-seated, protection-based programs. It was blocking me every step of the way. And in this episode, I talk about how I found it, acknowledged it, released it, and am currently working on healing it.

I know not wanting to be visible shows up in peoples lives in so many ways. It can make you not even want to speak to people. Or go on dates. Or put yourself out there. But if you have a goal that requires you to go out of your comfort zone, and you just can't muster the strength, this is a great episode for you.

Big love to my sponsor Origin Clothing Worldwide, and big love to you, my listeners. Don't forget to like, follow, subscribe or share if it resonates - I really appreciate it x

And BIG love to my dad, for being so cool about this episode, for all the growth, support and love, and for being a fine figure of a man.

ELC x

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