Love Landmines

How to Spot & Eliminate Deadly Relationship Habits

By: Kara Kent

Narrated by: Victoria Cleveland

Are you walking through a relationship minefield? Too often, destructive patterns and harmful habits sabotage the love and connection we crave, leaving us hurt and confused. In Love Landmines, you’ll learn how to identify these hidden dangers and disarm them before they destroy your relationship. With practical advice, relatable examples, and actionable steps, Love Landmines equips you to transform unhealthy patterns into life-giving habits that build trust, intimacy, and lasting joy. Whether starting fresh or seeking to renew a longstanding relationship, this book will guide you toward the love you’ve always wanted and deserved.

Drawing on practical insights, relatable stories, and proven strategies, this guide will help you:

• Uncover the unconscious behaviors that create emotional distance.
• Replace toxic habits with life-giving practices that deepen trust and intimacy.
• Navigate conflict in a way that strengthens your bond instead of tearing it apart.
• Realize the ways you have contributed to the decline and distance.
• Begin to be aware of the landmines that have tripped you up in your life.
• Recognize the realities of changing yourself, as no one can force another to change.
• Find real peace and serenity in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance.
• Know when or if restoration and reconciliation are possible or not.
• Take action in spotting and disarming your love landmines forever.

Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, Love Landmines equips you with the tools to foster a thriving, healthy relationship.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2025 Kara L. Kent (P)2025 Kara L. Kent

Recognize unhealthy patterns

This book was a real eye-opener for me. I've been in a few relationships that, looking back, were riddled with drama and just...didn't work. I always wondered what went wrong, but I never really took the time to understand my own role in those dynamics. This book helped me do just that. It's not about blaming anyone, but it's about recognizing unhealthy patterns and taking responsibility for your part in them.

Excellent!

I really enjoyed this wonderful listen! It explains all the common but toxic behaviors that can quietly damage relationships. The author explains each “landmine” in a clear, relatable way and offers practical solutions to fix them. I found myself reflecting on my own habits and learning how to communicate better. The advice is simple but powerful. This is a great read for anyone who wants to build healthier, stronger relationships.

Transform Your Relationship

I found the advice incredibly practical, helping me identify and disarm the emotional habits that were unknowingly causing issues. The real-life examples made it relatable and easy to apply. This audiobook gave me the clarity to build trust and navigate conflict more constructively.

Eye-Opening and Super Helpful!

This audiobook really made me reflect on my own marriage. There were so many tips that helped me see where we’ve fallen into some of these common relationship traps without even realizing it. I especially liked the practical tips on improving communication and avoiding unnecessary conflicts, and it’s given me a better understanding of how small changes can make a big difference. A great listen for anyone who wants to strengthen their relationship!

Sound advice for creating lasting love

This audiobook is like a relationship survival guide, breaking down toxic habits and showing how to fix them. It’s packed with real talk, relatable stories, and legit advice on handling conflict, trust, and personal growth. There is no fluff—just ways to build better connections and avoid the same mistakes. Whether starting fresh or trying to make things work, this book keeps it real and helps create lasting love.

A must-read for healthier relationships

This book offers eye-opening insights into common relationship pitfalls and how to avoid them. The advice is practical, easy to apply, and focuses on building stronger, more fulfilling connections. I appreciated how it encourages self-reflection without feeling judgmental. If you’re looking to break unhealthy patterns and create lasting, positive relationships, this is a great resource to have.

Healthier connections!

This book gets to the point with many examples of deadly relationship habits and how they can be eliminated. It discusses other challenges like blaming, codependency, controlling, rescuing, fixing and enabling, silent treatment, rehearsing, nursing and cursing, denial, and unforgiveness, with examples and recommendations on how to avoid or resolve these challenges. It’s highly recommended!

very impressive

This audiobook dives into those tricky relationship habits that can sneak up on you and cause major issues. The author breaks everything down in a way that feels super relatable, making it easy to spot these “landmines” in my own relationships. I appreciated the practical advice and tips for eliminating those habits, which honestly felt like a breath of fresh air. If you’re looking to strengthen your connections and avoid unnecessary drama, this is a must-listen. Totally recommend it for anyone wanting to navigate love more smoothly! ❤️💣

Totally recommend

This book really made me reflect on the little habits that can quietly damage a relationship without even realizing it. It helped me recognize the unhealthy patterns I’ve fallen into—like avoiding tough conversations or expecting my partner to read my mind—and gave me practical ways to fix them. The advice felt real and doable, not just generic relationship clichés. I walked away feeling more aware and better equipped to build a stronger, healthier connection.

Helpful for identifying my own patterns

I picked this up hoping to understand why my relationships always felt stuck. It pointed out things I hadn’t noticed about how I react to conflict and how small habits can push people away. The part about recognizing my own role in relationship struggles really made me think. It won’t fix everything overnight, but it gave me good steps to start improving how I communicate and handle problems. I feel more aware of what I need to work on.