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Dick Fredricks
About this listen
Safe People will help you discover why good people can get tangled in bad relationships, how to avoid repeating your own mistakes, and how to pick safe, healthy people for the friends you make and the company you keep.
Too many of us have invested in relationships that have gone wrong. Maybe you've been judged, manipulated, or controlled. Or maybe you've trusted the wrong people in the past. It's easy to make the same mistakes of judgment over and over - or, worse, to give up on trying to have great, authentic relationships again. But it doesn't have to be that way.
In Safe People, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend teach you that being with an unsafe person can be damaging to your confidence, your trust in others, and even your health. You'll learn that you have the power to surround yourself with accepting, honest, and safe people who draw you closer to being the person God intended you to be.
Drs. Cloud and Townsend, authors of the New York Times best seller Boundaries, are here to share the lessons they've learned in their years of practicing psychology and studying the patterns and practices that support clear, biblical boundaries. In Safe People, they offer guidance for making safe choices in all of your day-to-day relationships, from family and friends to colleagues and partners.
Safe People will give you the tools you need to recognize what makes people relationally safe, form positive relationships, and even become a safe person along the way. Drs. Cloud and Townsend share expert insights that will help you ask important questions:
- How can I learn to pick better friends?
- Why do I choose people who let me down?
- How did I end up with this critical boss?
- How do I attract irresponsible people?
- Why did I invest money with that unscrupulous person?
- What is it about me that draws the wrong types of people to me?
- Why am I drawn to the wrong types of people?
It's time to revitalize your connections and finally start enjoying the healthy, balanced relationships that you deserve.
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When you really care about someone, it’s easy to get stuck in painful, even destructive patterns - caving in to a spouse’s manipulation, ignoring a live-at-home son’s irresponsibility, not confronting a friend’s addiction. We excuse people again and again, and then kick ourselves for not setting better boundaries. But this important audiobook, with its transformational tools from leading Christian counselor Tim Clinton and noted author Pat Springle, will guide you in not only breaking through to better relationships but making big changes for the better.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Worth the read
- By Jessie on 12-29-19
By: Tim Clinton, and others
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Loving People
- How to Love and Be Loved
- By: John Townsend
- Narrated by: Matthew Josdal
- Length: 7 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 75
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 67
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Story5 out of 5 stars 67
Best-selling author Dr. John Townsend teaches you that love can actually be learned and gives you the steps and tools to become skilled in love. Using his trademark stories to flesh out the important principles, Dr. Townsend covers receiving love, connecting love, healing love, confronting love, romantic love, and surrendering love. Through his teaching, listeners will discover - and start enjoying - the words, actions, and experiences of authentic love.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very insightful
- By Amazon Customer on 05-17-19
By: John Townsend
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The Emotionally Destructive Relationship
- Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It
- By: Leslie Vernick
- Narrated by: Leslie Vernick
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 46
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 32
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Story5 out of 5 stars 32
Leslie Vernick, counselor and social worker, has witnessed the devastating effects of emotional abuse. Many, including many in the church, have not addressed this form of destruction in families and relationships because it is difficult to talk about. With godly guidance and practical experience, Vernick offers an empathetic approach to recognizing an emotionally destructive relationship and addresses the symptoms and the damage with biblical tools.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Thank you
- By Anonymous User on 08-27-24
By: Leslie Vernick
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The Emotionally Destructive Marriage
- How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope
- By: Leslie Vernick
- Narrated by: Leslie Vernick
- Length: 6 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 821
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 701
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Story5 out of 5 stars 695
You can't put it into words, but something is happening to you. Your stomach churns, your heart aches, and the tension in your marriage is making you feel weary and a little crazy. The constant criticism, disrespect, cruelty, deceit, and gross indifference are eroding your confidence and breaking your spirit. For any woman caught in an emotionally destructive marriage, Leslie Vernick offers a personalized path forward.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I wish this book had been written 10 years ago
- By D. C. Williams on 09-08-14
By: Leslie Vernick
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Loving Him Well
- Practical Advice on Influencing Your Husband
- By: Gary Thomas, Lisa Thomas - foreword
- Narrated by: Gary Thomas
- Length: 8 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 742
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 620
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Story5 out of 5 stars 615
Women: you're not alone in your marriage. You never have been, and you never will be. While it may not always feel like it, God desires for you to have a relationally healthy, emotionally engaged, and spiritually mature husband with whom you can share your days. In Loving Him Well, Gary Thomas builds on concepts from his best-selling book Sacred Marriage to reveal the inner workings of a man's heart and mind. He delves into Scriptures that help women gain biblical insight to influence their husbands.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A must read for any wife!
- By James on 04-03-18
By: Gary Thomas, and others
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One More Try
- What to Do When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Jon Gauger
- Length: 3 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 835
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 709
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 701
Is your marriage worth fighting for? If so, this audiobook is for you. It takes a tremendous amount of strength to overcome skepticism and weariness, and begin the work of healing a broken marriage. But just taking a look at this audiobook shows you have the heart of a fighter. In One More Try, Gary Chapman gives you the courage and confidence to move forward when your marriage is falling apart.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Save Your Marriage Positive Read
- By Priscilla on 07-23-15
By: Gary Chapman
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The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself
- How Loving Yourself the Way God Does Can Bring Healing and Freedom to Your Life
- By: Jerry Basel, Denise Basel
- Narrated by: Jerry Basel, Denise Basel
- Length: 6 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 55
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 49
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 49
What keeps you from loving someone God loves so much? How might your life change if you really believed God loves you - not just in your head but down where it counts, in your heart? Imagine how different things could be: The lies you've believed about yourself all these years dispelled. The wounds of abuse healed. Your future lit with hope, peace, and purpose. Your closeness with God and others deepened immeasurably.
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5 out of 5 stars
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So Grateful I Found This Book!
- By Valerie on 06-28-16
By: Jerry Basel, and others
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Boundaries with Kids
- How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children
- By: Henry Cloud, John Townsend
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 479
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 396
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Story5 out of 5 stars 394
What the award-winning, best-selling Boundaries has done for adult relationships, Boundaries with Kids will do for you and your children. Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend provide the help and guidance you need for raising your kids to take responsibility for their actions, attitudes, and emotions. With wisdom and empathy, they take you through the ins and outs of instilling the kind of character in your children that will help them lead balanced, productive, and fulfilling adult lives.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Not what I would recommend as a therapist who works primarily with children
- By Amanda on 02-12-21
By: Henry Cloud, and others
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The DNA of Relationships
- By: Dr. Gary Smalley
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 288
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 222
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 220
We are designed for relationships, yet they often bring us pain. In this paradigm-shifting book, Gary Smalley unravels the DNA of relationships: we are made for three great relationships, with God, others, and ourselves, and all relationships involve choice. Gary exposes a destructive relationship dance that characterizes nearly every relationship conflict, and he offers five new dance steps that will revolutionize relationships.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Could be half as long
- By Christine on 01-06-08
By: Dr. Gary Smalley
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Forgiving What You'll Never Forget
- By: David Stoop
- Narrated by: Tom Hatting
- Length: 3 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 74
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 61
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 61
Forgiveness is an essential part of being a Christian, but that doesn't make it easy. What do we do when confronted with the unforgivable - an act that shakes our moral foundations to their roots, often committed by someone trusted and loved? Murder, sexual abuse, adultery - all leave lifelong wounds. Thankfully, they are all trespasses that, through the grace of God, can be forgiven.
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5 out of 5 stars
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So grateful to have come upon this book
- By Tina on 05-19-18
By: David Stoop
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How to Be a Best Friend Forever
- Making and Keeping Lifetime Relationships
- By: Dr. John Townsend
- Narrated by: Dr. John Townsend
- Length: 2 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 105
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 84
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Story4 out of 5 stars 83
Our world has diluted the meaning of friendship, but the reality is, there’s nothing like the sustaining strength of true-blue, forever friends. Still, many people are convinced that they’ll never find such lifelong connections—or that they don’t need them. In this encouraging audio book, best-selling author and psychologist John Townsend delivers hope and help for making these relationships a reality—and for making them even better if you’ve already got a “bestie.”
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2 out of 5 stars
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This is a Christian based book.
- By lisak227 on 11-17-14
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Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,463
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,234
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,229
When you said, “I do”, you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended for it to be miserable. Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. But the story doesn’t have to end there. Dr. Gary Chapman writes, “I believe that in every troubled marriage, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their marriage.”
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5 out of 5 stars
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encouragement through another chance
- By Brookley on 09-19-18
By: Gary Chapman
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Love Is a Choice
- The Definitive Book on Letting Go of Unhealthy Relationships
- By: Dr. Robert Hemfelt, Dr. Frank Minirth, Dr. Paul Meier
- Narrated by: Christopher Solimene
- Length: 11 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 125
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 105
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 100
In Love Is a Choice, best-selling doctors Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier walk you through their 10 proven stages to recovery from codependency that results from external circumstances. Humans are susceptible to codependency because of our sinful tendency to use defense mechanisms to fool ourselves. In codependent relationships, deceitful games are played, and important Christian principles are often taken out of context and abused.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Great book, horrible Performance
- By Jeff on 03-15-18
By: Dr. Robert Hemfelt, and others
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How Can I Forgive You?
- The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To
- By: Janis A. Spring, Michael Spring
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 7 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 95
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 80
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 80
Until now, we have been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Spring, a gifted therapist and the award-winning author of After the Affair, proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives - without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for genuine forgiveness - one that asks as much of the offender as it does of us.
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3 out of 5 stars
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I'm a Christian
- By jelady on 06-14-19
By: Janis A. Spring, and others
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No Perfect People Allowed
- By: John Burke
- Narrated by: Tom Casaletto
- Length: 12 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 49
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 35
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Story5 out of 5 stars 36
How do we live out the message of Jesus in today’s ever-changing culture? The church is facing its greatest challenge - and its greatest opportunity - in our postmodern, post-Christian world. God is drawing thousands of spiritually curious “imperfect people” to become his church - but how are we doing at welcoming them? No Perfect People Allowed shows you how to deconstruct the five main barriers standing between emerging generations and your church by creating the right culture.
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5 out of 5 stars
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No Perfect People Allowed
- By Robin on 04-19-09
By: John Burke
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Let Hope In
- 4 Choices That Will Change Your Life Forever
- By: Pete Wilson
- Narrated by: Van Tracy
- Length: 5 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 26
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 23
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Story5 out of 5 stars 23
Your past is not your past if it’s still impacting your present. Do you ever feel as though your life has become a broken record? You’re hearing the same song play over and over again? Nearly every human being on earth has likely spent some time on the carousel of pain. Whether you’re dealing with the guilt and regret of your own sinful choices, or you’re sitting in the shame of someone else’s deceitful actions, God wants to bring you healing.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Pete Wilson has practical advice and is inspiring
- By Steve on 06-28-15
By: Pete Wilson
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Enemies of the Heart
- Breaking Free from the Four Emotions That Control You
- By: Andy Stanley
- Narrated by: Lloyd James
- Length: 6 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 807
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 676
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 670
In this compelling and helpful book pastor and author Andy Stanley wrestles with what he calls"four invaders of the heart": guilt, anger, greed, and jealousy. One or another of these caustic emotions sabotages lives on a daily basis and destroys relationships. But Stanley assures listeners that there is hope. In his trademark style - smart, engaging, and popular - he examines where these powerful forces come from and reveals effective strategies for overcoming them.
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5 out of 5 stars
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ARE YOU UP FOR A CHALLENGE?
- By Keron on 12-19-11
By: Andy Stanley
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3 out of 5 stars
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not complete
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A must read for anyone that's in dating mode...
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Our desire to grow runs deep. Yet the issues in our lives and relationships that we wish would change often stay the same, even with our best efforts at spiritual growth. Unpacking the practical and passionate theology that forms the backbone of their counseling, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend shatter popular misconceptions about how God operates to reveal how growth really happens.
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Excellent
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An Audiobook That Everyone Should Hear
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Necessary Endings
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While endings are a natural part of business and life, we often experience them with a sense of hesitation, sadness, resignation, or regret. But consultant, psychologist, and bestselling author Dr. Henry Cloud sees endings differently. He argues that our personal and professional lives can only improve to the degree that we can see endings as a necessary and strategic step to something better.
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A Good One
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Trust is the fuel for all of life. We are wired biologically, neurologically, emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically to trust. Dr. Cloud explores the five foundational aspects of trust that must be present for any relationship to function successfully and helps us to understand how to implement them. He also guides us through the difficult process of repairing trust when it has been violated and broken, even when restoring trust feels impossible.
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Practical and thought provoking
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In Our Mothers, Ourselves, Henry Cloud and John Townsend show how understanding how our mothers have profoundly influenced our lives can set us on a path toward wholeness and growth. No one has influenced the person you are today like your mother. The way she handled your needs as a child has shaped your worldview, your relationships, your marriage, your career, your self-image - your life. Our Mothers, Ourselves can help you identify areas that need reshaping, to make positive choices for personal change, and to establish a mature relationship with Mom today.
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NOW I UNDERSTAND
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For when your trust has been broken: Discover how to set firm boundaries again, how to connect deeply without being hurt, and how to safely grow your most intimate relationships. Painful relationships violate our trust, causing us to close our hearts. But to experience the freedom and love God designed us for, we eventually have to take another risk.
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2 out of 5 stars
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VERY Christian oriented
- By KK on 06-30-12
By: John Townsend
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Boundaries, Updated and Expanded Edition
- When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
- By: John Townsend, Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 11 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 7,540
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Join the millions who have learned how to take control of their lives by setting healthy boundaries with their spouses, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even themselves—in order to live life to the fullest. In Boundaries, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend share the lessons they've learned in their years of practicing psychology and studying the patterns and practices that support clear biblical boundaries. You'll learn the ins and outs of setting the boundaries that will transform your daily life.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Wonderful but should probably mention religion or the Bible in title
- By Victoria Robben on 06-06-18
By: John Townsend, and others
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Loving People
- How to Love and Be Loved
- By: John Townsend
- Narrated by: Matthew Josdal
- Length: 7 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 75
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 67
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Best-selling author Dr. John Townsend teaches you that love can actually be learned and gives you the steps and tools to become skilled in love. Using his trademark stories to flesh out the important principles, Dr. Townsend covers receiving love, connecting love, healing love, confronting love, romantic love, and surrendering love. Through his teaching, listeners will discover - and start enjoying - the words, actions, and experiences of authentic love.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very insightful
- By Amazon Customer on 05-17-19
By: John Townsend
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9 Things You Simply Must Do to Succeed in Love and Life
- A Psychologist Learns from His Patients What Really Works and What Doesn't
- By: Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 66
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 59
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Years of counseling enabled Dr. Henry Cloud to observe people trying to work out the most important issues of life. If we sincerely want to "get life right" and quit repeating the same mistakes, 9 Things You Simply Must Do provides the practical guidance we need to live life to its fullest.
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5 out of 5 stars
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The Proof Is In The Pudding
- By Semone Danage on 06-06-24
By: Henry Cloud
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Boundaries in Marriage
- Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
- By: Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: Dick Fredricks
- Length: 9 hrs
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 2,696
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,176
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In Boundaries in Marriage, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, counselors and authors of the New York Times bestseller Boundaries, teach us that healthy boundaries are the property lines that define and protect you and your spouse as individuals. Once you have them in place, a good marriage can become better, and a less-than-satisfying one can even be saved.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Boundaries *ARE* scriptural - ignore noisemakers
- By JBM on 12-10-12
By: Dr. John Townsend, and others
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The Power of the Other
- The Startling Effect Other People Have on You, from the Boardroom to the Bedroom and Beyond - and What to Do About It
- By: Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: George Newbern
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,351
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,168
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,161
Combining engaging case studies, persuasive findings from cutting-edge brain research, and examples from his consulting practice, Dr. Cloud argues that whether you're a Navy SEAL or a corporate executive, outstanding performance depends on having the right kind of connections to fuel personal growth and minimize toxic associations and their effects.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Which Corner Are You In?
- By Jeffrey Wooten on 07-07-16
By: Henry Cloud
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Boundaries for Leaders
- Results, Relationships, and Being Ridiculously in Charge
- By: Henry Cloud
- Narrated by: Henry Cloud
- Length: 7 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,096
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 936
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 926
In Boundaries for Leaders, Dr. Henry Cloud gives leaders the tools and techniques they need to achieve the performance they desire - in their organizations and in themselves. Drawing on the latest findings from neuroscience, Dr. Cloud shows why it's critical for leaders to set the conditions that make people's brains perform at their highest levels. How do great leaders do this? One way is through the creation of "boundaries" - structures that determine what will exist and what will not.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Slow read
- By A. Yoshida on 10-29-16
By: Henry Cloud
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- Micaela
- 04-21-21
everyone needs to read this book
everyone needs to read this book. i feel healthier just listening to it. it is certainly a challenge to be a good friend and better person.
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- DIYdude
- 03-11-17
great book with lots of insight and advice
great book with lots of knowledge on being a safe person and knowing how to deal with unsafe people
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- Kavita Gupta
- 01-10-19
Most useful Bridging to the next level
Loved the organization and what is our problem in finding abusers or folks who take advantage of us.
My favorite parts are how to find safe people and how to become safe person, too!
Already heard 7th time... better perception and transformation. Thank you, my friend who sent it!
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- Anonymous User
- 10-08-20
Absolute must for all!
Amazingly inciteful and helpful. I would recommend everyone to go through this entire book at least once. I have the hard copy to underline and bookmark and have listened to it in audio form twice, catching things I missed the first time around. So thought provoking and liberating ...love it!
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- Midas.M
- 08-16-19
Brought awareness to my current relationships.
This book opened my eyes to see plenty of nooks and crannies in my relationships. I would recommend this book to everyone for it refers to Biblical scriptures on how we should handle and maintain relationships. It has helped me realize that it’s okay to need people.
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- Cammie Freed
- 02-11-18
invaluable lessons
The essence of how we relate to others and find healthy relationships is key to our success in life, mind and spirit. I highly recommend this book for anyone.
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- B brady
- 09-19-20
So helpful
This book was so very helpful for me as an passive empath I’ve struggled with setting boundaries and being in hurtful relationships with other women
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Overall5 out of 5 stars
- Mark Troisi
- 04-06-21
Relationships
This was a great book for ALL my relationships..it was so helpful to know how to set boundaries with friends, family and spouse..
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- Amazon Customer.
- 06-07-22
very helpful
great book. very helpful at this point in my life. just what i needed. great
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- Denecia Jones
- 04-04-17
Great book
This book should be given to everyone before they start dating. Amazing insight. I'm so happy I read it. It is a life changer.
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