In episode 52, I welcome my wife, Shelley Baskin, to talk about how we handle finances in our marriage. We share our thoughts on joint versus separate finances, the importance of open communication, and how we balance our individual spending preferences. We also dive into managing our household finances while running a business and setting long-term financial goals. Shelley and I emphasize how crucial shared values and honest communication are in creating financial harmony.

Key Takeaways:

• Should all accounts be joint? When should accounts become joint?

• Who pays for what? And is there a right answer?

• Monthly financial check-ins.

• How common values can guide financial decision making.

• When do prenups actually make sense?

• When the kids grow up, how do we want them to see money?

Key Timestamps:

(00:00) – Welcome and Introduction

(00:56) – Joint vs. Separate Finances

(03:23) – Spending Priorities and Values

(10:17) – Monthly Financial Reviews

(12:04) – Business Finances and Household Impact

(14:10) – Early Financial Planning and Saving Strategies

(15:34) – Defining Financial Goals and Comfort

(19:40) – Views on Prenups

(21:40) – Teaching Kids About Money

(23:14) – Closing Thoughts and Resources

Key Topics Discussed:

BLUF Veteran Finance Podcast, Military Finance, Veteran Financial Planning, Military Money Management, VA Benefits, Military Retirement Planning, Financial Literacy for Soldiers, Military Budgeting Tips, Debt Management for Service Members, VA Loans, Military Investment Strategies, Saving for Deployment, Thrift Savings Plan (TSP), Transitioning to Civilian Life, Military Tax Benefits, Financial Independence for Veterans, Military Money Manual, The Military Money Show, marriage, common values, monthly financial check in

More of Baskin Financial Planning:

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Questions or comments, drop me a note at: erik@baskinfp.com

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