You Are Us
How to Build Bridges in a Polarized World
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
Prime members: New to Audible?Get 2 free audiobooks during trial.
You Are Us
Buy for $15.56
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Evan Gwyn
-
By:
-
Gareth Gwyn
About this listen
The Perils of Polarization and How Self-Liberation Transforms Leadership
Through candid accounts of stereotypically vilified individuals—a jihadist, gang member, and white supremacist—as well as additional interviews with people who have been equally cruel and those who have experienced profound victimization, we learn how rigorous inner work can shift even deeply polarized social issues for the better. Piercing the often unconscious and destructive patterns that arise from a legacy of abuse gives rise to a clear leadership methodology, one that heals individuals across racial, political, social, and cultural divides.
These stories of reckoning with trauma, pain, and socialized identity reveal how inner change can affect societal reconciliation; how it in fact directly transforms community, workplace culture, and society as a whole.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2023 Gareth Gwyn (P)2023 Greenleaf Book GroupListeners also enjoyed...
-
Gut
- The Inside Story of Our Body's Most Underrated Organ
- By: Giulia Enders
- Narrated by: Katy Sobey
- Length: 7 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 4,637
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 4,044
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 4,001
Our gut is almost as important to us as our brain, yet we know very little about how it works. Gut: The Inside Story is an entertaining, informative tour of the digestive system from the moment we raise a tasty morsel to our lips until the moment our body surrenders the remnants to the toilet bowl. No topic is too lowly for the author's wonder and admiration, from the careful choreography of breaking wind to the precise internal communication required for a cleansing vomit.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Doctors opinion
- By KevinMcVeigh on 03-02-17
By: Giulia Enders
-
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant
- A Guide to Wealth and Happiness
- By: Eric Jorgenson, Tim Ferriss
- Narrated by: Vikas Adam
- Length: 4 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,723
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,203
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,186
Naval Ravikant is an entrepreneur, philosopher, and investor who has captivated the world with his principles for building wealth and creating long-term happiness. The Almanack of Naval Ravikant is a collection of Naval’s wisdom and experience from the last 10 years, shared as a curation of his most insightful interviews and poignant reflections. This isn’t a how-to book, or a step-by-step gimmick. Instead, through Naval’s own words, you will learn how to walk your own unique path toward a happier, wealthier life.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Narrator sucks
- By Dagarcia718 on 03-25-21
By: Eric Jorgenson, and others
-
Together
- The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World
- By: Vivek H. Murthy
- Narrated by: Vivek H. Murthy
- Length: 10 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 883
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 748
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 743
Humans are social creatures: In this simple and obvious fact lies both the problem and the solution to the current crisis of loneliness. In his groundbreaking audiobook, the 19th surgeon general of the United States Dr. Vivek Murthy makes a case for loneliness as a public health concern: a root cause and contributor to many of the epidemics sweeping the world today from alcohol and drug addiction to violence to depression and anxiety.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Losing 7 Friends to Suicide, I’m Glad I Read This
- By Amit Bhuta on 05-04-20
By: Vivek H. Murthy
-
Anchored
- How to Befriend Your Nervous System Using Polyvagal Theory
- By: Deb Dana, Stephen Porges PhD - Foreword by
- Narrated by: Deb Dana
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 113
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 97
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 97
An intense conversation, a spat with a partner, or even an obnoxious tweet - these situations aren't life-or-death, yet we often react as if they are. That's because our bodies treat most perceived threats the same way. Yet one approach has proven to be incredibly effective in training our nervous system to stop overreacting: polyvagal theory. In Anchored, expert teacher Deb Dana shares a down-to-earth presentation of polyvagal theory, then brings the science to life with practical, everyday ways to transform your relationship with your body.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Know thyself.
- By Debora on 04-17-22
By: Deb Dana, and others
-
The Creative Act
- A Way of Being
- By: Rick Rubin
- Narrated by: Rick Rubin
- Length: 5 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3,730
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 3,115
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 3,099
Many famed music producers are known for a particular sound that has its day. Rick Rubin is known for something else: creating a space where artists of all different genres and traditions can home in on who they really are and what they really offer. He has made a practice of helping people transcend their self-imposed expectations in order to reconnect with a state of innocence from which the surprising becomes inevitable. Over the years, he has learned that being an artist isn’t about your specific output, it’s about your relationship to the world.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Rick is Art
- By Ira Henke on 01-17-23
By: Rick Rubin
-
Stolen Focus
- Why You Can't Pay Attention—and How to Think Deeply Again
- By: Johann Hari
- Narrated by: Johann Hari
- Length: 10 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,794
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,407
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,390
In the United States, teenagers can focus on one task for only sixty-five seconds at a time, and office workers average only three minutes. Like so many of us, Johann Hari was finding that constantly switching from device to device and tab to tab was a diminishing and depressing way to live. He tried all sorts of self-help solutions—even abandoning his phone for three months—but nothing seemed to work. So Hari went on an epic journey across the world to interview the leading experts on human attention—and he discovered that everything we think we know about this crisis is wrong.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Needs a little sharpening
- By LEE on 02-01-22
By: Johann Hari
-
Gut
- The Inside Story of Our Body's Most Underrated Organ
- By: Giulia Enders
- Narrated by: Katy Sobey
- Length: 7 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 4,637
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 4,044
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 4,001
Our gut is almost as important to us as our brain, yet we know very little about how it works. Gut: The Inside Story is an entertaining, informative tour of the digestive system from the moment we raise a tasty morsel to our lips until the moment our body surrenders the remnants to the toilet bowl. No topic is too lowly for the author's wonder and admiration, from the careful choreography of breaking wind to the precise internal communication required for a cleansing vomit.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Doctors opinion
- By KevinMcVeigh on 03-02-17
By: Giulia Enders
-
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant
- A Guide to Wealth and Happiness
- By: Eric Jorgenson, Tim Ferriss
- Narrated by: Vikas Adam
- Length: 4 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,723
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,203
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,186
Naval Ravikant is an entrepreneur, philosopher, and investor who has captivated the world with his principles for building wealth and creating long-term happiness. The Almanack of Naval Ravikant is a collection of Naval’s wisdom and experience from the last 10 years, shared as a curation of his most insightful interviews and poignant reflections. This isn’t a how-to book, or a step-by-step gimmick. Instead, through Naval’s own words, you will learn how to walk your own unique path toward a happier, wealthier life.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Narrator sucks
- By Dagarcia718 on 03-25-21
By: Eric Jorgenson, and others
-
Together
- The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World
- By: Vivek H. Murthy
- Narrated by: Vivek H. Murthy
- Length: 10 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 883
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 748
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 743
Humans are social creatures: In this simple and obvious fact lies both the problem and the solution to the current crisis of loneliness. In his groundbreaking audiobook, the 19th surgeon general of the United States Dr. Vivek Murthy makes a case for loneliness as a public health concern: a root cause and contributor to many of the epidemics sweeping the world today from alcohol and drug addiction to violence to depression and anxiety.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Losing 7 Friends to Suicide, I’m Glad I Read This
- By Amit Bhuta on 05-04-20
By: Vivek H. Murthy
-
Anchored
- How to Befriend Your Nervous System Using Polyvagal Theory
- By: Deb Dana, Stephen Porges PhD - Foreword by
- Narrated by: Deb Dana
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 113
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 97
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 97
An intense conversation, a spat with a partner, or even an obnoxious tweet - these situations aren't life-or-death, yet we often react as if they are. That's because our bodies treat most perceived threats the same way. Yet one approach has proven to be incredibly effective in training our nervous system to stop overreacting: polyvagal theory. In Anchored, expert teacher Deb Dana shares a down-to-earth presentation of polyvagal theory, then brings the science to life with practical, everyday ways to transform your relationship with your body.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Know thyself.
- By Debora on 04-17-22
By: Deb Dana, and others
-
The Creative Act
- A Way of Being
- By: Rick Rubin
- Narrated by: Rick Rubin
- Length: 5 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3,730
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 3,115
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 3,099
Many famed music producers are known for a particular sound that has its day. Rick Rubin is known for something else: creating a space where artists of all different genres and traditions can home in on who they really are and what they really offer. He has made a practice of helping people transcend their self-imposed expectations in order to reconnect with a state of innocence from which the surprising becomes inevitable. Over the years, he has learned that being an artist isn’t about your specific output, it’s about your relationship to the world.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Rick is Art
- By Ira Henke on 01-17-23
By: Rick Rubin
-
Stolen Focus
- Why You Can't Pay Attention—and How to Think Deeply Again
- By: Johann Hari
- Narrated by: Johann Hari
- Length: 10 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,794
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,407
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,390
In the United States, teenagers can focus on one task for only sixty-five seconds at a time, and office workers average only three minutes. Like so many of us, Johann Hari was finding that constantly switching from device to device and tab to tab was a diminishing and depressing way to live. He tried all sorts of self-help solutions—even abandoning his phone for three months—but nothing seemed to work. So Hari went on an epic journey across the world to interview the leading experts on human attention—and he discovered that everything we think we know about this crisis is wrong.
-
3 out of 5 stars
-
Needs a little sharpening
- By LEE on 02-01-22
By: Johann Hari
-
Rise to the Sun
- 7 Footsteps and 7 Prayers for Getting Out of Hell
- By: Richard J. Marks
- Narrated by: Richard J. Marks
- Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 17
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 16
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 16
Rise to the Sun: 7 Footsteps and 7 Prayers for Getting Out of Hell plays with travel and journey in two senses - forward on a physical road and into the heart of the self. This book on spiritual healing is a voyage to freedom set in the context of our times. A timely and necessary work, Rise to the Sun illustrates how humankind must seek to heal its own innate suffering before it can hope to succeed in healing the various external crises affecting our planet. The 7 Footsteps and 7 Prayers unlock a kinder, gentler, and long-lasting engine for transformation.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
A gentle and fine book about the Soul
- By Carol Stevenson on 01-06-21
By: Richard J. Marks
-
You Are Your Best Thing
- Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and the Black Experience
- By: Tarana Burke, Brené Brown
- Narrated by: Tarana Burke, Brené Brown, the Contributors, and others
- Length: 6 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,654
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 1,430
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 1,420
Tarana Burke and Dr. Brené Brown bring together a dynamic group of Black writers, organizers, artists, academics, and cultural figures to discuss the topics the two have dedicated their lives to understanding and teaching: vulnerability and shame resilience.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Listen up...
- By HeyJude on 04-29-21
By: Tarana Burke, and others
-
Braving the Wilderness
- The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone
- By: Brené Brown
- Narrated by: Brené Brown
- Length: 4 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 27,969
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 24,231
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 24,034
"True belonging doesn't require us to change who we are. It requires us to be who we are." Social scientist Brené Brown, PhD, LMSW, has sparked a global conversation about the experiences that bring meaning to our lives - experiences of courage, vulnerability, love, belonging, shame, and empathy. In Braving the Wilderness, Brown redefines what it means to truly belong in an age of increased polarization.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Actual Step-By-Step To Authenticity!
- By Gillian on 09-14-17
By: Brené Brown
-
The Will to Change
- Men, Masculinity, and Love
- By: bell hooks
- Narrated by: Janina Edwards
- Length: 6 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,479
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 1,241
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 1,236
Everyone needs to love and be loved - even men. But to know love, men must be able to look at the ways that patriarchal culture keeps them from knowing themselves, from being in touch with their feelings, from loving. In The Will to Change, bell hooks gets to the heart of the matter and shows men how to express the emotions that are a fundamental part of who they are - whatever their age, marital status, ethnicity, or sexual orientation.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
A unique call to an ethic of creative love
- By Amazon Customer on 09-26-20
By: bell hooks
-
A Radical Awakening
- Turn Pain into Power, Embrace Your Truth, Live Free
- By: Shefali Tsabary
- Narrated by: Shefali Tsabary
- Length: 15 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,130
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 966
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 960
A Radical Awakening lays out a path for women to heal their psychic wounds and prepares them to discover their own powers to help heal others and the planet. Dr. Shefali helps women uncover the purpose that already exists within them and harness the power of authenticity in every area of their lives. The result is an eloquent and inspiring, practical and accessible book, backed with real-life examples and personal stories, that unlocks the extraordinary power necessary to awaken the conscious self.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Idealistic views without tools
- By Just a Dad on 06-11-21
By: Shefali Tsabary
-
The Body Is Not an Apology, Second Edition
- The Power of Radical Self-Love
- By: Sonya Renee Taylor
- Narrated by: Sonya Renee Taylor
- Length: 5 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,352
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 1,165
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 1,156
Humans are a varied and divergent bunch with all manner of beliefs, morals, and bodies. Systems of oppression thrive off our inability to make peace with difference and injure the relationship we have with our own bodies. The Body Is Not an Apology offers radical self-love as the balm to heal the wounds inflicted by these violent systems. World-renowned activist and poet Sonya Renee Taylor invites us to reconnect with the radical origins of our minds and bodies and celebrate our collective, enduring strength.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
YES YES YES
- By Sarah vdw on 02-16-21
-
Radical Dharma
- Talking Race, Love, and Liberation
- By: Rev. angel Kyodo williams, Lama Rod Owens, Jasmine Syedullah Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Rev. angel Kyodo williams, Lama Rod Owens
- Length: 6 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 225
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 187
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 182
Igniting a long-overdue dialogue about how the legacy of racial injustice and white supremacy plays out in society at large and Buddhist communities in particular, this urgent call to action outlines a new dharma that takes into account the ways that racism and privilege prevent our collective awakening. In a society where profit rules, people's value is determined by the color of their skin, and many voices - including queer voices - are silenced, Radical Dharma recasts the concepts of engaged spirituality, social transformation, inclusiveness, and healing.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
WOW
- By Wendy Chan on 09-10-20
By: Rev. angel Kyodo williams, and others
-
Cassandra Speaks
- When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes
- By: Elizabeth Lesser
- Narrated by: Xe Sands
- Length: 6 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,123
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 959
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 951
Elizabeth Lesser believes that if women’s voices had been equally heard and respected throughout history, humankind would have followed different hero myths and guiding stories - stories that value caretaking, champion compassion, and elevate communication over vengeance and violence. Cassandra Speaks is about the stories we tell and how those stories become the culture. It’s about the stories we still blindly cling to, and the ones that cling to us: the origin tales, the guiding myths, the religious parables, the literature and films and fairy tales passed down....
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Wow
- By jamie gass on 11-12-20
By: Elizabeth Lesser
-
The Shadow Effect
- Illuminating the Hidden Power of Your True Self
- By: Marianne Williamson, Debbie Ford, Deepak Chopra MD
- Narrated by: Deepak Chopra, Marianne Williamson, Debbie Ford
- Length: 7 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 900
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 628
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 611
Deepak Chopra, Debbie Ford, and Marianne Williamson - New York Times best-selling authors and internationally acclaimed teachers - have joined together to share their knowledge on one of the most crucial obstacles to happiness we face: the shadow. These three luminaries, each with a signature approach, bring to light the parts of ourselves we deny but that still direct our life.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Personally Helpful
- By Roy on 05-30-10
By: Marianne Williamson, and others
-
The Politics of Trauma
- Somatics, Healing, and Social Justice
- By: Staci Haines, Ai-Jen Poo - foreword, Richard Strozzi-Heckler - afterword
- Narrated by: Julie Slater
- Length: 14 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 32
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 27
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 27
The Politics of Trauma offers somatics with a social analysis. This book is for therapists and social activists who understand that trauma healing is not just for individuals - and that social change is not just for movement builders. Just as health practitioners need to consider the societal factors underlying trauma, so too must activists understand the physical and mental impacts of trauma on their own lives and the lives of the communities with whom they organize. Trauma healing and social change are, at their best, interdependent.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Foundational reading for healing (y)our sh*t
- By wilson pipkin on 05-21-22
By: Staci Haines, and others
-
Do Better
- Spiritual Activism for Fighting and Healing from White Supremacy
- By: Rachel Ricketts
- Narrated by: Rachel Ricketts
- Length: 9 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 63
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 56
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 55
Do Better is a revolutionary offering that addresses racial justice from a comprehensive, intersectional, and spirit-based perspective. This actionable guidebook illustrates how to engage in the heart-centered and mindfulness-based practices that will help us all fight white supremacy from the inside out, in our personal lives and communities alike. It is a loving and assertive call to do the deep - and often uncomfortable - inner work that precipitates much-needed external and global change.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Not for the faint of heart, an absolute must read
- By Emily Rose on 02-26-21
By: Rachel Ricketts
-
Sisters of the Yam (2nd Edition)
- Black Women and Self-Recovery
- By: Bell Hooks
- Narrated by: Adenrele Ojo
- Length: 6 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 46
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 38
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 38
bell hooks reflects on the ways in which the emotional health of black women has been and continues to be impacted by sexism and racism. Desiring to create a context where black females could both work on their individual efforts for self-actualization while remaining connected to a larger world of collective struggle, hooks articulates the link between self-recovery and political resistance. Both an expression of the joy of self-healing and the need to be ever vigilant in the struggle for equality, Sisters of the Yam continues to speak to the experience of black womanhood.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
I Feel Seen
- By Fee on 06-30-23
By: Bell Hooks
Related to this topic
-
Fierce Self-Compassion
- How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive
- By: Kristin Neff
- Narrated by: Jean Ann Douglass
- Length: 12 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 305
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 258
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 257
Kristin Neff changed how we talk about self-care with her enormously popular first book, Self-Compassion. Now, 10 years and many studies later, she expands her body of work to explore a brand-new take on self-compassion. Although kindness and self-acceptance allow us to be with ourselves as we are, in all our glorious imperfection, the desire to alleviate suffering at the heart of this mindset isn't always gentle, sometimes it's fierce.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Liberal Activism distracting
- By Janiene on 07-26-21
By: Kristin Neff
-
A Radical Awakening
- Turn Pain into Power, Embrace Your Truth, Live Free
- By: Shefali Tsabary
- Narrated by: Shefali Tsabary
- Length: 15 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,130
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 966
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 960
A Radical Awakening lays out a path for women to heal their psychic wounds and prepares them to discover their own powers to help heal others and the planet. Dr. Shefali helps women uncover the purpose that already exists within them and harness the power of authenticity in every area of their lives. The result is an eloquent and inspiring, practical and accessible book, backed with real-life examples and personal stories, that unlocks the extraordinary power necessary to awaken the conscious self.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Idealistic views without tools
- By Just a Dad on 06-11-21
By: Shefali Tsabary
-
Men's Work
- A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom
- By: Connor Beaton
- Narrated by: Connor Beaton
- Length: 9 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 90
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 80
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 79
In Men’s Work, ManTalks founder Connor Beaton offers the tactical, self-led guide men have been looking for. Here, he destigmatizes inner work by reframing it as a kind of psychological warrior training that many men can relate to and have been craving. Beaton walks you through a framework for facing the hidden and rejected aspects of yourself—factors that lead to self-sabotage, anxiety, and depression.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
From a woman’s perspective
- By NBB on 03-21-23
By: Connor Beaton
-
On Our Best Behavior
- The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good
- By: Elise Loehnen
- Narrated by: Elise Loehnen
- Length: 11 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 246
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 231
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 230
We congratulate ourselves when we resist the donut in the office breakroom. We celebrate our restraint when we hold back from sending an email in anger. We feel virtuous when we wake up at dawn to get a jump on the day. We put others’ needs ahead of our own and believe this makes us exemplary. In On Our Best Behavior, journalist Elise Loehnen explains that these impulses—often lauded as unselfish, distinctly feminine instincts—are actually ingrained in us by a culture that reaps the benefits, via an extraordinarily effective collection of mores known as the Seven Deadly Sins.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Autobiography in Disguise
- By Lindsey on 06-11-23
By: Elise Loehnen
-
Why Good People Do Bad Things
- By: Debbie Ford
- Narrated by: Debbie Ford
- Length: 8 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 143
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 70
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 72
Why Good People Do Bad Things exposes the pervasive and often hidden impulses that influence our everyday decisions. The headlines are full of stories of good people gone astray. They show up on the evening news and are splashed across the weekly tabloids.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Examples but no help changing...
- By Rebecca on 12-13-11
By: Debbie Ford
-
The New Alpha Male
- Walking the Path of the Heart
- By: Lance Allred
- Narrated by: Lance Allred
- Length: 6 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 28
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 25
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 25
These days, we hear plenty about what’s wrong with men—like toxic masculinity, patriarchy, mansplaining, and male privilege. But how does a man get it right? “Men are being asked to adapt to our changing world, yet many still want to play by the old rules,” teaches Lance Allred. Now this former NBA star and leadership consultant presents a new game plan for evolving, growing, and succeeding in the modern era: The New Alpha Male.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Favorite book
- By Cover destroyed on 04-20-23
By: Lance Allred
-
Fierce Self-Compassion
- How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive
- By: Kristin Neff
- Narrated by: Jean Ann Douglass
- Length: 12 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 305
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 258
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 257
Kristin Neff changed how we talk about self-care with her enormously popular first book, Self-Compassion. Now, 10 years and many studies later, she expands her body of work to explore a brand-new take on self-compassion. Although kindness and self-acceptance allow us to be with ourselves as we are, in all our glorious imperfection, the desire to alleviate suffering at the heart of this mindset isn't always gentle, sometimes it's fierce.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Liberal Activism distracting
- By Janiene on 07-26-21
By: Kristin Neff
-
A Radical Awakening
- Turn Pain into Power, Embrace Your Truth, Live Free
- By: Shefali Tsabary
- Narrated by: Shefali Tsabary
- Length: 15 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,130
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 966
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 960
A Radical Awakening lays out a path for women to heal their psychic wounds and prepares them to discover their own powers to help heal others and the planet. Dr. Shefali helps women uncover the purpose that already exists within them and harness the power of authenticity in every area of their lives. The result is an eloquent and inspiring, practical and accessible book, backed with real-life examples and personal stories, that unlocks the extraordinary power necessary to awaken the conscious self.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Idealistic views without tools
- By Just a Dad on 06-11-21
By: Shefali Tsabary
-
Men's Work
- A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom
- By: Connor Beaton
- Narrated by: Connor Beaton
- Length: 9 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 90
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 80
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 79
In Men’s Work, ManTalks founder Connor Beaton offers the tactical, self-led guide men have been looking for. Here, he destigmatizes inner work by reframing it as a kind of psychological warrior training that many men can relate to and have been craving. Beaton walks you through a framework for facing the hidden and rejected aspects of yourself—factors that lead to self-sabotage, anxiety, and depression.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
From a woman’s perspective
- By NBB on 03-21-23
By: Connor Beaton
-
On Our Best Behavior
- The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good
- By: Elise Loehnen
- Narrated by: Elise Loehnen
- Length: 11 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 246
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 231
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 230
We congratulate ourselves when we resist the donut in the office breakroom. We celebrate our restraint when we hold back from sending an email in anger. We feel virtuous when we wake up at dawn to get a jump on the day. We put others’ needs ahead of our own and believe this makes us exemplary. In On Our Best Behavior, journalist Elise Loehnen explains that these impulses—often lauded as unselfish, distinctly feminine instincts—are actually ingrained in us by a culture that reaps the benefits, via an extraordinarily effective collection of mores known as the Seven Deadly Sins.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Autobiography in Disguise
- By Lindsey on 06-11-23
By: Elise Loehnen
-
Why Good People Do Bad Things
- By: Debbie Ford
- Narrated by: Debbie Ford
- Length: 8 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 143
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 70
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 72
Why Good People Do Bad Things exposes the pervasive and often hidden impulses that influence our everyday decisions. The headlines are full of stories of good people gone astray. They show up on the evening news and are splashed across the weekly tabloids.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Examples but no help changing...
- By Rebecca on 12-13-11
By: Debbie Ford
-
The New Alpha Male
- Walking the Path of the Heart
- By: Lance Allred
- Narrated by: Lance Allred
- Length: 6 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 28
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 25
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 25
These days, we hear plenty about what’s wrong with men—like toxic masculinity, patriarchy, mansplaining, and male privilege. But how does a man get it right? “Men are being asked to adapt to our changing world, yet many still want to play by the old rules,” teaches Lance Allred. Now this former NBA star and leadership consultant presents a new game plan for evolving, growing, and succeeding in the modern era: The New Alpha Male.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Favorite book
- By Cover destroyed on 04-20-23
By: Lance Allred
-
Trust Again
- By: Debi Silber PhD
- Narrated by: Debi Silber PhD
- Length: 7 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 39
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 36
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 36
During times of betrayal, when we most need support, sometimes the ones we would turn to first are the betrayers. Other times, we’re saddled with shame and fear. But it’s during these times that we need to learn to trust again. This book offers support, comfort, and community to those struggling with feelings associated with betrayal and guides them to healing from painful experiences of it. Listeners will learn about and move through five stages from betrayal to breakthrough and will be lovingly guided with tools and strategies along the way.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Life changing
- By KM on 07-27-22
By: Debi Silber PhD
-
You Are Not What You Think
- The Egoless Path to Self-Esteem and Generous Love
- By: David Richo
- Narrated by: Tom Pile
- Length: 8 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 52
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 45
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 46
You and your ego: how to develop a healthy sense of self without becoming an egotist - and how to see through that sense of self for the happiness of yourself and others. How can you build the healthy ego necessary to be effective in life - yet avoid the kind of egotism that makes people dislike you? Don't worry; Dave Richo has the answers. His new book shows you how to navigate the tricky waters between egotism and selflessness in a way that avoids both extremes and makes you much more effective and loving.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Extraordinarily Revealing
- By Steve D. on 12-16-21
By: David Richo
-
How to Be an Adult in Relationships
- The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
- By: David Richo
- Narrated by: David Richo
- Length: 9 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 732
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 606
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 603
"Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present." In this audiobook, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships - one that focuses not on finding an ideal mate, but on becoming a more loving and realistic person. Drawing on the Buddhist concept of mindfulness, How to Be an Adult in Relationships explores five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in our relationships throughout life.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Missing text
- By Annah Nimouse on 07-26-19
By: David Richo
-
Book of Forgiving
- The Fourfold Path for Healing Ourselves and Our World
- By: Desmond Tutu, Mpho Tutu
- Narrated by: Mpho Tutu, Hakeem Kae Kazim
- Length: 6 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,108
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 960
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 954
How do I forgive? Nobel laureate Archbishop Desmond Tutu has witnessed some of the worst crimes people can inflict on others. So wherever he goes, he inevitably gets asked this question. This audiobook is his answer. Writing with his daughter, Mpho, an Anglican priest, they lay out the simple but profound truths about the significance of forgiveness, how it works, why everyone needs to know how to grant it and receive it, and why granting forgiveness is the greatest gift we can give to ourselves when we have been wronged.
-
2 out of 5 stars
-
Some good points but ultimately shallow
- By Christopher Barghout on 11-17-20
By: Desmond Tutu, and others
-
Everyday Ubuntu
- Living Better Together, the African Way
- By: Mungi Ngomane
- Narrated by: Nontombi Naomi Tutu
- Length: 6 hrs
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 62
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 54
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 53
Ubuntu is a Xhosa word originating from a South African philosophy that encapsulates all our aspirations about how to live life well, together. It is the belief in a universal human bond: I am only because you are. And it means that if you are able to see everyone as fully human, connected to you by their humanity, you will never be able to treat others as disposable or without worth. By embracing the philosophy of ubuntu and living it out in daily life it’s possible to overcome division and be stronger together in a world where the wise build bridges, not walls.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Inspiring
- By Jack on 02-22-23
By: Mungi Ngomane
-
Sacred Contracts
- Awakening Your Divine Potential
- By: Caroline Myss
- Narrated by: Caroline Myss
- Length: 5 hrs and 59 mins
- Original Recording
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,934
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,488
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,468
Would you like to discover your sacred purpose in life? With a unique system that utilizes 12 central archetypes and a symbolic Wheel of Life, Caroline Myss helps you follow your personal life path to its highest point.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Soul Agreements
- By Skyy Storm on 08-27-03
By: Caroline Myss
-
Living Between Worlds
- Finding Personal Resilience in Changing Times
- By: James Hollis PhD
- Narrated by: Michael Cover
- Length: 6 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 77
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 64
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 64
What guides us when our world is changing? Discover the path to deeper meaning and purpose through depth psychology and classical thought.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
Interesting book, Woeful narration
- By Roger Morris on 07-01-20
By: James Hollis PhD
-
Controlling People
- How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You
- By: Patricia Evans
- Narrated by: Xe Sands
- Length: 6 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 350
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 293
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 284
In Controlling People, best-selling author Patricia Evans tackles the "controlling personality" and reveals how and why these people try to run other people's lives. She also explains the compulsion that makes them continue this behavior - even as they alienate others and often lose those they love. Should you ever find yourself in the thrall of someone close to you, Controlling People is here to give you the wisdom, power, and comfort you need to be a stronger, happier, and more independent person.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
EXTRAORDINARY
- By Rob on 02-27-14
By: Patricia Evans
-
Life, I Swear
- Intimate Stories from Black Women on Identity, Healing, and Self-Trust
- By: Chloe Dulce Louvouezo
- Narrated by: Joniece Abbott-Pratt
- Length: 5 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 29
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 25
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 25
In this stunningly illustrated essay collection inspired by the popular podcast Life, I Swear, prominent Black women reflect on self-love and healing, sharing stories of the trials and tribulations they’ve faced and what has helped them confront pain, heal wounds, and find connection.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
This felt like home
- By nm on 11-16-21
-
A Fierce Heart
- Finding Strength, Courage, and Wisdom in Any Moment
- By: Spring Washam
- Narrated by: Spring Washam
- Length: 6 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 50
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 45
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 45
Spring Washam is a founder of the East Bay Meditation Center, the most diverse and accessible meditation center in the United States. In A Fierce Heart, she shares her contemporary, unique interpretation of the Buddha's 2,500-year-old teachings that get to the heart of mindfulness, wisdom, and compassion. Woven throughout the book are stories from her life, family, and community, along with soulful and unexpected stories of compassion in action from all over the world.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
inspirational
- By Aaron M. Fabun on 01-31-21
By: Spring Washam
-
Highly Intuitive People
- 7 Right-Brain Traits to Change the Lives of Intuitive-Sensitive People
- By: Heidi Sawyer
- Narrated by: Heidi Sawyer
- Length: 6 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 42
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 33
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 33
Do you struggle with small talk and prefer deep conversation? Are you extremely sensitive to other people's moods? Are you exhausted after being in busy places? If you've answered "yes" to any of the above questions, you may be a Highly Intuitive Person: someone who is especially sensitive to the energy of others. Highly Intuitive People, also known as Intuitive-Sensitives, are a refined group of sensitive people who are said to make up 15-20 per cent of the population.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Wow!
- By Raubo on 07-01-22
By: Heidi Sawyer
-
Freedom Is an Inside Job
- Owning Our Darkness and Our Light to Heal Ourselves and the World
- By: Zainab Salbi
- Narrated by: Zainab Salbi
- Length: 7 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 32
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 29
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 29
By all appearances, Zainab Salbi has had an impressive life. Growing up as the daughter of Saddam Hussein’s personal pilot, she eventually became a celebrated humanitarian and activist. Yet, as she was helping thousands of women in war-torn countries, Salbi’s personal life was coming to a crisis. In Freedom Is an Inside Job, Salbi explores her own riveting journey to wholeness - and how embarking on such a journey enables each of us to create the world we want to live in. After years of working as a successful CEO and change-maker, Salbi realized that if she wanted to confront and heal the shadows of the world, she needed to face her own shadows first.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Transformative
- By DREA on 11-03-18
By: Zainab Salbi
What listeners say about You Are Us
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- lia barrett
- 03-02-23
A Must Read for Those Looking for Inner Peace
Gareth Gwyn presents a beautifully crafted read supported by enthralling real life stories of grief, reckoning and enlightenment that encourage the audience to explore their own past in order to heal and resolve their own trauma. Gwyn explores the roles of victim and oppressor, and shows us how we can step outside each role in order to meet at a mutual crossroads of love, respect and forgiveness.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Amazon Customer
- 02-02-23
Excellent read
A wealth of food for reflection, personal work, and transformation. The stories are captivating, and represent the author’s thesis beautifully. Thoroughly enjoyed the reading voice, pace, and intonations. Well done!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!