Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children
Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents
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Narrated by:
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Margaret Strom
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By:
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Allison Bottke
About this listen
Writing from firsthand experience, Allison Bottke identifies the lies that kept her, and ultimately her son, in bondage - and how she overcame them. Additional real-life stories from other parents appear throughout the audio.
A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y. - a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.
S = STOP enabling, STOP blaming yourself, and STOP the flow of money
A = Assemble a support group
N = Nip excuses in the bud
I = Implement rules/boundaries
T = Trust your instincts
Y = Yield everything to God
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- By Jeff on 03-15-18
By: Dr. Robert Hemfelt, and others
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Inner Voice
- Unlock Your Purpose and Passion
- By: Russ Whitney
- Narrated by: Victor Bevine
- Length: 4 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 39
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 33
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 32
Inner Voice: Unlock Your Purpose and Passion tells the story of how one man's struggle to find the true meaning of life evolved into a worldwide movement known as Inner Voice. Internationally recognized businessman, financial expert, and real-estate icon Russ Whitney spent five years and 20,000 hours researching and developing this program. It is built on simple yet powerful principles and strategies that guide listeners to identify their purpose.
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5 out of 5 stars
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How to manual on how to become a better person.
- By Brian Agresti on 01-29-20
By: Russ Whitney
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The Emotionally Destructive Relationship
- Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It
- By: Leslie Vernick
- Narrated by: Leslie Vernick
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 46
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 32
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Story5 out of 5 stars 32
Leslie Vernick, counselor and social worker, has witnessed the devastating effects of emotional abuse. Many, including many in the church, have not addressed this form of destruction in families and relationships because it is difficult to talk about. With godly guidance and practical experience, Vernick offers an empathetic approach to recognizing an emotionally destructive relationship and addresses the symptoms and the damage with biblical tools.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Thank you
- By Anonymous User on 08-27-24
By: Leslie Vernick
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The DNA of Relationships
- By: Dr. Gary Smalley
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 288
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 222
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 220
We are designed for relationships, yet they often bring us pain. In this paradigm-shifting book, Gary Smalley unravels the DNA of relationships: we are made for three great relationships, with God, others, and ourselves, and all relationships involve choice. Gary exposes a destructive relationship dance that characterizes nearly every relationship conflict, and he offers five new dance steps that will revolutionize relationships.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Could be half as long
- By Christine on 01-06-08
By: Dr. Gary Smalley
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The New Codependency
- Help and Guidance for Today's Generation
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Lorna Raver
- Length: 10 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 645
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 510
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 508
In Codependent No More, Melody Beattie introduced the world to the term codependency. In The New Codependency, she clears up misconceptions, identifies how codependent behavior has changed, and provides a new generation with a road map to wellness.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Please offer with different narrator
- By Janie on 11-12-09
By: Melody Beattie
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Codependent No More
- How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Melody Beattie
- Length: 8 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,054
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 918
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 915
Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved one’s self-destructive behavior, you may be codependent—and you may find yourself in this book. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattie’s own life and the lives of those she’s counseled, Codependent No More helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries, and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness.
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2 out of 5 stars
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great book with unbearable reader
- By Nielah on 09-01-22
By: Melody Beattie
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Loving People
- How to Love and Be Loved
- By: John Townsend
- Narrated by: Matthew Josdal
- Length: 7 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 75
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 67
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Story5 out of 5 stars 67
Best-selling author Dr. John Townsend teaches you that love can actually be learned and gives you the steps and tools to become skilled in love. Using his trademark stories to flesh out the important principles, Dr. Townsend covers receiving love, connecting love, healing love, confronting love, romantic love, and surrendering love. Through his teaching, listeners will discover - and start enjoying - the words, actions, and experiences of authentic love.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very insightful
- By Amazon Customer on 05-17-19
By: John Townsend
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Enemies of the Heart
- Breaking Free from the Four Emotions That Control You
- By: Andy Stanley
- Narrated by: Lloyd James
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 807
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 676
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 670
In this compelling and helpful book pastor and author Andy Stanley wrestles with what he calls"four invaders of the heart": guilt, anger, greed, and jealousy. One or another of these caustic emotions sabotages lives on a daily basis and destroys relationships. But Stanley assures listeners that there is hope. In his trademark style - smart, engaging, and popular - he examines where these powerful forces come from and reveals effective strategies for overcoming them.
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5 out of 5 stars
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ARE YOU UP FOR A CHALLENGE?
- By Keron on 12-19-11
By: Andy Stanley
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The Emotionally Destructive Marriage
- How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope
- By: Leslie Vernick
- Narrated by: Leslie Vernick
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 821
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 701
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Story5 out of 5 stars 695
You can't put it into words, but something is happening to you. Your stomach churns, your heart aches, and the tension in your marriage is making you feel weary and a little crazy. The constant criticism, disrespect, cruelty, deceit, and gross indifference are eroding your confidence and breaking your spirit. For any woman caught in an emotionally destructive marriage, Leslie Vernick offers a personalized path forward.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I wish this book had been written 10 years ago
- By D. C. Williams on 09-08-14
By: Leslie Vernick
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The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself
- How Loving Yourself the Way God Does Can Bring Healing and Freedom to Your Life
- By: Jerry Basel, Denise Basel
- Narrated by: Jerry Basel, Denise Basel
- Length: 6 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 55
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 49
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 49
What keeps you from loving someone God loves so much? How might your life change if you really believed God loves you - not just in your head but down where it counts, in your heart? Imagine how different things could be: The lies you've believed about yourself all these years dispelled. The wounds of abuse healed. Your future lit with hope, peace, and purpose. Your closeness with God and others deepened immeasurably.
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5 out of 5 stars
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So Grateful I Found This Book!
- By Valerie on 06-28-16
By: Jerry Basel, and others
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Changes That Heal
- Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You
- By: Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: Dick Fredricks
- Length: 10 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,068
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 875
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 864
Many of us struggle with anxiety, loneliness, and feelings of inadequacy. We know that God created us in his image, but how can we be loving when we feel burned out? How can we be free when we struggle with addiction? Will we ever enjoy the complete healing God promises? Combining his professional expertise and personal experience, renowned psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud guides us through four basic ways to become joy-filled, mature followers of Christ.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Terrible production, excellent book
- By R. Carlson on 10-05-08
By: Henry Cloud
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Boundaries with Kids
- How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children
- By: Henry Cloud, John Townsend
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 476
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 394
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Story5 out of 5 stars 392
What the award-winning, best-selling Boundaries has done for adult relationships, Boundaries with Kids will do for you and your children. Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend provide the help and guidance you need for raising your kids to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions. With wisdom and empathy, they take you through the ins and outs of instilling the kind of character in your children that will help them lead balanced, productive, and fulfilling adult lives.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Not what I would recommend as a therapist who works primarily with children
- By Amanda on 02-12-21
By: Henry Cloud, and others
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Gratitude and Trust
- Six Affirmations That Will Change Your Life
- By: Paul Williams, Tracey Jackson
- Narrated by: Paul Williams, Tracey Jackson
- Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 124
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 104
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 104
Paul Williams is an alcoholic. Tracey Jackson is not. But together, these two close friends have written Gratitude and Trust, a book designed to apply the principles of the recovery movement to the countless people who are not addicts but nevertheless need effective help with their difficulties and pain. Williams, the award-winning songwriter, actor, and performer, has embraced a traditional alcoholism recovery plan for more than two decades of sobriety.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Just what I needed!
- By Cheryl on 02-18-15
By: Paul Williams, and others
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One More Try
- What to Do When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Jon Gauger
- Length: 3 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 833
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 707
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 699
Is your marriage worth fighting for? If so, this audiobook is for you. It takes a tremendous amount of strength to overcome skepticism and weariness, and begin the work of healing a broken marriage. But just taking a look at this audiobook shows you have the heart of a fighter. In One More Try, Gary Chapman gives you the courage and confidence to move forward when your marriage is falling apart.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Save Your Marriage Positive Read
- By Priscilla on 07-23-15
By: Gary Chapman
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Gospel-Centered Mom
- The Freeing Truth About What Your Kids Really Need
- By: Brooke McGlothlin
- Narrated by: Erin Spencer
- Length: 5 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 37
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 31
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Story5 out of 5 stars 32
It's time to stop trying to be the perfect mom. You long to be the mom your kids need, but often you're convinced you come up short. The label "not enough" seems to be stamped across everything you do - and yet parenting is the one thing you want most to get right. What if the solution is simply to embrace the truth that you are not enough - but God is?
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5 out of 5 stars
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Wowww!
- By Gayle J Silagyi on 06-24-18
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Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
- It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature
- By: Peter Scazzero
- Narrated by: Peter Scazzero
- Length: 6 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 555
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 475
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Story5 out of 5 stars 471
In this revised best-selling book, Peter Scazzero outlines a road map for discipleship with Jesus that is powerfully transformative. He unveils what's wrong with our current definition of "spiritual growth" and offers not only a model of spirituality that actually works, but seven steps to change that will help you experience authentic faith and hunger for God.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very thoughtful book
- By Anonymous User on 01-28-22
By: Peter Scazzero
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Let Go of the Guilt
- Stop Beating Yourself Up and Take Back Your Joy
- By: Valorie Burton
- Narrated by: Valorie Burton
- Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 74
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 61
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Story5 out of 5 stars 59
Even women who feel fulfilled often struggle to meet the demands of modern life. Both working and stay-at-home moms agree that the expectations of women have risen dramatically in recent decades. As a result, many women overcompensate and over-apologize while the guilt dampens the joy of motherhood, relationships, and professional accomplishments. Let Go of the Guilt helps you peel back the layers of emotional, cultural, and spiritual expectations that make it difficult to navigate your multiple roles, dreams, and daily demands on your life.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Not meant for non-religious people
- By Anna Amuse on 09-20-21
By: Valorie Burton
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Helped to bring clarity and direction
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3 out of 5 stars
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Some good points but...
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Take your life back and let healing begin
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Insightful
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- By: Jean Lash
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 40 mins
- Unabridged
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A 43 page book written to encourage the estranged parent. The Bible speaks at length of two kinds of estrangement. Two different paths that got there, and two different paths to get out. Both David and the Prodigal Father faced estrangement from their adult child. Support, advice, and encouragement "in the waiting". Written by an estranged mother.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Compassion, understanding, non judge mental, heart felt
- By Marie on 06-17-24
By: Jean Lash
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You and Your Adult Child
- How to Grow Together in Challenging Times
- By: Laurence Steinberg
- Narrated by: Laurence Steinberg
- Length: 7 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 12
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Your child is now an adult, but your job as a parent is far from over. Instead, your role must evolve to meet their ongoing, changing needs. But what exactly are these new needs? And why are they so different now than they were when you were a young adult? This is the first comprehensive guide written for parents whose children are in two of the most crucial decades of life.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A must-read book
- By Anonymous User on 04-23-23
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Smart but Scattered - and Stalled
- 10 Steps to Help Young Adults Use Their Executive Skills to Set Goals, Make a Plan, and Successfully Leave the Nest
- By: Richard Guare PhD, Colin Guare, Peg Dawson EdD
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 10 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 8
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Whether you're a young adult who is stalled on the journey to independence or a concerned parent still sharing the family nest, this compassionate book is for you. Providing a fresh perspective on the causes of failure to launch, the expert authors present a 10-step plan that helps grown kids and parents work together to achieve liftoff.
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1 out of 5 stars
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PDF is unuseable. Cannot print it out.
- By Wynelle on 10-31-21
By: Richard Guare PhD, and others
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Healing From Family Rifts
- Ten Steps to Finding Peace After Being Cut Off From a Family Member
- By: Mark Sichel
- Narrated by: Paul Brion
- Length: 8 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 59
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 54
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A family rift is one of the most traumatic experiences a person can face. It can have a profound effect on virtually every aspect of life, causing depression, relationship problems, and even physical illness. Healing From Family Rifts offers hope to those coping with a split in their families. Family therapist Mark Sichel addresses the pain and shame connected with family rifts and offers a way through the crisis and on toward healing. Uniquely, Sichel does not assume that every rift will or even should be mended. Instead, he offers ways to recover from any outcome.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Excellent in every way
- By Mary on 11-07-21
By: Mark Sichel
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When Your Adult Child Breaks Your Heart
- Coping with Mental Illness, Substance Abuse, and the Problems that Tear Families Apart
- By: Joel Young MD, Christine Adamec
- Narrated by: Rich Miller
- Length: 8 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 32
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Behind nearly every adult who is accused of a crime, becomes addicted to drugs or alcohol, or who is severely mentally ill and acting out in public, there is usually at least one extremely stressed-out parent. This parent may initially react with the bad news of their adult child behaving badly with, "Oh no!" followed by, "How can I help to fix this?" A very common third reaction is the thought, "Where did I go wrong - was it something I said or did, or that I failed to do when my child was growing up that caused these issues? Is this really somehow all my fault?"
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5 out of 5 stars
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Glad I stumbled upon this…
- By Pamela J Hoyes on 10-03-23
By: Joel Young MD, and others
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Surviving Parental Alienation
- A Journey of Hope and Healing
- By: Amy J.L. Baker PhD, Paul R. Fine LCSW
- Narrated by: Madeleine Dauer
- Length: 6 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 103
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Half of all marriages end. Unfortunately, about 20% of divorces are high-conflict, involving frequent visits to court, allegations of abuse, and chronic disagreements regarding parenting schedules. In response to this conflict, some children become aligned with one parent against the other - even a parent who has done nothing to warrant the hostile rejection of their formerly loving children. These parents are on a painful journey with an uncertain outcome. Surviving Parental Alienation fills the tremendous need for concrete help for these parents.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Accurate, Authentic: what PA looks like & how it feels to Kids and Targets.
- By Sia on 01-25-20
By: Amy J.L. Baker PhD, and others
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- leslie
- 02-06-23
Life changing!
Such and important read for ALL parents! It’s bee so valuable to us. Thank you!
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listened to this book over and over especially on hard days thanks definitely helped me find my joy again
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- lasouthernbelle
- 11-08-19
HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS BOOK!!
I bought this audible book and loved it so much that I bought the paperback book. It made me think and see things differently,
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- Cecilia Barther
- 03-13-19
Just the book I needed!
Yes, it is a bit religious, but so is AA. When you are down, helpless and in need of help you'll take any help out there. Hence, you turn to God. If you don't believe in God, then don't read this book.
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- Angela Wysinger
- 05-06-20
Instantly Life Changing
I absolutely loved this book. It was as if I was drinking the "water of life"! I am currently in the midst of similar situations with all three of my sons and now I have some direction. It feels good to know you're not alone and to get good sound and godly advice. This book, besides the Bible, is the best book ever written, in my opinion. The narrator was AWESOME and made and made notable inferences where needed. Amazing to listen to and I am preparing to listen again, making notes this time. I will be sharing with my friends and family. May God bless the author.
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- Monique Randolph
- 01-10-21
Chapter 15!!
I gained a lot of knowledge from this book. This book is necessary!!! It helped.
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- mleinaz
- 12-20-16
Incredible book that's right on
This book was incredibly accurate on what we as parents need to do at what ever point we are in with our adult children. So many of us have enabled our kids thinking we were helping them make it through life easier. In actuality, we stopped them from becoming responsible thought giving adults. It's very difficult to change what we have known for 20+ years. But we must. We deserve to be happy and free.
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- Jerry Pearson
- 07-16-19
solid Christian perspective
excellent first read and when trying to get a handle and on boundary issues with an adult child. would recommend. allows me to understand that other people are struggling with the issues similar to those that I am struggling.
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- Janet
- 07-06-24
Like the author knew my situation! Highly recommend!
Loved everything about this book! I will immediately listen to it again and again. Thank you for writing this book!
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- D House
- 04-03-17
A book that truly helps!
If you have an adult child that is out of control, you must read this book! Thank you, Allison, for writing this for all us "enabling parents"!
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